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joelala:
i almost thought this piece was written by my ex, everything you mentioned about this dude correlates with me; funny thing is our first date was going to the movies, but the part of eating pizza made the difference......The amazing thing about our relationship then, we were both Atheist.

If you're an atheist, you should know caps is a no no for the a in atheist. Take note of that

LordReed:
I acknowledge no such being so all gods will remain uncapitalised including your favourite one.

Lol you be Savage gan. G 4 goat

StoneColdBiceps:
Lol I laugh you. How clever or intelligent are you? Because you don't worship God now makes your village people "my my" and "local"? The next thing that's in line with you is to become gay? Seek God my guy/babe. Don't let strong willed people deceive you. Them go sell market, na you go buy am. When them catch you. Them go use their mouth bail themselves. Na you go become victim. Be wise. Leave all this social media dumbos. Look up to God. He's waiting for you.

Like he said local and dunces you just proved to be one

RALPHOW:
My question to aietists-:
1. Do you believe there is juju?
2. What do you think Sunday Igboho and Igbo guy used to stop bullet from penetrating their bodies?
3. Reference to the above questions, do you believe there is devil?
4. If there is devil, why do you think there is no God?
Please answer all the questions with all sincerity and you will see that you may be STUPID.
Asiwere eniyan ni yo so wipe Olorun kosi!!!

Lol ghosted . When you come out let us know we will embrace you with open arms and show you the world in a higher definition you had never seen before. For now keep studying. I replied because "aietists"

KillerofbadPPLE:
nice meeting here

Nice meeting �� here . I wish we could have our own forum and share ideas. It's long over due

emmahoney:
When did he speak with you about this? Oh! You read it in a book!!

They forget the moment they start to use that book as a reference the conversation is Dead and gone � these religious folks don't learn

I can say I am one of the people suffering from relationship uncertainties because am an atheist. People just want to block you because you are different, the ostracism is so much and that's the funny part either you use their negative energy to your advantage or Isolation go kill you. I have physically met only one atheist in my life and we have some similar experiences, positive and negative.

Now to answer op. I go marry the person without thinking twice it takes an extraordinary mind to come out of the box as a man not to talk of a woman. I rather worship her than any so called God or gods. How can a society survive without critical reasoning ? I take solace knowing what awaits the future generations *ENLIGHTENMENT*

P.S you don't spell atheist with a capital A at the beginning it is not a religion. Thank you ��

We go north problem, we go south problem, we go east wahala, we go west e choke . Nigerians pls allow us breath

Madibahisback:
Did we complain to you about his controversies ??
I'll rather listen to burna worse track than frog voice best track

Mofo

I Taya oo

[quote author=Kriss216 post=97992659]I always put extra N200 in the offering box every Sunday, just to thank God for keeping men like this OP away from my life.



Every sensible and well oriented guy should be a member of this great association. [/quote
bless you

Xilsbridalhouse:
I’m married...I can’t ! I won’t pray for such for any lady out there, nothing about being judgemental as they are usually not responsible.

A woman will never let the man be himself because she is selfish, she will call him irresponsible just to get at him because like I said she's selfish

kriss27:
You want her to feel involved as how OP? And what do you mean by EPs and pmsf?

Have always been accused of not listening and being too bossy I thought maybe a little change could help u know women complain of their men not listening a lot or hardly having a conversation

EP- extended play

Pmsfl- pissing myself on the floor laughing. It's a British slang

Classyuniquebae:
On a normal day, I wouldnt want to comment but I need you to know from a woman's perspective that I was touched seeing how you opened up and kinda tried to really have a heart-to-heart conversation with this lady but one thing is this " you deserve better Bro"

The lack of seriousness, commitment and the response to that very "most " important question you asked , which was; " what do you want from me and For me ?" Which she responded" I want to be happy " gave you all the answers you've been asking !

You are being considered as a side dude and just imagine lots of "ok's" as answers to all the confessions you made.

You definitely deserve better. You both aren't on the same IQ level or she just isn't into you ! Cuz it takes a lot for a man to pour out his emotions just like you did up there !

