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Romance / Re: Counsellors Zone: Friendship, Relationship, Courtship, Partnership Etc by Kissbliss(f): 4:44pm On Oct 18, 2014 |
xtassie: wow. And i was here thinking ve heard it all. One thing we do here is give advice n make suggestions but the final decision lies wit u. Like i tell young girls who come to me, courtship is fine but if it takes too long it becomes ugly. Wen i first read ur post i was thinking. God! Dat list must ve been quite expensive but i dnt think so now. Here are my suggestions; 1. Its likely dat his parents dont really like u n are not in support of d marriage hence d problems once he goes to d village. Probably they ve someone they deem a better candidate for him. 2. Maybe he is developing cold feets and he is not sure marrying you is the ryt choice to make. 3. They myt b a secret, or a problem. Something u dont know about him which is standing in the way. He doesn't know how u will react wen u find out. Well, my advice is simple. Its never wise to marry into any family dt doesn't like u. I believe u need to make a stand n so does he. Communication is very important. Make him tell u wat the problem is n promise to help him work it out. Personally i wonder, if d wedding is ds troublesome how will marriage be? If all ds things can't be resolve 'soon' then u myt just ve to let him go so someone who understands you myt come in. If he is having second thoughts about marrying u then i think somethin has changed for him. Find out what and take ur stand. It myt hurt to let go but it gonna hurt more in d long run if u keep holding on to an illusion. God bless u 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Counsellors Zone: Friendship, Relationship, Courtship, Partnership Etc by Kissbliss(f): 8:58pm On Oct 17, 2014 |
Bunchersstab: am not dating doesn't mean ve never dated. |
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by Kissbliss(f): 1:11pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
ayokunlei: ve read dat book n honestly it didn't help alot. Why i act the way i act depends on the environment and the factors around. Ve been bullied, ve bullied others, i can be pretty feisty n yet i remember running from some fights. Sometimes i just wanna be alone n won't talk for days even if all my friends are with me and ve been know to talk n talk even wen everybody is quiet. My behaviours are fashioned by occasions and not some stuffs suppose to be ingrained in my DNA. Wats ur take on dt? |
Romance / Re: Counsellors Zone: Friendship, Relationship, Courtship, Partnership Etc by Kissbliss(f): 12:59pm On Oct 16, 2014 |
Bunchersstab: am not dating for now. Men are distractions i dont need at the moment |
Romance / Re: Reasons Why You Should Date A Shy And Introvert Guy. by Kissbliss(f): 6:58pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Bishopskiss: hahahaha. This fellow sounds just the way he talks. Bishop, you are something really. You wouldn't want me to use you as an example of how bad extroverts can be do you? |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 5:37pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
alotofgrace: i meant no offence. You can imagine how guys get on social networks. Especially if they are anonymous |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 5:34pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
MzMariah: no. You are absolutely correct. I still remember mine but it doesn't feel like yesterday. It feels like it happened in another life. Thanks to my pastors wife |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 5:21pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
MzMariah: not publicly. Email me. Besides they can't get over it by sitting on it. they need to get over it by talking to someone. Not necessarily me but anyone with listening ears |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 5:18pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
alotofgrace: somehow i knew someone was going to ask me to spill my own story. I share that with the people am counselling not people who wil make fun of it. It wasn't a nice thing to happen to anybody |
Romance / Re: Counsellors Zone: Friendship, Relationship, Courtship, Partnership Etc by Kissbliss(f): 3:55pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
Bunchersstab: we are not here to inspire. We are here to help people sail their relationShips the ryt way |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 3:50pm On Oct 12, 2014 |
spyg1: well, you see why people inbox me straight up. He's yet to tell us how it affected him. Then we will help with good advice |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 11:14am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Crocz: ya. You probably right. But i dont think you ve been raped before. U just can't think it didn't happen. Noone is that strong. It did happen so you just have to find a way to deal with it. As for here being a faceless forum i can assure you most girls dont get that. They have pictures EVERYWHERE!! |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 11:06am On Oct 12, 2014 |
LogoDWhiz: ya. I saw that possibility. We just have to see the silver lining and not the dark cloud |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 11:03am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Crocz: sorry bro, most ladies just inbox me directly. So if you are waiting to see if your girlfriend will report you... Maybe she will. Just kidding bro. Not all the ladies will post it directly on the thread especially if it was very serious and involved a Father or another close relation |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 10:54am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Mutuwa: well, brother, your case is quite familiar. Actually it happened to my brother. The most likely outcome of such incident in a guy is addiction to sex. They got a taste quite early in life and from someone older so that gives them skills and boldness. Only few shrink from women after such event |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 10:48am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Ploy: i hear you bro. And how are yom dealing with that? |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 10:46am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Crocz:actually that is just the kind of Molestation we are talking about. Guys and ladies both suffer from it. you won't believe the number of guys who were molested by older female relative while growing up |
Culture / Re: Weird Cultural Practices In Africa by Kissbliss(f): 10:18am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Bishopskiss: am sorry, are you saying that the abolition of female circumcision is directly connected with the loose morals of our young girls today? Pls, pray, tell |
Romance / Re: Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 10:13am On Oct 12, 2014 |
kozaic: ah.. I wouldn't say am a therapist. Am a counselor but in my experience a one on one conversation can give one the sense of calm and peace which seems to be the ultimate aim of therapy |
Romance / Rape Zone by Kissbliss(f): 9:55am On Oct 12, 2014 |
I have discovered something. Most victims of Rape would rather not talk about the incident to anybody. They keep it inside and it kills them slowly. The truth is noone remains the same after a rape incident. Such form of sexual abuse usually leave the victim scarred for life unless they can get to the point wher they can talk about it. The problem is they dont want anybody to know about it. So i have decided to create this thread to help them out. Good thing here is both the councellor and the one being advised can both remain anonymous. Come lets talk without the criticisms which u dread so greatly. Some of you even believe it was your fault. IT WASN'T. I'll be waiting. Dr Peaches 1 Like |
Culture / Weird Cultural Practices In Africa by Kissbliss(f): 9:37am On Oct 12, 2014 |
1st off all, a very big thank you to Nairaland for this opportunity. Kisses... We all know culture is our way of life which we must preserve bla bla bla.. But i think they are some cultural practices in Africa that must go. A big thanks to Mary slessor n the rest. But have twins really been accepted everywhere in Africa? And the concept of female circumcision is just gross. Pls, come, share some of the cultural practices in Africa you know and tell us why you support or disapprove of it |
Romance / Re: Counsellors Zone: Friendship, Relationship, Courtship, Partnership Etc by Kissbliss(f): 8:42am On Oct 12, 2014 |
Well. Interesting. No wonder he made me sign up. well. I hope we can save the world by helping people in here. I am Dr Peaches and i wish you a happy Sunday and a fulfilled week |
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