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Family › 10 Things Your Mother Never Told You...this Might Leave You In Tears by konklud22(op): 2:03pm On Oct 10, 2016*

Here are 10 things your mom never told you.

1. You made her cry… a lot.
She cried when she found out she was pregnant.
She cried as she gave birth to you. She cried
when she first held you. She cried with
happiness. She cried with fear. She cried with
worry. She cried because she feels so deeply for
you. She felt your pain and your happiness and
she shared it with you, whether you realized it or
not.

2. She wanted that last piece of pie.
But when she saw you look at it with those big
eyes and lick your mouth with that tiny tongue,
she couldn’t eat it. She knew it would make her
much happier to see your little tummy be filled
than hers.

3. It hurt.
When you pulled her hair, it hurt; when you
grabbed her with those sharp fingernails that
were impossible to cut, it hurt; when you bit her
while drinking milk, that hurt, too. You bruised
her ribs when you kicked her from her belly; you
stretched her stomach out for nine months; you
made her body contract in agonizing pain as you
entered this world.

4. She was always afraid.
From the moment you were conceived, she did all
in her power to protect you. She became your
mama bear. She was that lady who wanted to
say no when the little girl next door asked to hold
you, and who cringed when she did, because in
her mind no one could keep you as safe as she
herself could. Her heart skipped two beats with
your first steps. She stayed up late to make sure
you got home safe, and woke up early to see you
off to school. With every stubbed toe and little
stumble, she was close by; she was ready to
snatch you up with every bad dream or late night
fever. She was there to make sure you were OK.

5. She knows she’s not perfect.
She is her own worst critic. She knows all her
flaws and sometimes hates herself for them. She
is hardest on herself when it comes to you,
though. She wanted to be the perfect mom, to do
nothing wrong — but because she is human, she
made mistakes. She is probably still trying to
forgive herself for them. She wishes with her
whole heart that she could go back in time and
do things differently, but she can’t, so be kind to
her, and know she did the best she knew how to
do.

6. She watched you as you slept.
There were nights when she was up ’til 3:00 a.m.
praying that you would finally fall asleep. She
could hardly keep her eyes open as she sang to
you, and she would beg you to “please, please fall
asleep.” Then, when you finally fell asleep, she
would lay you down and all her tiredness would
disappear for a short second as she sat by your
bedside looking down at your perfect cherub face,
experiencing more love than she knew was
possible, despite her worn-out arms and aching
eyes.

7. She carried you a lot longer than nine months.
You needed her to. So she did. She would learn
to hold you while she cleaned; she would learn to
hold you while she ate; she would even hold you
while she slept, because it was the only way she
could sometimes. Her arms would get tired, her
back would hurt, but she held you still because
you wanted to be close to her. She snuggled you,
loved you, kissed you and played with you. You
felt safe in her arms; you were happy in her
arms; you knew you were loved in her arms, so
she held you, as often and as long as you
needed.

8. It broke her heart every time you cried.
There was no sound as sad as your cries, or
sight as horrible as the tears streaming down
your perfect face. She did all in her power to stop
you from crying, and when she couldn’t stop your
tears, her heart would shatter into a million little
pieces.

9. She put you first.
She went without food, without showers and
without sleep. She always put your needs before
her own. She would spend all day meeting your
needs, and by the end of the day, she would have
no energy left for herself. But the next day, she
would wake up and do it all over again, because
you meant that much to her.

10. She would do it all again.
Being a mom is one of the hardest jobs anyone
can do, and it will take you to your very limits
sometimes. You cry, you hurt, you try, you fail,
you work and you learn. But, you also experience
more joy that you thought was possible and feel
more love than your heart can contain. Despite all
the pain, grief, late nights and early mornings you
put your mom through, she would do it all again
for you because you are worth it to her. So, next
time you see her, tell your mom thank you; let her
know that you love her. She can never hear it too
many times.[sup] Here are 10 things your mom never told you.

lalasticlala

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Romance › Re: Please What Are The Side Effects Of Sleeping With A Married Woman? by konklud22(m): 12:48pm On Oct 09, 2016

.just one side effect .....
increased bank Balance if u FCK d right married women..... . not dose Iya mufu oo

Celebrities › Re: Photo Of The Day Tiwa Savage Dances Better Than You! by konklud22(m): 10:58am On Oct 06, 2016

mumy jam jam ..... my only crush .

