Crime › Re: INTERPOL Arrests James Aliyu In South Africa by kossyablaze(m): 7:41am On Jul 01, 2022 |
Beautiful.... In other news.... Happy Canada day to all of us in Canada!!! |
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Sports › Re: Transfer: Victor Osimhen Set For A Shock Move To Manchester United by kossyablaze(m): 6:37pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
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Sports › Re: Transfer: Victor Osimhen Set For A Shock Move To Manchester United by kossyablaze(m): 6:33pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
DontGiveUpYet: Except be wants to end his career. no vex me this afternoon |
Sports › Re: Transfer: Victor Osimhen Set For A Shock Move To Manchester United by kossyablaze(m): 6:33pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Tinubuurchin100: Tinubu can never be president of this country hmmmm buh this thread ain't bout him na |
Sports › Re: Transfer: Victor Osimhen Set For A Shock Move To Manchester United by kossyablaze(m): 6:32pm On Jun 27, 2022 |
Welcome to old Trafford bro... Ggmu! |
Crime › Re: CCTV: Househelp Caught Trying To Suffocate Her Colleague In Abuja (video) by kossyablaze(m): 7:51pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Rico96: How Obi go use press poverty when elect  is this funny? |
Crime › Re: CCTV: Househelp Caught Trying To Suffocate Her Colleague In Abuja (video) by kossyablaze(m): 7:51pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Haaa nawa |
Politics › Re: PVC: You are an Enemy Of Nigeria If You Don't Have This. by kossyablaze(m): 7:45pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
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Politics › Re: PVC: You are an Enemy Of Nigeria If You Don't Have This. by kossyablaze(m): 7:45pm On Jun 16, 2022 |
Hmmm nawa o |
Politics › Re: Tinubu Condemns Rumour On Muslim-Muslim Ticket by kossyablaze(m): 3:46am On Jun 15, 2022 |
Just imagine is it's Christian - Christian ticket  |
Travel › Re: Leaving things by kossyablaze(op): 6:55am On Jun 06, 2022 |
Soft landing at Frankfurt Germany
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Travel › Re: Leaving things by kossyablaze(op): 6:54am On Jun 06, 2022 |
From lagos to Frankfurt took us 6hrs
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Travel › Re: Leaving things by kossyablaze(op): 10:15pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
Checking in with Lufthansa airline. It's one stop flight to Germany... Then to my final destination
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Travel › Re: Leaving things by kossyablaze(op): 10:13pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
The journey is about starting... On my way 2d airport
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Business › Re: How Profitable Is Uber Biz In Owerri? by kossyablaze(m): 3:03pm On Jun 05, 2022 |
GALAXY11: yap,can i private chat you? use here... I replied ur mail tho |
Business › Re: How Profitable Is Uber Biz In Owerri? by kossyablaze(m): 3:41am On Jun 05, 2022 |
Galaxy11 xup bro? U mailed |
Phones › Re: Relocating Soon Abroad What phone Should I buy by kossyablaze(m): 10:14pm On Jun 04, 2022 |
Realteeyee123: Hi everyone, so I would be relocating soon Abroad .
I just need a little advise, a little confused
I currently use an Infinix Note 7 and I've been told the phone won't do me good when I travel I'm looking at buying either an;
Iphone 11 Iphone Xsmax or a Samsung Galaxy S20
Would appreciate your humble and honest feedback.
Country is Canada.
What phone should I get please, I'm looking at buying it Soon bro hw fr? Wen is ur flight? I dey enter Ontario 2mrw like this o |
Travel › Leaving things by kossyablaze(op): 9:57pm On Jun 04, 2022*. Modified: 9:59pm On Feb 09, 2024 |
Omo I can't wait to start the journey alreadyyyyy!!! |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 6:15am On May 18, 2022 |
[quote author=Tydot29 post=112899780][/quote]hw fr... U don book flight? |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 9:04pm On May 12, 2022 |
corleone427: Amen and Amen.....I applied by March 2021...I have raised webforms still nothing...at this point in time am just waiting out the time...just waiting for a reply....even if nah denial sef make I see am and know what to do.....haven't given up yet tho...just fed up that's all hey? Anything yet? |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 4:28pm On May 01, 2022 |
Jonaholorun: Amen to the prayers, I am the next to testify in Jesus name. Thank you so much.