Thanks. I killed pride just to make my relationship work but it didn't. This is the same girl that knelt down to me in the house and said I should use her the way I like ( jokingly but romantically) I smiled and brushed it off. Well it is what it is. I told myself I deserve better long ago but I didn't want to just tell her straight out. But common sense forced my hand. I sent her the link to this thread and told her to block me on all social media platforms. Dead and gone. Bless me I can breath

Fvcknames:
I sabi dis guy

Fvcknames:
I sabi dis guy

For where ?

yetunsbay:
Op, although we know u would have spent on her.

The question is, have you yansh her too ?

If yes, then u no lose but if No,haaaaaaaaaaaa

Back to back EPs

Can't say I spent on her though.
More like independent shit ND I loved it because I wanted her to feel involved

Call me a rat � lol the long mouth rat pmsfl

Michelle55:
OH please spare me the sermon sweetie, she's just not into him anymore. Smoking has nothing to do with the attitude.

What right does she have to judge him for smoking if her blood can't wash away his sin? I know that smoking is bad but is it not better than when he drinks to stupor and womanize.

No relationship is perfect so choose your battle carefully, i don't want a Saint for a partner because I'm no Saint either.

Dude has agreed he has lots of flaws so what's the big deal, to me that's being real.
Infact I know understand some ladies sef, when a man is expressive he's been seen as a talkative and when he's quite, he's seen as a slow poison.
I just tire!

bless you ma. I couldn't pretend anymore so I held her up so early to have that conversation and am glad I did. I learnt something though, always know your worth

Xenry:
All I see here is a nice guy with a boring chat.

Lol thanks

Michelle55:
From all indications, you're the only one questioning and answering them..

Gosh! I hate it when one can't hold down a conversation without the usual ok, wdf, xup and whatnot..

Abeg which planet dem come from sef?

Op dust ya ass and move, it's too early to settle for less.

That was what I hated about her she talks smart and acts dumb. I always tell her you're lucky to have someone so expressive as I am and even has the patience to leave other things to hold a conversation with you that is not going to bring me money. I'd rather be on NL reading comments instead. Lol life sha. Don't know if I will ever love again, I swear I don't want to think about it sef

Xilsbridalhouse:
Perhaps she found out you smoke and wouldn’t stop anytime soon, then fell out of love with you.

No lady in her right senses will look forward to spending the rest of her Fairy tale life with a smoker! Never!!!

Funny thing is the first day we had sex I even smoked in the car when I went to pick her, she should have just stopped there. Even the first day we met I was surprised she would give me a listening ear because I was looking so baggard and I had not left the house for two weeks I just went out to get drinks and a pack of rizzla wen I met here. No simping allowed.

Dreyton36:
You're welcome man
Never ever run outta Arizona , very important

Lights up my kpoli in peace and listening to Burnaboy 23 because I no be 48

You're my man. That's my best Nigerian song 2020

SarutobiEky:
Choi. Hard luck eh?

I ain't doing relationship no more bro. Lessons well learnt bro

Stainlezzking:
You say you're old and independent but you don't know the game
BRO any girl that you text like this even if she loves you like maddd! She'd lose interest, there's no amount of text that I want to put here that'd coach you enough so I'll just leave this one for you

You're playing all your cards for her to see by telling her exactly how you feel, there's no surprises! Again with you..

Rule 1: want to get a girl? Answer is mixed feelings
Reason is : a girl will respect a flirty word like "you're cute" from a guy she's not too sure likes her than "I love you, you're my world" from a guy who has made it clear he's in love with her..

In essence Stop spilling your feelings to much, you think it's romantic but you're just bitching to her..

PS it's good you found out now because if you didn't notice thru the chat and went on w the relationship, it's only a matter of time before you'd be sending her money for hair not knowing that it's me taking her out after hitting.. Y'all make it too easy

 Good luck simp 

Thanks Alpha. If u see person when u no like loose body go tell you sha. It takes will power like mine to come out

zealousayo:
The only thing I observed is, you talk too much. You're a man nah. After all your epistle, you still got ok as a reply. Don't you know what that means? You're way too expressive. Even if I love a girl, I will try as much as possible to hide it, e get why.