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6. get connected

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 11:56pm On Oct 04, 2016

luminouz:
Why are u in a rush to always blame d guy? U know am before ni? He has explained his own...u just don't wanna admit that some girls are total bleeps! BTW...OP...u sure say Ur village people no dey Ur case sha!

Lol
DAT one na for past bro
Just dey share experience ni
grin

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 11:03am On Oct 03, 2016

VikingsOO7:
I really dunno why You guys keep hammering on sex sex sex. A true and purposeful relationship goes beyond sex.

IMO I think You've just been unlucky in dating the wrong people. Maybe its high time You change Your orientation bout what You want in a woman? In doing that, You will make the right decisions...hopefully.

Good luck.

yh
I was just answering questions thrown at me
anyways,
nice advise

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 11:02am On Oct 03, 2016

ednut1:
how can u be a dream guy, u wey still be student nd dey depend on parents hehehe. what ever a man can do a woman too can do beta, guys cheat pass dem

lol
na true sha,
I was still in school den, buh I still dey try my best.
buh y were dey now blabbing about me being d perfect guy for emm ??
dats y I said mayb dey were too confused

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 10:56am On Oct 03, 2016

nma24:
From all you've said, seems you have a tiny *Coughs* That should explain why they cheat on you

lol
like your guys own abi
na dat cough go kee u
lol.

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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 5:11am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
@embolden did she confirm your s3X life was a chart topper? Or you think it was because she always ask you not to cum means it was so great? And has she ever admitted after the sex how satisfied she was?

Lol I am a lady bro. You can never estimate women or think ahead. If it's not admitted verbally, it's not what you think.

lol
seriously, u are one hell of a pain in the ass
m starting to think u are their lawyer
hope u studied law,?
anyways
dey always confirm dey enjoyed it. .
buh most times dey become too exhausted to even talk, dey just sleep off
but if u av ur doubt s tho
deriz always a way to confirm
lol

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:49am On Oct 03, 2016

CindyeMerAld:
dream man ko,sleep man ni...
If u were really her dream man,nothing wld ve made her cheat on you...
At ur siggy,i concur..she is dating you cos she is foolish..#heart broken pus*y niccur.

I will just let your own wahala pass

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:47am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
Do you even know the faults? By communicate, I don't mean

"Baby how are you? Have you eaten? How was yourday "

"How was the night? Did you like the sex?"

NO!

I mean crucial discussions. Even discussions that can shake the relationship the moment you are having the discussions. Have you ever cared to ask her if she likes your d!ck? A silly question yes, but have you asked? I guess no.

Have you cared to ask what she really wants in a man? No. You think you have it because she just said some things.

lol
lemme ask u
av u ever begged ur guy not to cum even after almost two hours of passionate ssx
cos dats wat she says anytime I hit d damn spot so good .
just so u know
our sx life was a chart topper!!!
or do u need a video evidence ni
lol
buh even after all my jet li bed skills
wat did I get
cheating wit some 5mins dude

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:37am On Oct 03, 2016

WackyJ1:
You didn't finish what happened with the first girl..
Did you confront her with what you found out?
What did she say about it?
Come finish up jor

lol
I just lock up.like say nothing happened
buh den she found out d guy knows my gee
and my gee would probably tell me .
so after a month
she met my guy at my apartment and she became suspicious , so she decided to tell me everything, and how it was d devil... buh I forgave her but I couldn't forget cos I Neva expected it
.. so we just find our square root

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:30am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
He works on them whenever they are identified. And they are identified because he communicates with me.

