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Ardeypearl:I got a text and was asked to wait for a mail. When did u get this? |
andymola:Bring my fam members for what? Please they dont intrude. How wld u feel if ur daughter marries a man who brings his broda to live with them and all d latter does is interfere seriously in their marriage. Walking into their bedroom without knocking at times. And gossiping abt u. |
Acidosis:How am i overreacting? |
Interesting and eye opening contributions so far. Thank you all. |
Good evening all, As you relax on this beautiful sunday evening, i ll like for you to pls contribute to this issue at hand. I am newly married for just a couple of months and exactly two months after marriage, my husbands brother in his mid thirties has been living with us. Now the problem is not about him living with us but the great interference he brings to the marriage. Like always taking note of everything i do and reporting to mu husband as soon as he returns from work. Is it even right for a grown man to immediately follow his brother into our bed room as soon as he enters from work (while am in d kitchen) to go and start talking. Most times, he goes into our bedroom sits on d bed and begins to discuss with my husband for a very long time while am doing sth around the house. D most annoying one was when he went with my husband to the market to buy things for cooking for the month. He ended up buying rubbish and i was supposed to cook with it? Shamelessly, he sits in d parlour all day holding the remote to the TV and watching big brother or anything he likes. I know i ll be asked about whether i av spoken to my husband or not. I have severally and he sees nothing wrong with it, he says hes not the kind of man that abandons his family bks of marriage. U wont believe this old shameless brother of his came to question my choice of food yesterday evening. Like theres just too much interference from his side. Hubby asks me how i can preserve efo and before i respond he has responded. Always looking into things and advising my husbans or instigating a quarrel btw us. U wont believe he came in as though he wanted to come and visit for a week or so and gradually started packing his things into the house one after the other. Why does it feel like its jazz they are using on my husband bks everything he does, he defends him against me. All these while i think i have been patient enough...i want to take an action. Am tired of praying and committing it to God abeg i have better things to pray about. It will be a big fight bks i will so scatter everywhere. I am really tired. I mean what is a 34year old doing staying with his married brother and causing confusion everywhere. Pls your sincere inputs are needed. |
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