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Who would you rather be with ??

So I just heard an Incredible story about this guy who got admitted to study in the UK, He was quietly making all his travel arrangements but decided to tell his best friend a day before he was supposed to travel.
You know what the friend did? He asked if he could accompany him to the hotel near the airport where he was staying. That night, the best friend took his passport, tore out the visa page, and fled.

Jetland:
They legally married in Nigeria, yet you said they were not intimate?

For travel purposes only.

emmy4real94:
But they are not related or married, how could she has been a dependent legally? Also the guy could have removed her from the visa at once it not for fear she may report him and both of them deported..

They married legally in Nigeria and she travelled as his spouse. Every process was legit. The agreement they had is just verbal.

eazzzy1:
If after school they both go their own way, what is the benefit of the arrangement to the girl? Should she not start schooling while the guy pays half of her tuition too?

She should have exposed the scam to the home office before they told her to leave the country. They both would have been sent home.

There's nothing to back it up. The whole process was legit. It was just a verbal agreement.

advanceDNA:
Mr maturity!!! So if he was mature like u, how would he have handled the issue....??

The conditions of the transaction was rigged against him from the start because it's easy for the lady to walk away and that's why she took the deal in the first place...
..and if u think being in a relationship her will make her now pay then you are the one that's not mature........she just wanted to live rent free..she never had intentions of paying from the start

U fvck a Nigerian woman, in her head u automatically owing her rent, food, monthly salary and siblings allowance..

They were never intimate.

correctyourself:
The guy did not do well because at a point the lady wants them to be together and the guy refused! I think rhe story is more than what you wrote here.

The guy was not mature in handling this issue because students in UK also work while schooling the authority encouraged them to do so, lazy guy waiting for the Lady to pay all that money, contract can be amended base on situations. Black man's mentality of entitlement

The agreement was to split the balance 50-50.

What's your Advice and opinion about this.
This is actually true life scenario and I'm posting for someone anonymously.

A guy and a lady planned to travel to the UK on a student visa together they contributed and paid the deposit. The plan and agreement was that the guy will study then the lady will work to help with the tuition fee payment of £18k 50-50. then after school everyone will go their way.

Before they traveled, the lady was subtly catching feelings for the guy but the guy was having none of it because it's just contract for him.

When they got to the UK last year, they both moved to different cities , the guy started school and she got a job and started working.

When it was time to pay the balance of the tuition, the lady refused to contribute to the payment. Claiming she doesn't have money and if she must pay it, she will have to move in with him and start acting like his wife.

The guy refused and reminded her about the agreement. She insisted on her own ideas. When she saw that the guy was not bulging she blocked him on all social media so he was not able to reach her for sometime.

When the pressure from school became too much , the guy started hustling day and night breaking his back and still covering his lectures and assignments.

The guy was tempted to remove her from his visa because he's the main visa holder and she's the dependant but he didn't , hoping that she will still fulfill her own part of the agreement.

She remained incommunicado untill the guy managed to pay off all the tuition, passed all his courses and finished school.

Few months after he finished school , she reached out and was acting all friendly. Apparently the company she was hoping to get a sponsorship from disappointed her so she was trying to buy her way into jumping on the 2 years post graduate visa the guy was about to apply for.

Remember, out of the £18k tuition , she only contributed £2k for the deposit and refused all further payments. Now she wants to give the guy £2k to take him on his post graduate visa.

The guy refused and removed her from his visa because of her wickedness and untrustworthiness.
Her visa expired and as she was not able to see a sponsor,she was asked to leave the country .now she's in Nigeria swearing for the guy. Threatening to report him to her village juju etc.

Do you think he did the right thing??

Posting for a friend anonymously.

Guys please help me analyse this situation I find myself in with my parents . A situation whereby parents are civil servants in their early 60's , all their children have all grown, married and living their separate lives. They are have never earned more than 60k a month as salary allowance through their working lives . Their house rent is being taken care of . But they are always complaining that the 200k per month feeding money given to each of them, (that's 400k) every month is not enough to cater for their needs. What do you think is the problem 🤔

Guys please help me analyse this situation I find myself in with my parents . A situation whereby parents are civil servants in their early 60's , all their children have all grown, married and living their separate lives. They are have never earned more than 60k a month as salary allowance through their working lives . Their house rent is being taken care of . But they are always complaining that the 200k per month feeding money given to each of them, (that's 400k) every month is not enough to cater for their needs. What do you think is the problem 🤔

TheWinterBird:
It seems she was unconscious during that time. The hospital did not tell you the cause?