Do you communicate with your woman? If you don't communicate she won't tell you anything.

and who told. u I didn't work towards my faults??
I did
buh like I said
cheats will always be cheats.

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:29am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
He works on them whenever they are identified. And they are identified because he communicates with me.

Do you communicate with your woman? If you don't communicate she won't tell you anything.

and who told. u I didn't work towards my faults??
I did
buh like I said
cheats will always be cheats

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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:22am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

okay
so I have faults
and I ll always av emm
buh does it justify cheating
lemme ask u
if ur guy has his faults which u know of and still decide to love him
would u still consider cheating?
I guess no
instead u should just cut off d relationship if u not comfortable wit it
not u start sleeping around ryt?

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:19am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
Why did the guy go ahead after hearing all that from her?

Also, maybe you were not romantic enough. It's not like I'm justifying her actions but you faulted somewhere. No one is perfect but we work towards perfection. And working towards perfection means locating our faults and fixing things to be better next time.

The way you handled Girl A and she cheated, if you handle Girl B same way, she would cheat too. It's not a women thing. It's you. Did you bother asking her why she did that? I guess not. Instead you come to nairaland

I know a guy that used force on his girl. As much as she hated his strict nature(no Facebook, no party, bla bla), she loved him still and no room to cheat. They are married now. At least his own worked for him. He may have been Mr Nice guy before and when it didn't work, he changed gear.

okay
so I have faults
and I ll always av emm
buh does it justify cheating
lemme ask u
if ur guy has his faults which u know of and still decide to love him
would u still consider cheating?

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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:15am On Oct 03, 2016

Laveda:
So, you're the dream man, how you know that?
One thing I know for sure is, we've all got our flaws, don't act like you're just perfect..

I detest cheating anyway, but in this case where so many have been cheating on you, you need to sit and ask yourself questions if you really getting it right.

okay
buh bliv me most ladies would still cheat even if u chop off ur head for emm
I av been wit some good ones too
just dis two cases DAT seem so strange to me cos I Rilly saw us happenin
buh it is wat it is
cheats will always be cheats
and dey would always tryna justify it by claiming u are not doing enof

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 4:05am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
No it doesn't. Cheating is bad.

However, you may not have been a man! You may have been a bf only available when you wana lay or when you want to be around.

Most men who dated one girl for long and ended in marriage, go check.. they ensured there was a difference between wife material and side chick. Yes she is a gf but If you held her like a wife, she won't do jack if she loves you truly. She won't have any reason to. At which you provide whatever anyone else may want to use. Especially good sex.

If you did that, she would be the one asking you to go see her dad. But if you didn't she would take you as just another guy. So it's your fault.

Period

I said earlier DAT I was not perfect.
buh wat if I told u I was great for em
always choosing dem first ova friends ..
and d sex part
I have a PhD in dat
lol
it doesn't get better when u are wit me!!
and dey did Invite me ova to their families
the thing is, the way I find out always looks crazy,
d first one was weird
she Neva expected it
buh she told the guy she has someone she loves and wants to b wit, and d guy told my gee all DAT, she even told him my name
my question is if she loved me to DAT extent
why cheat??

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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 3:34am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
Nope. It's not adequate and material enough.

Sorry it's your fault.

okay
buh we neva had any ish about material wateva
like i said, i was not perfect
but does it really justify d fact dat dey bleeped someone else?

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 3:30am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

yeah
we were always togeda,
and she always told me i am the man she wants
and we did love eacgh oda
just baffled that she could still cheat.

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Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 3:28am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?
yeah
we were always togeda,
and she always told me i am the man she wants
and we did love eacgh oda
just baffled that she could still cheat.

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Romance › Re: Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 3:27am On Oct 03, 2016

Vinshu:
First, who confirmed that you are the dream man?

Do you communicate with her?

How often do you see her? Only when you have money to take her out? Or when you want to fvck?

Do you ask her questions? Do you have your eyes on her? Can she see you anytime she wish? Without you making 3 days arrangement?