Thanks boss I don learn. I am not the relationship type because my last relationship was years ago. Due to societal pressure ( will never fall for it again ) I decided to cultivate one that will lead to marriage u know this things na. Na so I take enter this one oo bros say make I show care and affection when I never show before and gbam e do me jigijigi lessons well learnt

Dreyton36:
OP this is for you whether u like it or not from a weed eye

1. You talk too much
2. you're very expressive and that's too bad
3. You love her way more than she does
4. You love her , she like u small (spot the difference)
5. Another guy who's codedly fvcking her is who she has at hrt
6. She's the affectionate type when she's with you and not through chat , that's where you know a bitchhh
7. You ruined it all by letting her know ur weakness and true feelings towards her
8. You smoke weed (Igbo) and cigar not Arizona
9. Men who smoke Arizona done reason the way you do
10. You love davido more than Wizkid that's why u reason immature

Tell me I'm wrong 100%

Lights up my kpoli in peace

Am gonna be honest because I can't kill me.

1 Sometimes I talk too much I agree
2 Very very expressive. I noticed it's too bad through this relationship I am very physical and passionate with the people and things I love
3 initially she loved me way more than I did her but immediately she started noticing how passionate I was boom attitude start. Person wen dey call me like 5 times a day hardly calls because na me come dey call pass so you're right again I was too expressive
4 I bleeped up and made her find out
5 I have never trusted any girl aside my first love so now am not surprised because I know what I saw in school back then. Uniben
6 Thanks I always suspected she's the bitchy type, especially while having se** na really the bitchy type of sex bro I dey tell u. Wen I connect the dots I see a bitch trying to package me. A whole me
7 Yes sir true talk
8 I smoke strictly high grade stopped smoking Igbo 2016
9 we are different bro, different personality
10 They are not in my top 30 artist but I prefer davido to wizkid. Ronaldo to Messi

Like I said am very expressive. Thanks for the time man

912:
Clearly you really like smoking weed. But please don't do it before starting a conversation so that you can at least make sense.

You were all over the place.

Thanks I wanted to be easy going as possible �. I mean the way they want us to act and all. I like playing along just like pastor Weaver

SarutobiEky:
Lmao. Them plenty wey be like that. Instead of them to cool down learn. Sha no take that girl serious if you love yourself.

Thanks bro, exactly what am saying. I almost did am just happy I could come out of it. Surprisingly this is the second person have loved in my whole life

badaru911:
Truly I don't understand this sh!T.... Just irritating me while reading it coz it gat n no meaning...

Thanks man. But one has to play along I take all women as clients I don't know about you

SarutobiEky:
This would be the second time one this platform I'd spot somebody using "condole" in the stead of "condone" besides in this context it's not entirely appropriate. Make una no dey mess with the small grammar wey I Sabi Na!

Dear Op. By pouring your hearts out, you've treaded on a dangerous path. You've become vulnerable. I pity you sha. Any thing that happens next is all your fault. You think You're doing good by acting needy, expressing your feelings to the girl. You just shot yourself right in your big toe, OP. Make I copy your gf. My condolences sir.

Actually I knew but I took the meaning of condole instead I felt she wanted to say condone though. It's not my biz she say she be adult and na graduate, uniport lol

Olakunleyakub:
Take your time to study her and pray about it... the lady might deserve more than freinds with benefits.

I can't really tells you 100% that she is a good lady or into you cos most times our actions are always different from what we say out online or offline.

Atleast, for telling you to quit smoking should be a turn on for you becos only reasonable woman can say that.

It seems you are beginning to like the lady more different from ur initial intention..

Anyway, love is a beautiful thing when you are with the right person but pls make sure you don't turn to simp or weak man along the line...

Observe her body language through the chats that isn't someone to pray about besides am an atheist I prefer logic

elipheleh:
OP I don't understand this your chat. If I be girl, I no go follow you talk past 10 seconds.
You are really incoherent and talk a lot for a man.
And I think you should know, the girl doesn't even consider you and her as a thing.

Exactly my thoughts but she acts differently when we are together. So affectionate, that was before she went home for Christmas though

JOACHINpedro:
Guy, imagine that chat to be speech, you for don gas out.




Lmao
Even the girl na "Ok" crew




You get?

I was even tired of chatting but I just kept my cool and acted like a gentleman to get to the end. OK as in okpo ?