₦airaland Forum

Jorussia:
I won't be surprised if Leicester fails to qualify from this group. Leicester is the least experienced team in Europe in that group.club brugge,FC Porto and FC Copenhagen are all veterans in the uefa champions league.

Ekakamba:
[size=30pt]A lesson to Broke-ass biatches.[/size]

skarlett:
having a sick daughter does not justify stealing and rape. I wonder how he would feel if his 'precious' daughter was to fall a victim of such

BlackSeptember:
Funny dudes suffering from numerical diahoreea. Calling billions of dollars like big fools.


How much was Nigeria budget plzz

creepsyme:
how old are u?

creepsyme:
did u say apparently?....

creepsyme:
ooohh u have not heard? it happens...

Queenoma:
And where does the scripture permit husbands to threaten their wives with divorce even when she has done nothing wrong. No matter ur argument, I strongly oppose the op's choice of words..... Haba!!!

forevermine:
On point! It takes a real man and some level of maturity to really understand these godly instructions. Every marriage should be modeled after that which God intended, so whenever any confusion arises, resort to the Word of God. That should be the STANDARD!

creepsyme:
I hope u r not operating under her spell? how old are u?

Queenoma:
And what happened to, "And the man shall leave his mother and father and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh"
Una neva marry, u don dey give this kin order
Hia!!!!!!!! There are many ways to make a point, that statement sounds bossy. I hope u are not a wife beater

doveda:
What does common sense have to do with being a woman. For me no one or anything can remove my mum from my life except death of course. She is why I am here today. She is the reason I thank God everyday. A man who is serious about me will respect my mum and I also expect my mum to respect a man I intend to live with for the rest of my life. Any sign of discomfort from either of them will get the culprit a serious reprimand.


Your mother is not human she can do no wrong to anyone. It is your wife that will act first and even if she doesn't, she must endure and act like a robot because she is not human and if she does, she must be a separatist. I hope your mum does not show sign of discomfort towards your wife. What will you do if your wife reacts?Throwout her out of your life regardless?

doveda:
Sentiments again


She is my mother! I don't need to explain to you how wonderful she has been to you or anyone else because she is my mother not yours!!! Stop trying to bring how I treat my mother into question, this is not about me. It is about the lack of that relationship between my mum and others. I cannot and will not force others to treat my mother AS THEIR rmother. That relationship does not extend to anyone else except my siblings. The joys of motherhood etc flows from I to her and vice versa. No one is obligated to treat her as their mother except my siblings. If at all you will treat her LIKE she is your mother but she can never be your mother .

My husband mother is like a mother to me, she can never be my mother. There are things my mum will do that I will just angry or react to and she will understand or she woumd react to and we will understand because if that special relationship BETWEEN US. If it were mother in law, she may never forgive and forget and I may never forget and forgive too. I will always see her as like my mither. It would require more effort to treat her LIKE I would treat my mother, in fact I can't I treat her like I would treat my mother insime if not most cases because she wouldn't understand and will read meaning to it.

Think like a human being and not with sentiments. Your mother is forever your mother and she can never be mine. Don't force her on anyone Biko

doveda:
If I hold my mum in high or low esteem, and she goes out and disrespect others including my hubby. Na here I go sit down dey watch. My relationship with her is my relationship with her. She is mother and no one else's!. If at all, she is LIKE a mother to others like my husband And LIKE a mother does not make her his mother!

Quit being sentimental. Your mother is your mother and not mine! And she can never be my mother! It is a fact you don't need emotions to understand it!

doveda:
If I hold my mum in high esteem, and she goes out and disrespect others including my hubby. Na here I go sit down dey watch. My relationship with her is my relationship with her. She is mother and no one else's!. If at all, she is LIKE a mother to others like my husband for example. And LIKE a mother does not make a mother!

Quit being sentimental. Your mother is your mother and not mine! And she can never be my mother! It is a fact you don't need emotions to understand it!

You simply don't get it. I am not standing on the zenith of Mount everest and beckoning on the world to respect my mother because she is my mother,no. My case is that the one woman who desires to become a part of me must respect who I respect.my wife and children are to be a unit of my brother family,not a separate entity altogether like a lone wolf. And I can tell a woman who is a separatist in less than 6months.

And if you can't see your hubby's mum as your own mum then,you can't accord her the respect fit for a mother.

Saying your mother is a mother and nothing else speaks volume as touching how you relate with your own mother.so with that epiphany,it's easy to understand why you can care less who treats her how and why another person's mother might be of ltitle or no value to you.

For some of us though,we have come a long way with the old woman and we forever feel indebted to them.

doveda:
Maybe I want to be noticed, maybe I am not so dvmb to expect others to revere my mum the way I do hence the reason why she must respect others if she wants them to respect her and vice versa

You should thank me for making you think instead of following others with their blind sentiments


cc koldkash

Truth234:
You were charged parallel rate, this is interbank rate. By Monday, BDCs would have reflects current development.

MadCow1:
Marriage is wife first before Mother.. That's the no. 1 rule.

Rheetaa:
Sorry I got a bit sensitive. I'd NEVER disrespect my mum-in-law or in-laws and my hubby has made it clear to them (even in my absence) that disrespecting his wife is a no-no. Some women ARE what they are and a real man strikes the balance between both sides without conflict.

Ego on the part of husband or wife'll only set the home on fire. And, guys, never show wife or mother that you love one more. Trust me, no woman would like that, not even your mother.

diva90:
But if your mum disrespect your wife, what will happen?
Your choice of words is very wrong. There are other ways to have said it instead of threatening with divorce.
Secondly I don't think it's okay to verbally and indirectly make it known to your wife that your mother is more important than her.
You can think it but never say it in any form

Lumig:
I remembered when I was still young, my mum would always say the wrong thing about her MIL. Now my wife is always threatened with her presence and utter rubbish and look for any mistake she does but can't say it in her presence. MY CONCLUSION IS "WOMEN GENERALLY ARE THEIR OWN ENEMIES" From generation to generation they keep on lamenting about the MIL, later the daughter in law... On and on like that. They are such a difficult beings to comprehend

baddestchic:
you went too far ooooo..... there are other ways to talk to your partner than putting her on hot seat.... your mum just comes and goes... your wife is your family Now too.

daretodiffer:
What is so special about your mum? You guys act like you folks always respect your mother in laws too

I hope you also told your mama the same thing because your wife deserve respect as much as she does. In fact every human being deserve respect-:\

Onegai:
Innovestor, today is Thursday, send your wife a message right now, ask her what she's doing, if there's light etc. Come home earlier than usual and play with the kids. Buy cake for your wife and everybody eat. When I say play, I mean PLAY. Dance like an egun masquerade. During this play, you guys should make a paper ball, recreate the NIG-GER match of yesterday (pls be Germany ) and stylishly throw it at Mum. Let her pass it back, infact,rush her if she holds the ball long. Feel free to smack her bum during the play, no red card given. Don't ask for sex.

Tomorrow, come home and watch whatever she wants to watch, discuss it with her animatedly. What hairdo is she wearing? Bet you don't know offhand tell her to bring her nailpolish, you want to practise painting because the economy has crashed and manipedis ain't cheap. Ask her what's going with life. Just listen. Gist freely.

Saturday, you and her go to the mall. Go watch a movie together (no kids allowed). In the car home, hold her hand. When you get home, don't sit in your usual seat (the one you use as your personal space), sit with her. Tell her "I've missed us having fun, I've missed you". See how the evening goes.

beautiful232:
Amen


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