Celebrities › Re: Idowu Philips 'Iya Rainbow' Celebrates 77th Birthday (Photos) by KODACK: 9:38am On Oct 16, 2019 |
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Romance › Re: 'Women Must Not Suffer To Find Love'- Toke Makinwa by KODACK: 7:02am On Oct 16, 2019 |
liliandrew: Author, actor, and media personality, Toke Makinwa Condemns the glorification of suffering before you find love.
In a post shared by Snoop Dogg on Instagram, he made a re-post of a man whose wife stood by him, even when she knew all the crime he has committed, she still made him a better person.
The post condemns women who envy this woman but still, they wouldn't have done what she did.
However. Toke Makinwa, condemns this act, according to her, 'that is not the way to happiness'. she wrote;
"I am deeply tired of this narrative though, this post pissed me off soooo much, why do we like to make women look like huge jokes? why is this the way to happiness? Why must you sell the “I suffer pass” mentality? This promotes low self-esteem. I know for the most part of my life I believed that for love to be real, it has to hurt, I believed there has to be pain and real humiliation before you find peace and that mentality is BS. That mentality made me stay in crazy situations and do the most for the wrong reasons. Let’s stop pls. This is trash. Pls show me examples of men who stayed with a cheating woman, drug addict, jail bird, publicity with other men etc. show me a man who knew what he signed up for and even after she slept with his brothers and friends held her down till she became refined. If we can’t pick 10 men pls stop raising your daughters to hold down situations that might eventually break them, stop selling the narrative that women have to suffer before they find love. This is ruining lives for real and it should stop".
Read more on http://irukkanews.com/index.php/2019/10/15/women-must-not-suffer-to-find-love-toke-makinwa/ Who is toke, and why is she making fp |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:57am On Oct 16, 2019 |
samobaba4u: Finally, the good news we are all waiting for is here. Praise God. Isokay
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 9:14pm On Oct 15, 2019 |
Korowash: Good evening guys.Pls is there anyone from Enugu State here who resides in Lagos.Please chat me up abeg cos I have to travel down once the list is out to sign my stuffs ....pls connect me if you know any senior officer here in Lagos who hails from Enugu cos the one I know is Hausa .Tnx 08062571727 E be like say this guy done see the list....... |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 11:44am On Oct 15, 2019 |
Majlaw: Guys please Help.. My name show for police list yesterday (Constable). I don't know if I should go for it or wait for the Army list. That's zero rank. If it was ASP it would have been better. Did you apply with your degree or Olevel? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 9:45pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
paragon40: replying someone that doesn't exist. You can't put something on nothing it will fall enough said no need to derail this thread. Bye � 
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 7:52pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
ugo4u: Someone said they do go for swimming exercise during camp highlander. Why I said I'm ain't sure they attend is because those RC guys proudly wear amphibious badge and Airborne badge, why their SSC counterparts go around with naked uniform save for the tiny star on their shoulders. Your mouth no good at all. Make Dem catch you first. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 7:49pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:01pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prudent5217: I remember when one babe deceive me those days me come Dey form James Bond aka fish when I no sabi swin before I know anything I don enter the deep side. you for see the way I use pray my last prayer asking God for forgiveness chai thank God the lifeguard Dey around commot me for water  Hahahahaha God really loves you man |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 5:27pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
sojeee: Hahahah. Basic swimming is a most in any military Training, so lock off ur mind and learn before, cos My FRND who pass out from SSC 45 told me that he nearly die for pool, he Drink enough gallons that day.... So go and learn oo Dssc or SSC Na to dey knack the water shey.....cos me ma no Sabi swim. Na to sit-down for edge they carry leg play with water I dey do ......when asked to jump in, I go gently tell them say I'm not in the mood to swim......... Man must hold en rep |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 5:24pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
KennethNnolim: You dey worry sha... List wey go change destinies  Asin ehn.....once list show ehn, before you finish dey type ....over 10 messages go don drop. New people go fall in. No mind my worry........ We still dey wait sha |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 5:22pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prudent5217: KODACK my guy you still use style ask am the list  You too wise.....Kai, you for no talk na. Lolz |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 5:10pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
ugo4u: You done turn me to MS na . Moreover na eclipsephemmy dey drop "as e dey hot information" wey even Buratai no dey aware of us. My one n only civilian General ugo4u. No worry, 25 years from now you go become real khaki General. But come oh, how this list package dey go na....... ?? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 5:00pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
paragon40: you can only speak for yourself sir. This is an opportunity for you to learn, and if you think you don't need the argument allow others to learn. We want a better army, we can only get the army we all desire by separating the wheat from the Chaff. Uncle that's why you are part of the obscure 00.01% . Am sure na you dey worry for this list pass |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 4:59pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
ugo4u: No knowledge is a waste, you could pick one or two things that could be beneficial to you when you face the board or get commissioned as an officer. Abi you want make we dey post things like *List will comeout tomorrow* *No Buratai said it's till next year* *How many photocopies are we to bring for screening* *Should we travel with money for interview when list shows* *How many cup of garri we suppose carry go interview* etc
Sometimes it doesn't cost a thing to engage in healthy arguments as long as it's all related to the subject matter. Some of us here might become battalion commanders, COAS someday or be in a position to make far reaching decision with regards to the betterment of the army and military at large. I agree, but trust me ...... Na list most people dey wait for or news from you or sojeee |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 4:47pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
I love this argument, but sorry.....it's currently useless to 99.99% of us here
If you guy had this argument when reg was on, it would have been fair, sweet and awesome......now everyone gets disappointed when they see an epistle after refreshing their browsers.