But when exactly did you apply for the sowp? May 14th 2021 |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 1:20pm On Apr 30, 2022 |
Good day all!!! Its my PPR for SOWP.... If you applied btw April and may 2021...U'll get a decision soonest. Don't give up! Keep up with ur daily prayers. Dont feel God doesn't exist. Dont lose hope. God came through for me and would for all that believes and trusts in him. |
Politics › Re: Ahead Of Presidential Primary, Osinbajo Begins Second Nationwide Consultation by kossyablaze(m): 6:46am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Akwamkpuruamu: Thought you Tinubu urchins said that Buhari will handover to Tinubu for supporting him in 2015 and 2019. So what's happening now? Why is Tinubu poo pooing in his pampers with his shaky shaky hands lol he's part of those tweeting on whatsapp � |
Politics › Re: Ahead Of Presidential Primary, Osinbajo Begins Second Nationwide Consultation by kossyablaze(m): 6:45am On Apr 22, 2022 |
ShenTeh: Him no sure before? unto which level? |
Politics › Re: Ahead Of Presidential Primary, Osinbajo Begins Second Nationwide Consultation by kossyablaze(m): 6:45am On Apr 22, 2022 |
Go well son |
Celebrities › Re: August Alsina To Release A Tell-all Book On 'Entanglement' With Jada Pinkett by kossyablaze(m): 9:38pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
joelag: Making money on top of Willie willie wonka or willie obiano |
Celebrities › Re: August Alsina To Release A Tell-all Book On 'Entanglement' With Jada Pinkett by kossyablaze(m): 9:37pm On Apr 13, 2022 |
Beautiful |
Family › Re: I'm Scared Of Marrying Her by kossyablaze(m): 6:53pm On Mar 14, 2022 |
bewov: Please guys, I have something bothering me so much, I will really appreciate it if I can get a matured response.
These might be long, but please bare with me
There is this girl have been dating since March 2021. Although, we met in University days and we have been dating since 2017, but because I was graduating and she has 1 more year to spend in the school, I left her and travelled to Lagos to work, because I got a job in a company in Lagos, immediately I graduated. I needed to concentrate on my future so I told her I want to pause the relationship to focus, but I will definitely be back for her, I promised her this. She was a virgin then!
After working in the company for 2years, I also learnt some IT skills online while I was working in the company, and I was earning cool money from it, so I decided to quit the job and focus more on the online business.
My business have been doing well and I have about 2 other virtual assistant helping me out, anyway I was kind of comfortable, so I thought of fulfilling my promise to my girlfriend. I called her one morning, and she was shocked! We chatted a bit and I told her I want us to see urgently, we schedule a date for her to meet me in the hotel, because I was staying in Lekki and he stays around Surulere, I wanted an hotel close to her house, so she can return early.
We met at the hotel and I can see she missed me so much, around 3pm I told her I'm back and I want us to continue dating and I'm ready to settle down, she agreed and we have been dating, all this happened around March 2021. Around April, I travelled out for about 2months, but I was very communicating with her, and when I got back around June, I discovered she had sex with another guy in May. Now, I wouldn't say she did it because of money, because I pay her 20k every month for upkeep, sometimes I just pay her 30k! She is not a wayward girl though, and she is not a type that sleeps around with guys back then in school, but once i came back into her life, I see a different girl entirely, when I came back she wasn't a virgin anymore, it's not my problem anyway, because the truth is I never forgot her during all those years I left her behind.
I didn't tell her I knew she cheated on me, but all I do tell her was that she did something bad to me and I want her to open up to me about it, but my girl kept on denying it, she sworn with her life, that she didn't cheat on me, that night I was shocked. Then, I didn't talk about it again till September, I gave her those months to regret her actions and confess to me, but she never did, also I didn't stop helping her financially, I still pay her monthly for upkeep. I know you will be wondering why I give her money, right? This girl was with me and loyal to me when I had nothing, like nothing at all! She was raised by a single mother and she is struggling a lot, after graduating she decided to go for Hair Stylist training, that is where she is currently. So I just give her money monthly just to stay strong.