They ran checks and didn't find anything. Said she's fine.

Babangidapikin:
Lucky you, hope you asked her where she travelled to in the afterlife.

Said she was Wandering in darkness, untill a hand pulled her to the light .

Let me tell you a a true life story.


It actually happend about 10 years ago but the memories will live with me forever . Although I have not talked about it on social media but I feel like telling the story so that people will learn. It's a long story but I'll make it brief.

I was cohabiting with my girl back in the Uni, we have been like that for a few years , but then one day I came back to my lodge late in the night because I watched a football game on my way back from school. I opened my door and met my girl on the floor. She was motionless and her eyes were wide open, I checked her pulse but I couldn't feel anything. Her teeth and her palms were clenched tight. I panicked and just froze at the spot not knowing what to do. I then called a few people in the lodge and alerted them about what was happening but before I knew it , the whole lodge people have gathered in my room and outside the door.

Nobody could tell what must have happend to her. We thought about rushing her to hospital but the school clinic is closed and there are no good hospitals in the area because the school is in a remote location, and it was almost midnight at the time. Some people did different type of first aid on her , trying to see if they can revive her but after few hours there still wasn't any sign of life.
People started suspecting that she might be dead and started taking somethings from their rooms and leaving the lodge immediately. Out of the 30 occupants of the lodge only one person (student pastor) remained with me. The rest ran away from the lodge ,even my best friend .🙁

The student pastor prayed and prayed to see if she will come back to life but nothing happend , at about 4am the Pastor told me that he has done everything he can and that it's in the hands of God now. He then went to his room. It was just the two of us left in the building.

I sat down in my room, I didn't know what to do, I couldn't cry , I thought about how I was going to be arrested and charged for murder when in truth I'm innocent, which nobody will believe because of nigeria justice system. I thought about my parents , how they sacrificed to send me to school not knowing I was cohabiting with a girl . At some point I thought about running away, but that will mean I'm guilty and perhaps how far and how long would I be on the run before I would be caught.

I didn't know who to call , I was just bereft of ideas. I decided I'll submit myself to the police in the morning and explain what happend and possibly face the consequences. As I sat there waiting for day to break, I started scrolling through my phone contacts.
Mind you, I believe in God but I'm not a very religious person. I came across one pastor that gave me his phone number a long time ago. I then decided to just try my luck and call him. I called him and he picked up the call immediately as if he was waiting for the call.
I wanted to tell him what's happening, but he cut me short and told me he already knows. That he was disturbed in the spirit and God revealed it to him so he started praying but he didn't know it was for my situation he was praying for at that time.

He told me I should not be afraid , that everything will be fine. He asked me if I have any sachet water around , I looked around and got a sachet water . He then asked me to put the phone ontop of the water so her can pray in it. I did as he asked. After praying , he then asked me to try and force open her mouth anyway I can pour some water inside ,then sprinkled the rest all over her body.

I did everything he instructed. He then told me that everything will be alright and ended the call. By then it was almost 6am in the morning. I just sat there starring at her , then I saw her hand move a little bit, I cleaned my eyes and got closer to her so as to be sure my eyes were not deceiving me. Her hand moved again , then her legs . Before I knew it she opened her eyes and sat up. I couldn't believe my eyes, I was in shock and was wondering if I'm imagining the whole thing.

Then she spoke and asked me what's happening, and why is her body wet with water . I rushed out and called the student pastor who came running in to witness the first miracle of my life. He was singing praises to God. I knelt down and prayed to God and thanked him for the first time in a very long time . I made her a cup of tea after which she has a shower.

At about 7am in the morning, none of my lodgemates have returned . I looked outside the gate from my room and saw some of them with other people gathered in small groups whispering, waiting to get the full gist of how my girl died in my room .

I called my bike guy to come to the lodge because I want to take her to the hospital for checkup, I then came down to the gate with my girlfriend. As they saw her , they opened their mouth with shock and we're too surprised to talk.

To cut the whole story short . I learnt some valuable lessons . Cohabiting with anybody you are not married is very risky, you wouldn't know the risk until something happens to him or her.
The second lesson I learnt was that, when you get in trouble that's when you will know that you are alone, people will run away from you.

