Wow...0p,may God bless you. I have learnt so much from you.

Wow dis is da bomb...just seeing it...thank you so much Op

Truckpusher:

What's this one talking about?

Oga pls pack well
It's not compulsory you must comment

cococandy: If he works for one of those off shore companies,I'm aware that they always conduct HIV testing before and after every trip.
Or at least once in a year.

If you won't just take his word for it,
ask for the result and you have yours handy too. (He's supposed to give it to you before you even ask) but if he doesn't,ask for it.

But if he has never given you reason to doubt his fidelity,don't hound him.

Hmmmm I don't trust those offshore workers...90% of them are flirts.
Am married to one so I know.
Social media makes it so easy for them.
Not trying to scare you but please be wise and be prepared. You may be lucky if your guy is amongst the other 10%.

diegs:



No i havent spoken to him of recent. I keep to myself. I honestly dont know how to make him happy. My dad asked me to sort any marital issues that every one once had a problem and he cant interfer since he is not of same tribe. He doesnt know how they handle family issues.

My hysband can be nice today and tomorrow be annoying esoecially when his ex calls. That is when he changes. Only if i can get his ex out.

Pray the ex out and remember prayer can do alot. It's welll

diegs: I dont know what to do. i have tried separating from my husband but my dad refused to allow me come home. i honestly tired of my marriage because my husband is not nice to me at all. it is as if i forced him into this marriage. This is someone that pratically joined me in begging my dad to allow me marry him. I just feel hopeless and useless. i dont even have a job to allow me move out and stay on my own.

i know my husband is also cheating on me. he keeps denying it and he is also a wicked liar.
I am am always depressed. My mum came visiting some weeks back and she asked me what happenes to my smiles. That she can see am not happy.

I am to be blamed, i married him against my dad'S wish and cause of tribe differences

Hmmmmm it's well my dear.
Depression isn't something to take lightly because it could lead to worse things.
True no marriage is perfect but how long have you been married for? How long did you court? I find out the hard way that people change in marriage and most times for the worse.
Your dad may not really understand wat u are going through.
Maybe you can talk to ur pastor or Imam or anyone you know he listens to. Honestly I really feel for you but God dey.
You don't seem to love him and I know that feeling...
Try talking to him,let him know he is hurting you and pls do it without raising your voice n when he is in a good mood. I won't advise quitting the marriage cos every marriage has its battle. Marriage is for the brave. Do you have kids yet? What do u do? As for his ex; is she still single?

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aisha2:

And there are people who have been through much worse,I have a friend who dated all through school and the guy was a medical student, they were together for roughly 8 years when they were to get married. Even at that point she was working and earning very well he was serving, the girl actually interrupted the main wedding, they had to wait till she gave birth for a dna test because the guy was denying the pregnancy, after another 1 year guy turned out to be the father so give and take 9 years gone and it took her a year or 2 to be mentally ready to rate, she married at 33

Hmmmm why can't some men just be truthful and kip their 3rd legs in their pants?9yrs gone down the drain....its well.
I can't just imagine the lady's pain.

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To answer your question on the other thread. What made me leave? Infidelity, due to work we lived in different citieswith regular visits. A lady called and attacked me once I raised the issue with him and he convinced me she was just a desperate lady who wanted to destroy our relationship.

When the wedding was announced she came forward and said she was pregnant. It was as if my whole world collapsed, that was my life for years, some said I should go ahead and still marry, some asked where I would start from if I left, some reasoned I was not getting younger so accept it. I thought long and hard, remembered all the lies and denials, all the sneaky things, I told myself I would have to deal with this and other ladies in future was I ready? I was not.
So I left, it was hard especially as subsequent relationships didn't go smoothly, I started doubting my decision of wanting a partner who didn't see cheating as a right.

Why I didn't see it? I thought I knew him. I try to see the best in people till they give me a real reason to doubt them. We were in different cities even though we were always doing weekend visits with plans of relocation after the wedding, thankfully I hadn't quit my job then I was to put in my letter the next week when this happened.
However, it was his decision to cheat even if we were in the same town the same house if he wanted to cheat he still would same with me. It was also my decision. Not to stay and I am glad I did even if I had remained unmarried forever it would still have been the right decision.

Thank God u stood ur ground not minding wat ppl were saying. A cheat can barely change except with the help of God.
Imagine having to deal with worse things after being married to him.
The other woman n child wud forever be in your life whether u like it or nt.
Not worth it at all
Kudos for being daring and strong

For me I don't think I can buy clothes for a man who left me for anoda woman(for Wetin na) just to show I'm nice or probably still in love.. #myopinion[/quote]
Women and our wahala
She should just ignore him and ask for ha own size o

snazzylove:

My hubby? Try this?
Lai lai. He will not wear those shirts oo. No fights. I will politely destroy them.
#JikTinz# Rubbish

;Dif my husband tries it...it's his business because I can't come and die over an over grown baby dt refuses to stop been spoon fed.
I will even ask why he didn't get my size let's do to match.
I have seen too much to allow anybody give me BP or die prematurely. My daughter is too special to suffer so I better laugh n stay alive for her

I have been following quietly and I must commend everyone.
Marriage is for the strong and brave not for small boys and girls.
I have learnt and still learning.
I have been married for 4yrs and I can say I still feel like a learner but God dey.
Kudos everyone
Mi luff yah plenty