So around September I decided to tell her she cheated on me, although it was that once, she begged, cried and told me she was drunk and regretted it, she told me she doesn't want to tell me because she knows I will end the relationship, well to be candid I love her so much, so I decided to forgive her, but since that day, trusting her was very very difficult for me. Although, I do watch her and since then I have never seen anything of such from her.
January 2022, her mother stopped her from coming to my place, she wants me to come see her first before she can allow her daughter to come visit me again. So, I went to see her mom last month and I made my intentions known to her, I told her I will want to marry her daughter and she said she is okay with it, if her daughter is okay with me.
This girl is my type of girl but, she has some behaviours that sincerely I don't think I can deal with.
She has this mindset of "A woman should be equal to a man".
She doesn't respect me, she chats with random guys and if they invite her for outing, she goes with them, even if I tell her not to go! When she visits me, she says I must join her in doing the house chores, she will say "It's either you clean the house and I will wash the plates and cook, or she wash the plates and cook, while I clean the house". And sometimes if she wants to cook for me, she will want me to come to the kitchen with her and do some works, maybe Grind pepper with blender or slice onion, if I dont, she gets annoyed, saying will she be the one to be doing all?
She did something that annoyed me this morning, around 6am today I went to the filling station to get petrol, well she knows I eat early always, maybe 6am or 7am, I would have taken breakfast, but she has never dished me food at that time, I always do it myself whenever she is around. When I got back from the filling station, I still met my girlfriend on the bed pressing her phone, I told her I'm hungry and I will want to eat Spaghetti with tomato sauce, and she replied "Baby, please cook it yourself, you said I'm your queen, pamper me na" Really? What does that have to do with you cooking for your fiance?
Well, I was annoyed, I went to the kitchen and prepared the food myself, the truth is when the food was ready, I only dished my own and ate, she said "What about her? Won't she eat?" I didn't answer her!
Aside from this, sincerely sometimes she talks to me rudely, and one thing she and I knows is that she is very very stubborn and not ready to submit to any man. Sincerely, this attitude is making me scared of settling down with her, I want to propose her this year and do the marriage rights but with all this behaviours I'm thinking the marriage will be hell for me.
When she came over yesterday, I prepared food for her before her arrival, and I served her, all she could say was "What is this? The food taste bad! Is this food or poison?" She never gave a good compliments about the meal, yet she finished the food and went for second round.
Last night before we went to bed, I told her to warm the rice and the stew, she said it won't get spoilt that she will do it in the morning, I asked her if she is sure, she said Yes. And I went to the kitchen before preparing my Spaghetti, I saw the rice is already bad and can't be eaten, I showed it to her and she was like "haaa she doesn't know it will spoil"
Also, the chicken I bought yesterday to cook her the meal, I couldn't use all, I left some in the pot, and I forgot to warm it last night, my girl saw it while washing the plates this morning, and she was like "What is this?" I told her chicken and she said "And you didn't warm it" she left it there in the pot like that without doing anything to revive it. Before I went to the kitchen to do it myself!
She only washed the plates, bath and went to church this morning, she didn't arrange the bed, nor sweep the room littered with all we ate last night. I'm sure of the message she is passing to me... "Have washed the plates, you clean the house".
Please guys, I want to propose her around August and settle down with her in November, but this behaviours are the things turning me off.
Will she changed and act normal when we get married, or this will continue? The guys she chat with, which I told her I don't like it, she replied that "She will never and ever leave them". All these types of attitudes and not showing me respect, do you think she will change after we get married or she will continue?
Please guys, I'm very confused here brotherly... Pls contact me asap |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 9:39pm On Dec 07, 2021 |
UnyimeOcean: Finally the long awaited mail arrived. Employer specific work permit approved. Ewo!!!!!! Congratulations � |
Politics › Re: Precious Chikwendu: Fani-Kayode Hates Igbos by kossyablaze(m): 3:46pm On Dec 06, 2021 |
I know |
Travel › Re: Canada Spouse Open Work Permit (sowp)timeline by kossyablaze(m): 9:22pm On Dec 05, 2021 |
corleone427: Congratulations....they would open again....as far as you and your family have been vaccinated you no get problem....they would lift the ban......I am still hoping for my own PPR drop this December,.... congratulations ones again Amen!!! Im waiting on mine too. Applied may 14th.Wifey don cry tire. It will drop this December in Jesus name. Amen |