Who loved who first? Did she even tell you she loved you? How did you fall in love ? What did she have? What do you have she fell in love with? What is her IQ? What is your own IQ?

What does she do? Where does she live? Do you know? Even if she is a student, are you guys living together? DO you observe her phone communications and social media? Is she even available on social media?
yeah
we were always togeda,
and she always told me i am the man she wants
and we did love eacgh oda
just baffled that she could still cheat

Did you love her or you lusted after her?

Answer the above questions then we can move forward.

If you cannot answer all at which you get stuck or "hang" in between, then sorry it's your fault she cheated.

Romance › Why Do Ladies Cheat Even After Getting Their "Dream" Man? by konklud22(op): 2:56am On Oct 03, 2016*

i wouldn't wanna bore you, so i would make it a quick one,
this is actually a personal experience from way back.. i was dating this babe during my school dayz, and i actually loved her cos she was very caring and just so accomodating. altho she had her flaws, buh i did love her!
she was always telling me i was her life, her this and that undecided

, and she not only said it, she acted it........ i would just say she was one of a kind.
then she bleeped up!!.
we were together somewhere in ogun state when she told me she would be visiting her aunt the folowing day, but she ended up going to lag to spend the weekend with a guy.
lo and behold, the guy she hooked up wit knew one of my guys, and he was telling my friend how well he enjoyed the "girl" from his school,
to be brief, my gee filled me in, and i just acted normal, hoping she would tell me enventually, buh she didnt and the rest became history..

then i had some other babes, buh they all did the same, and i had to cut dem off cos i cant stand my babe sleeping around. it depletes my ego.
the last babe was actually something else, her own cheating was a hit back to back! cry

i am not saying i was the perfect guy for them tho, buh i was far from bad.
u know,
its so funny how dey used to accuse me of being a flirt bla bla bla, but at d end dey are always the one to bleep up.
tho i av since moved on, i just want to know if deriz something i need to do, or dey are just so made to sleep around.
IMO- i think most ladies are just too confused to know what dey rilly want
lalasticlala

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Romance › Re: Woman Calls Out Sidechic Who Introduced Anal Sex To Her Man by konklud22(m): 1:25am On Sep 29, 2016

the husband is a confirmed mad man

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mteewww
so those world leaders live in naija abi angry

[b]LIE [/b]mumu

FG
for all d sufferings u av caused our great nation

Celebrities › Re: Tiwa Savage Taking Photos In A Toilet In Australia (Photos) by konklud22(m): 3:48pm On Sep 25, 2016

so?
becos u just fininshed taking a dump, u think we re interested in seeing ur smelly ass abi undecided

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Career › Re: Is There A Decent Way He Could End This Affair With His Married Boss? by konklud22(m): 6:46am On Sep 25, 2016

.hmmm
u see,
anyone could have fallen victim, its always after the whole escapades that u discover sex is foolishly overated undecided

my advise would be for u to ac t like a man.
drop her wisely, mayb by reducing ur sex prowess, who knows, she might loose interest
dnt form van damme by dumping her anyhow bro...... recession aint smiling

meanwhile

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Celebrities › Re: See How This Guy Finished President Buhari’s Daughter On Twitter (lol) by konklud22(m): 4:15am On Sep 25, 2016

i want her daddy to take a stroll at ojuelegba without security grin

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Christianity Etc › Re: Where Did Cain And Abel Wife Came From PIC by konklud22(m): 4:04am On Sep 25, 2016

lemme ask my oga at the top

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Celebrities › Re: Curvy Yoruba Actress, Biodun Okeowo, Wants You Guys To See What She Has (photos) by konklud22(m): 4:00am On Sep 25, 2016

wia is d backside

Celebrities › Re: Simi Asks For Votes, The Reply She Got Is Funny by konklud22(m): 3:59am On Sep 25, 2016

simi
lovely voice
i woulda crush on u, buh ii love my women BBW undecided

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