₦airaland Forum

Please my people, I have never been this confused and bothered in my life.

I have a Canadian VV, I couldn't use it for the purpose I needed it as the visa came out some months later. I have relatives in Canada who are convincing me to come over and seek Asylum. It's new to me but I'm still trying to make some research about asylum seeking.

I graduated 2015 with a CGPA of 4.3 and since then I've not been able to get a good job.

Please, is it worth it considering the fact that Nigeria is getting worse by the day?

Please my people, I have never been this confused and bothered in my life.

I have a Canadian VV, I couldn't use it for the purpose I needed it as the visa came out some months later. I have relatives in Canada who are convincing me to come over and seek Asylum. It's new to me but I'm still trying to make some research about asylum seeking.

I graduated 2015 with a CGPA of 4.3 and since then I've not been able to get a good job.

Please, is it worth it considering the fact that Nigeria is getting worse by the day?

The topic says it all, I've been puzzled as to why SEUN who is the owner of Nairaland has refuse to do anything to curb this menace on Nairaland called TRIBALISM which has been ongoing for years.

Whether you like it or not Nairaland has been the major source of fuel in the fire of tribalism amongst netizens in Nigeria.

What is currently going on in the country has shown how politicians are trying to pitch us against ourselves and loot the national treasury while we fight ourselves both on line and off line. The truth is that the major problem of Nigeria is bad governance and not tribalism or any other problem you might think of.

So the question now is why has tribalism gone unabated on Nairaland for years?

joe4christ:
My only question for you is: when u masturbate, who do you think of, as in who do you see in your imagination. A guy or a girl?

Let's start from there first!

I masturbated to mostly pornographic videos involving a man and a woman.

Obakoolex:
Two things you failed to tell us:
1. Have you had sex with a woman before?
2. Do you smoke weed or take any other highness drug?

Number 2 can make you not get acquainted to any female at all especially if you're a solo person. I smoked a lot during my early level at the University, I gat no girlfriend, no female friend even my female neighbours don't talk to me yet am an handsome dude. Until reshuffled myself that I realized that only my eye balls that was always red and face like rescued drown man won't let any girl come near me moreover my vaseline no dey finish so I no send girls
But latter days were different even one young female lecturer collect before I grad

1. No, I've never had sex with a woman before
2. I smoked SK for a year and quit the same day I quit masturbation.

Good day,

I've been masturbating at an average of twice a day for the past 8 years, I really can't explain how it got to that level but I was so addicted to it that I could self-service when I'm sick or even fasting.

So recently I decided to call it quit, it's been 1 month now and it seems I'm waking up to the reality of not being in a relationship all my life, I'm 26 BTW and I've never felt so much urge and desire to be in a relationship as I'm feeling right now. I'm always of the opinion that I don't need a girl now and would definitely get one when I'm ready to settle down but it seems very hard for me to approach a girl and the thought of being in a relationship scares me, I feel the relationship might not last, I might not be committed and the girl might get bored and leave.

Through out my stay in the university and my NYSC days I had no single female friend and presently I have no female friend. When I'm in the midst of people I don't give audience at all to any female and might not even speak to them but I have lots of male friends, I know I'm not gay but I just don't feel that need to talk to a girl or keep up with them, I don't even have a single female contact on my phone.

I'm working and fairly comfortable now but I'm beginning to worry that I might not be able to fall in love or even get to approach a lady for any meaningful relationship and the worst of it all is relapsing (start masturbating again). Please I need your advice.