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He and his friends gangraped a girl back in secondary school Cause she seem proud.

Well, I ran as fast as my legs could carry me.

ednut1:
When una no go shine una eyes. I am yoruba and if i marry a non yoruba she dare not call me siblings she is older than boda or aunty. By the way they have their lives and contact would be minimal . All this MIL and siblings ish self chai

Especially the female siblings

@LivingFree, It should be done out of freewill but it got mandatory after we got married.

samysmoothfresh:
you could sit your husband down and explain to him the situation or you can as well just call the youngest of them all by his/her first name........................he/she just might not protest


personally though i wouldnt mind nor give a fvck what people call me or demand i call dem

they are all bloody names............

I'll do just that
You've been very helpful, Gracias..

May his soul rest in peace .

samysmoothfresh:
i see.........


So what would you rather call then anyways................by their first name too?

Exactly my point, yes.

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profmicky:
my candid advice is just focus on your marriage, aunty or mama was not included in your name at birth.

Neither was it included in theirs.

samysmoothfresh:
my brother the thing weak me too o


though it sounds absurd calling your husbands younger siblings broda and sista especially when you are older than them but na that one go con make a whole marriage (wey don even produce children) crash?


Na wa o................op don tire for her husband but she no wan talk am direct na im make her talk say she regret entering the family, meaning say she regret marrying the man

op don find new and better bobo


#pride

#ego

#fvck

Smiles..
Miles from that.

Sophieah:
Same issue I'm having, difference is, we're not yet married, sometimes, I feel like quitting the relationship cause it's not in my nature to respect someone who doesn't reciprocate ..pfft, Yoruba people sef

My candid advice _ Since you're married and you've been used to it before you got married, you'd have to continue what you started or discuss it your husband, he should be able to address the situation, I can't be a man and watch my wife get disrespected, nah, it'd be a lot better for the sibling to leave my house.

Thanks, mind if I pm you?

profmicky:
funny though but u should have stood against this since the very 1st day you stepped your legs into the family.

I admit that was my mistake, I thought they'd come around with time.

madridguy:


Firstly, you don't have to regret marrying the family just believe nothing last forever. With time they will take caution and give you your maximum respect.

Thank you, I pray they do

Is it a must to call your husband's younger siblings auntie or broda while they call you by your first name? Not even mummy/mama Bosun(my son's name) , I'm going through a dilemma and my marriage is at the verge of crashing ,I regret marrying into such family as my MIL is strongly in support of this useless culture.

My husband is from the south-west.

Please share your experience with in-laws from the south-west if you have any.