I think the major problem of unemployment in this country has to do with the kind of courses we read, some people just go into the university to read anything and they believe that at the end of the day when they come out they will get a job.

people should lean to read something they can easily sell when they are out of school, can you imagine people  reading psychology, philosophy, anthropology, religious knowledge, history, environmental science, physical education and they expect to get a job in the bank, oil company and so  on.  the problem is we have a lot of graduates today who actually went to school to waste 5 good years reading rubbish and wasting money and time instead of leaning a trade.

You complain that we have a lot of graduates out there without jobs,  have you checked their grades, any person that has finished an higher institution is a graduate but have you checked what the person came out with? some came out with a pass and they will be the first to be shouting that there are no jobs in the country. how do you expect a third class to get a job where a first class  has applied too, or where a masters holder has applied too. some will tell you i read engineering yes you read engineering but  what did you come out with?  It is not all about spending five years in the university and coming out with rubbish and expect one employer to  employ you.  the market is hot and every one is looking for the best, not  just workers but the one that can make a change and bring about profit.

I still believe that there are jobs in Nigeria, the only things is that a lot of graduates are not employable, come to think of it there are a lot of establishments that need workers, but can you believe that it is only when you conduct interviews that you know what is happening in Nigeria, first of all you screen  some out cos of their grade levels, some because of their performance in  aptitude test, and then finally after the interview, you see some graduates that cannot make full sentences and they tell you that they are graduates, can you employ such if you are an employer? Lets be realistic about this things, people should not just go into the university for the sake of it and when you do get there make  sure you read and make good grades not with blocking cos I am sure there is not dumb human being, we all a brilliant people it only takes  hard work for you to know that you are.

There was one that was chatting with me sometime ago, I used my picture as my chat page background, come and see love, the guy was preaching, serious love, and then he asked me what i do for a living I told him that he will not like to hear that, he said he will that i should just tell him that he wants to know what his future wife does for a living, I now told him that I am a thief, he said i was just lying I now told him that I am able to tell him cos we are not seeing face to face but that is my true profession but that I hope to stop as soon as i get someone serious to marry, he asked me what kind of thief, I told him that I belong to a gang that rubs banks and stay on the high way, come see how the guy take off, he said he cannot marry a thief oh, he started preaching that he is a Christian that he cannot do that. in fact before I could say jack the say make i no chat with am again. this was the same guy that was confessing love without condition, love no holds barred just now, he was as far as telling me that his house address that he gave me before and phone number that they were fake that he does not stay there.

I was just laughing.

Thank you all for your contributions, I am so happy to recieve all your advice and it has given me hope on the whole issue.

well I am O+ and AA genotype, as for that I know I can marry him.

He also told me that he has never recieved blood transfussion, as the mum has always been there with everything. Personally I wouldn't have known he was if he did not tell me. He is so healthy though he is not fat. but he has not physical triat of a Sickle Cell Patient. I love him so much and I am sure we can make it together.

Well I will suggest to him that we go to the clinic to do some test to check our compatibility, I think that is very important.


Thanks all.

Good day every one, I am new here, but I would need your help, someone told me I can get good advice here and people here tend to be nice and supportive.

Please I have a problem, there is this guy I am dating, I just met him and he is such a nice person and I love him so much, he does same too. He just told me he has sicle cell anemia and I am really confused, thought I have made up my mind to marry him as he is asking me to, but I just want people to enlighten me about this thing, is it that he will not live long or he will die soon, he is about 38 years now, he does not look like someone that has sicle cell.

What should I do

I AM IN LOVE