Ugo4u........help out sanity na |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 3:34pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prudent5217: My brother kenya is fighting their own war oh they are battling Al Shabab till today I remember I was in nairobi in 2015 when Al Shabab attacked a school Investigators have taken note of this point....... Chai |
Celebrities › Re: Why Tickets For Comedy Shows Are Expensive - Ali Baba And Seyi Law Explain by KODACK: 1:25pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
donstan18: Their explanations are definitely for those that gives a flying fvck. Exactly
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Sports › Re: Sergio Ramos Becomes Europe's Most Capped Outfield Player by KODACK: 1:23pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
logon599: Just for fun and to test our football knowledge:
Ramos started the 2010 world cup final against the Netherlands in South Africa. Without checking Google, who can name Spain's starting lineup in that final? Tacha tacha tacha I didn't check Google as you instructed |
Family › Re: My Wife To Be Is Too Reserved by KODACK: 1:20pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
ginaolo: Hi
I’ve been with a lady for some time now but I’m starting to have doubts about this girl.
My main concern is that she is too reserved and she doesn’t like to do anything that involves people. I come from a big family unit and she’s always avoiding family get togethers, outings, even to meet my friends and socialise with them is a huge problem. We’ve gone out very few times, she’s met my mum and a few friends, but she avoids meeting them most time. I addressed it to her and she claims she has social anxiety but for how long can I continue like this? All she wants to do is be at home. My family are already starting to get the wrong impression of her and they believe she is proud. I know my older sister is not too fond of her because of her quiet nature and I think this will take a toll on us in the future if we get married. I don’t want a wife that cannot do basic things like go out with me to events or represent me well. I don’t want a wife that will be hiding in the house 24/7.
Another thing is that she has some stubborn traits in her. She’s a lovely woman, she’s very kind, compassionate and she motivates me a lot. When she’s around me alone she’s very cool, but when it comes to going out and doing things, she starts acting up. I cannot deal with her shy nature as it’s too much and it’s becoming embarrassing. She’s 24. What do I do please? I wish I can find such a wife. Stay indoors and don't socialize at all We would drink at home and do everything alone. Guy, cherish what you have now. |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:56pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
sojeee: Noooo. For Dssc 50 is too much na, EC is on d way too. SSC can be 40 plus. But Dssc is within 30 plus So how many then? Does that mean the final list will be over 10 for DSSC |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:55pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
sojeee: EC will be holding there NASB from 10-24 Nov on that same Ground.... So, when will DSSC take place. So that we can do a funny calculation.....lol |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:21pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prudent5217: Chai so sojeee is now an active actor and you are the movie director Bros, haba......I don tire to laff |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:19pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
sojeee: Civ Gen.Ugo how far. I hear say dem don increase Dssc strength to 30 plus, did u heard some tin like that? Na make God help person make the list. So, how will the final list look like.....10 or 15 per state...?? |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:15pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
sikowitz17: All this many many talk...list will humble us I no like you at all..... But this your post just made me love you.
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 12:13pm On Oct 14, 2019 |
Generaloluseye: Yes and yes. It is a normal military practice all over the world. Because it is not reported in all those militaries does not mean it does not happen. Flogging has been abolished on paper but it still happens even among Russian recuits.
Pls read about David Chen and others. Google is your friend It's Danny Chen not David. You are well exposed .... Nice |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 11:54am On Oct 14, 2019 |
ugo4u: My bro, me sef dey expectant as you. It's one thing for them to finalise the shortlisting and another for approval to be given for publication. This is strong ! |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:59am On Oct 14, 2019 |
durella32: from the Turkish Syrian boarder with love See fire power Chai, sweet until something touch you |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:51am On Oct 14, 2019 |
lebete3000: Una never taya to dey quite lebete3000?
Forget Army job ma for yeye people dem joor... No one gets tired bruv .... Everyone with heart could feel the emotion in you write up...... Unforgettable experience |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:49am On Oct 14, 2019 |
Prudent5217: I have one answer for you always read non disclosure documents properly before you sign so you don’t come here and cry wolf or fowl. If you think the training is improper my brother go and join man o war or boys scout simple. Mortal Kombat. Finish Him
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Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Nigerian Army SSC And DSSC 2016/2017 Forum by KODACK: 6:47am On Oct 14, 2019 |
lebete3000: May your brain never rust. Useless people ridiculing others of their predicament. If I had no injury, I'll have been an Officer by now, enough Cadets wey no gallant reach me for training dey hang peep now.
Leave am make hin dey fool hinsef dey go... Amen Áshè Amin Abeg, also pray for me to make the list too oh.....even tho them don compile am finish. Welcome back, the legendary Lebete3000 |