cococandy:
Stop abusing your housemaid and seizing her property.
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ImaIma1:


Please put her at arms length and desist from being too familiar with her. Over familiarity breeds contempt, disrespect and all. You need to be very firm. Maybe she thought your play was you making passes at her.

Please do not buy her a gift as someone suggested. That will just give her more power and reason to continue acting rude.

Hide your teeth and don't give her all that attention. She will learn with time.

madridguy:
Bro you go dey manage any disrespect you're getting from her till she finally matured or you leave your parent roof.

michlins:
those claims are without proof. How does what she does affect your relationship with your younger ones

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In a house filled with people, it's just you that the girl picked out to disrespect. She left the younger ones to pick you the eldest. Bros you're not telling us the whole story. When your story complete, let us know

michlins:
those claims are without proof. How does what she does affect your relationship with your younger ones

michlins:
And who're you in the house to order her around?


Just because she's your parents house help no make her your slave. Biko back up

madridguy:
Are you sure you never make any advance to her? check your closet and be honest with us

espionagesavvy:
Call it a truce. Buy her a gift, call her and counsel her but firmly. Intimate her on the risks of her actions.

Lastly I dont know why you want her respect, respect doesnt feed anybody, as long as she does what is assigned to her. Respect is overrated. If she still fails to respect you, ignore it since that is the only way she wields power over you. Deny it to her

Hambivert:
Sparogatively, I have one question for you before I give you my suggestion.

Have you ever called anyone SIMP on Nairaland or offline in your lifetime?

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Simply tell your parents about this, they should be able to talk better to her.

And one more VERY IMPORTANT advice from us to you : NEVER EVER lay your hands , NEVER EVER BEAT HER AGAIN PLEASE.
There are many ways to discipline someone without beatings.
She may slump unexpectedly or hit her head at the edge of a table and in one attempt of her running away from your beatings.
(Devil does foolish and evil things you know!)

And you don't wanna go to jail for murder aight?
Think about this kid bro.