₦airaland Forum

wwwkaycom:
what if your own mother comes visiting? she washes hers too?

fem29:
Why do ken hate washing their own clothing once married. I don't gerrit . Why is it such an issue.

If your wife is a house wife then yes she should probably handshake your clothes if no washing machine. If she works, and there is a washing machine then I'm sure she won't mind washing your clothes. If not wash your own bloody clothes! Your wife is not a beast of burden!

sdkalu:
By this question, family can break. It will either make the man sit up and understand that the wife is not a slave or house maid or make the woman to assume a position she doesn't have.

For me:
I wash my wife's cloths more than she washes mine. She washes mine also. It it not the duty of any one to be washing clothes for another. Everything should be done in love and understanding.

My wife didn't get a job after 1 and 5 months years of marriage, she washes more of the baby's cloths and during the weekend i wash ours. Men have to understand that there is a lot of work women perform at home that are hard work that men are yet to understand.

Personally i use to think what do women even do at home, i thought it was telemondo, African magic etc until i had a leave from work. I couldn't wait for my leave to be over, the house chores was too much for 2 people not to talk of 1 person. After that month i bought washing machine and other things to make life easy.

My advice is, women should do it with love, though Africa has enslaved women mindset which is changing by the day. But men should learn to understand that women are not slaves to subject to certain hard work. If you want a house help go and get one, if not help in everything around the house including cooking, washing, feeding the baby, changing diapers, washing plates etc.

God bless you all
You are Great

Josephnice:
My prayer everyday, God let me not get married to this kind of wo........

TheArchangel:
Same way women eye their horsebands apprentices and employees.
You know ....those youthful, six pack testosterone succulent boys with unwrinkled rod, the kind of guys that goes about their domestic assigned chores shirtless, with a visible raging 10 inches hard-on clad on a banana boxers.
You just have to show a littlle of your pantless honeypot for a glorifying quickie in a dark corner.

Laveda:
Go missGdope

Where's Giyazz

eitsei:
ehn ehn where you come from? Now I get it. Also if she comes she will wash her plates after eating too, she may even help you to clean the house no big deal there... So when your son grow up and marries don't be offended if his wife extends the gesture to you too

byvan03:
Should a man pay all his wife's bills? Won't paying all bills make him an ATM or her slave ? Some questions are just somehow. These things won't be a problem in a healthy marriage.

histemple:
I was almost shocked that a woman can be asking this question until I saw your moniker.

May God help us all.

eitsei:
So if your mother-in-law comes visiting you expect her to wash her clothes herself?

HaneefahRN:
Lolz, you will wash your own, wash his, wash your children's own and God help you if your mother-in-law lives with you, you will wash hers too. That's why I go crazy sometimes when women are called liabilities


Best thing, get a washing machine. Everyone should dump their clothes their if they want it washed.

hysteriabox:
ah... I tot u said u want to KNOW? It appears u rather want to ARGUE

Lezzlie:
Of course the wife? Who else?

ronald4lif:
Ok na, there are a million ways to say and show love and I'm not going to carry any woman's handbag unless in very rare and exceptional cases where she's indisposed to do so herself. I'm 17th century village man, no lele.

Kaycee7:
You're stereotyping anyone who says they won't help carry the bag as archaic, uncaring and unromantic. But when someone stereotyped them as wimps, you wouldn't have that. That goes to show how uncivilized and childish you are. If you have an opinion, be bold enough to state it. If you want others' opinion, be intelligent enough to accept them. Don't masquerade your opinion as a suggestion.

Nuff Said.

Kaycee7:
I have this strong feeling that your favorite song is "I ain't your mama" by J.Lo. Well my favorite song is "I ain't your papa" by Me.

ronald4lif:
As asked earlier, what happened to her hands? And why will I carry her handbag when she isn't indisposed to do so herself? Your idea of romance isn't same with everyone so respect dissenting opinion. Kapisch?

ronald4lif:
So a man has to be sissified and reduced to a wimp before you consider him romantic?

ShaqFu:
Hope you're not the female reincarnation of Freddy Krueger?

Lezzlie:
The despicable imagery that moniker conjured killed any response I had.

Lezzlie:
The despicable imagery that moniker conjured killed any response I had.

pcguru1:
Nope I can't , never will unless she's my wife and she's pregnant, I don't even carry my mother's handbag, that's gay territory.

postmann:
Why do I feel I know you?

smellingmenses:
you're tearing asses too? what happened 2da front door?

postmann:

Lezzlie:
She isn't near as bad as she's Leslie-dick-gropping