Anyways , we continued dating, but I rented an apartment for her so stay separately. I also stopped her from sleeping in my place. Untill we eventually parted ways after I graduated.

Laple0541:
If you are able to call your father stupid, then feel free to use it on anyone. Mannerless pig.

Still doesn't change the fact that you are an idiot.

Laple0541:
Now that the NANS had backed out of the strike, seems it’s only the brewery fraudster and his zombie supporters will remain for the strike.

Anyway, they have the right to strike, but I will advise they do it in the East this time around since the last one (#Endsars) was in the West. if they witness one-quarter of the level of destruction experienced in Lagos the last time, they will know what’s up!

How stupid can you as human being be?? Northerners declared protest you are calling south easterners.

Pogba12:
Wallai, I just bought this tomato in Garki Abuja at 1000 naira.
The average basket is 10k.

Does it mean price of food items are cheaper here in the UK?

donbrowser:
Who is advising this guy's lawyer, plead guilty and you're back in 6 months. This case might take 2 years, he will spend money and still not win it.

Can you listen to yourself??

Cubana tell u say he no get money??

And they will say asaba is not igbo??

rexesq:
If not fake why countering all suggestions? You want the thread to grow?

Pls, moderators, close this already!

So if someone gives a suggestion that doesn't entirely make sense I'll keep quiet?? What do you mean by "for the thread to grow?? Whether it grows or not, do I earn any money from it . If you don't have anything valuable to suggest just ignore the post ok.

Gadafii:
Demand for her account statements for a year and see what she spends money on or who she sends money to, this will help a bit

However I will suggest you stop paying the loan sharks once she defaulted for a long time they wil blacklist her and can’t take loans anymore

That has been done secretly..but there's only cash withdrawals no transfers to any number.

TheFreshVanilla:
Another stupiid fake story.

It's not fake bro, it's a real life situation.

Nonexisting:
No measure will be too harsh to stop your mother with limited future from destroying you with unlimited future.

I guess you are right .

Wealthoptulent:
the DEBT no be potashium too, u come dey say HARSH, continue paying DEBT... abi she dey play SPORTTY with zero surety

Lol...she can't be involved in sport betting.

Nonexisting:
Put a scammer alert on her phone number, report her BVN and NIN for identity theft, no agency will lend her money ever again. Problem solved.

Isn't this too harsh??

foxxydude:
She may have also been hypnotized

Can such a thing last for years

Acidosis:
You better investigate that woman. 1 or more of these 3 things are at play here;

1. A false prophet has scammed her soul.

2. One sugar boy has captured her heart.

3. She's being blackmailed (sex or nudity).

She has been asked about all the above , she denied having anything to do with the above. But still wouldn't or doesn't know what she does with money.

Hi Guys. I am posting for a friend who doesn't want to be named but he seriously needs your advice and possible suggestions on this matter.

He is the only son and has a sister , his father is also still alive .the problem is his mother, she keep borrowing money in hundreds of thousands and expecting the son to repay those loans. She wouldn't even inform him before taking loans, he only gets to know about it when the loan sharks come knocking. He has been paying back loans that have run into millions for the mother for the past 6 years. The painful part is when you ask her what she is using those monies for, she will always say she doesn't know or does not remember.
Each time after promising not to take loans anymore ,before you know it she will take another one. The son usually pay her monthly upkeep money so she is not lacking anything.

Right now she is in serious brand new debt and she's running to the son for rescue and he is fed up. He can't abandon the mother and also can't keep paying back loans he doesn't know anything about.

And I am here in the UK battling cold , wishing for Nigerian weather .

mariahAngel:
State at least one thing you do that others (around you) find weird.
Let us see how oddly different/alike we are, shall we?

I hate compliments, if I do something for you and you compliment me , I'll try not to do it again.

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A man divorced his wife because she got pregnant immediately they arrived in the UK and that affected her studies, making her fail and wasn't able to secure the student route visa for them to remain in the uk.

But the man, as the dependent, stayed for a whole year but couldn't secure a sponsorship visa that would make him and his family remain in the Uk.

He even opened mouth to call your wife a dūllard! Someone he impregnated immediately he entered UK.

Who is to be blamed in this dilemma??

It's 95% possible that your best friend is sleeping with your boyfriend/girlfriend. But due to the trust we have for our besties we tend to overlook the obvious signs and red flags . If you pay more attention and investigate closely you will find the truth.