Benita27:
I know that, i am not of the notion that men should wash their wives undies.

Jodha:
Nobody's typing about pity here...

My own opinion is that no guy has the right to wound a woman's pride...

P. S I don't approach guys... It doesn't go that way... If a guy can't walk up to me and tell me he likes me.... Then... There's nothing I can do 'bouh it

balanceofterror1:


And a wise man will ask the wife to suck his dick and in turn suck her vagina abi?.

Benita27:
"Abomination" in Africa of course.

Benita27:
"it's not a crime if your husband washes your undies", of course not, but out of preference i would rather wash them myself.

I got your point though!.

balanceofterror1:

Can a stubborn man do it?.

Jodha:


You turned down three ladies and you're proudly typing it.... It's because of guys of your Cadre that i totally discourage... "women making the first move"...

No matter how badly she loves the guy..

balanceofterror1:


Some men can't even wash their wife's undies etc especially when she's sick or pregnant. Some don't even carry their wife along in business and investment etc. So many men are fake.

Chikelue2000:
Well I don't know what to even type, to support dis man or one pastor called Ize whatever, anyway time will tell

Tynasparks:
Hell No!!! .... Such words shouldn't be heard of.... Some feminist ehn i just cant understand them.

wizzyrich:
I happen to have a female friend serving in my primary place of assignment(PPA) who is more like a feminist. She always have this mentality that men and women are equal in the society(which I'm not disputing that). But the issue here is, she's also having that mentality towards any man she will settle down with.


We got into an argument few days ago and she insisted that when she's married, that the house chores must be shared equally with the husband. And that if at all she want to do these chores, that its shouldn't look as a right to the husband. She even went as far as saying after dining with the husband, that he is expected to clear the table and wash the plates being the fact that she went to the market and she prepared the meal.


Yesterday she made me believe she will cook for me while I went to watch ManU game against Hull city, but to my greatest surprise, I got home meeting the shiny empty plates I washed earlier on, I would have slept on an empty stomach if not for my lovely garri and beverages that rescued me. Her excuse this morning was that she slept off. I couldn't get angry because she's not my wife.

So I'm throwing these questions to the guys in the house, will you allow such attitude from your wife ? Will you shares the house chores equally with her ? And will you clear the table after dining with her ?


To the ladies, do you support her views ? if yes, tell us why.

Let's talk NL'dners

Jodha:
You would a man in his right senses turn down a lady...
Nonsense...

mytime24:
tankya

mytime24:
coooooooooooooooooooL

Idydarling:
pictures woulda made this post more satisfying op.... ♥

tessiebee:
hello.......have been a guest on nairaland since early last year but I decided to be a member today...............who's gonna be my friend ?

gibsonryan:
Her Name is Arikhan Beauty from Ekpoma Ihumudumu to be precise
she School's at AAU. during our whatsapp conversation, she told me
she is very good at giving blow jobs and rim jobs tried inviting her and sent
her some money to come to benin but she never showed up and that was when
i started to get the feeling that she is fake or simply and imposter.
just decided to trust her don't know if she is fake or real till now
don't want anyone else to fall victim to such
her contact 08145636612

ConcNiggress56:
Hello romance-landers. I am attracted to this guy- judefcc. Everyone h ates him. But deep down there, and every girl loves him. I am one of them. He oozes with confidence. I like a nigga who's got it and can flaunt it.

PS: not a gold digger. I do not entirely believe his story but nevertheless, I believe the confidence he displays

Bad Belle can hate. I know you wish to be in his shoes

deEntrepreneur:
Our relationship is now 8months old.

When we started dating, she told me about her past. Past relationships, breakups etc. Well, all fine and good. Her past was a little bit rough. But, she told me it was all to the past and she had left the memories behind.


She said she told me all that because she wouldn't want a situation where by I'll find out about any of them in the future. It might be a disaster.


Positive side of her, she's so loyal, respectful, mature, supportive, intelligent, possessing good manners and all. We do argue sometimes but we talk about it and move on.


In a nutshell, the last guy she dated was her boss at her I.T place of work. The guy is the director's son.

Fine, she also told me about their story. She served as a side chick to the guy which she acknowledged. Coz she knows his girlfriend isn't in the country. FF...

She was blindly in love with the guy. All the guy wanted was just to have his way and exit.

I asked her out when the guy stopped giving her the attention she needed. Though she told me all these after we've been like 2weeks old in the relationship.


Along the line, I discovered she was still connected to this guy in some ways,
They still meet at times, though the guy helped her when she was financial down. He played a vital role in her admission into school.


I've always thought about asking her authoritatively not to see the guy again, but she always assure me that there's nothing. Good, I believed her.



I later got to discover that the guy at a point in time slept over at her place and they were in the act. She confessed to me after much pressure.


She told me she was having serious cramps on that day and there was no one to call, I was out of town that week. She made me understand that it wasn't intentional bla bla bla.



My heart was broken.


She's been pleading for my forgiveness.

I know her past is still hunting her ,but do you think she deserves a second chance? I'm just too hurt to reply her chats or pick her calls.

okoro4:
Obasek,what have you achieved since in Edo?Stop all these campaigns.We really want to see you work

ikp120:

Lol. Sure we're good o

niyot124:



Fighting over a guy has never and will never been an achievement. It is infact shameful. The guy is sounding like it's affecting him even after I gave him a reason for me being curious.

Don't just butt into people's conversations.

MzLarem:
I dont think so...we are cool

ikp120:


Bleeds his heart ke? I was just joking with her. C'mon we chat in private very well. I was just putting up a show.

MzLarem:
I was just being honest tho.

MzLarem:
Go ahead na.
I dont want to be toasted I dont have a phone and i'm not a big fan of football so i'm indifferent.