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chukwutee:
Celebrate victory for the Nigeria people against a terrorist! Good step in the right direction !

NastiLord:
Love it or hate it, Chelsea is a big Club. Forget Real Madrid or Barcelona na just olden days hype with pass glories.

Chelsea for life!!

ALISMILE:
Isreal is simply a terrorist entity, a stain on the collective conscience of our generation

PexinPikin:
Madueke z a very good player dat will b of great help to Arsenal

Casham:
My cousin just told me last night that she just got raped on Sunday afternoon/evening (6th July, 2025).

I stay with them for now. She's 18, the first of two daughters and was still virgin (as far as I know). Her only [older] brother is in school.

She's been acting funny since on Sunday evening. She couldn't hold it in anymore and, since there is no one else she could actually confide in, she confided in me. Now she's begging me not to tell anyone and not to cause trouble. She only wants me to help her get a drug (if any) that will prevent pregnancy.

She told me about the man coming to see her in her mother's restaurant and said she was going to talk to the man about getting me a job, but when she went into his car, he forced himself on her.

Honestly I am angry right now! I am angry at three things:

First, I am angry at my family. I have a family where the children are afraid to open up, because if you do, you will be blamed and castigated upon. I understand her fear and apprehension about letting other people know, but I just can't let this go.

Secondly, I am angry at our society. How can a man confidently feels he can force himself on a lady and get away with it? What kind of society do we have?

Thirdly, I am angry at myself. I am angry because I feel helpless. I can't let this thing go. I have to deal with this man, but I don't know how to do it without putting my cousin in a difficult position. I have tried to let her know that it is not her fault and that the man needs to pay for this, but she's been begging me to just let it go. She only confided in me because she's really scared of getting pregnant.

According to her though, there was never any real penetration, but the man (who is a high ranking government official) actually "released" ON her, not IN her. (Does that even make sense?)
How can I handle this issue right now? For me, I am planning to go all out and let hell break loose and let the heavens fall if they have to.

ddippset:
Wike is also claiming Saint.
Why is that one not your concern too?

Why is it only Amaechi's own that is your concern?

SifonAbasi:
How does revealing your secrets to your partner a symbol of weakness?

SifonAbasi:
Nobody should have a secret. It destroys a relationship faster than cheating.

Quelme:
who is the mad man you are referring to, can you elucidate please?

Quelme:
The evil empire will be brought to his knees, just time.

Dreal1247:
One of the biggest motivation to hustle harder is when you realize that you are on your own and that if anything happens to you, you don't have anyone to run to

God1000:
Well Russia, China & North Korea are calmly monitoring & would also start striking when USA starts with her foolishness

TempleHouse:
Israel will not try to attack Ayatollah !

That would endanger the whole Israel nation.

That would be Netanyahu Waterloo !!

Apologize:
It was exactly people like you that called Noah a mad man while he was announcing about an incoming Global flood.
It is exactly your type that said MMM will never crash,
it is still your type that said Covid-19 was a hoax.
Its possible if you lived in Hiroshima around 6 August 1945 you would have also said a nuclear bomb is not strong until it vaporised you alongside your daft brain.

MeaslesMumpsRub:
Please somebody should explain to me in layman terms why pdp cannot sack wike.

Jashub:
Its still on the topic. So back to the question : you fit push wheel-barrow?

Wizardslayer:
The killings are not hatred towards Benue people according to Gowon, but show of love.

No be me talk am ooo na gowon.

ZBUGZY:
Easily said than done. If na so everybody go Dey play 9. Even me

arantess:
69 more goals is a tough ask at his age.

I doubt he will make it

Unless penalties go dey plenty