Angeleena:
good for them...always thought he has a thing for fair ladies..baby mama,is now an occupation, soon it might be a course of study, in universities, strictly for females,just as food and nutrition, back to then in college.

BabaCommander:


You have a couple of things in common with the op: pathological anger born outta low self esteem.

You can hook up with him.....he can atleast afford to feed you with eba and buy a better footwear than that herdsmen rubber shoe you are putting on.

Apollux:

Sorry to disagree with u sir. What u just suggested is not a solution. How long will he continue to play the full and apologize to the wife when is the one wrong?
I'd suggest that the op takes his time out to really investigate this issue. Something else is involved here and he needs to find out before taking a decision.
If the marriage wont work, it will not no matter the amount of apologies he tender. Well I think he should involve his family, present the matter to them and see their response.

BabaCommander:



Poor people are always hungry and angry. I understand you are frustrated.
One thing you need to understand though, is that it's not your fault that you were born poor, but it's not your fault to remain poor.
Fortunately, you can change your conditions by changing your attitude. Channel your anger into a MORE productive activity.

HungerBAD:
Nothing serious here.

Your story omitted some very important details. Like how close you are to your family?do you guys live in the same city?how often do they come to your home?did your parents not want you to get married to her?

Everybody goes through this stage in the marriages,and that is loyalty to either wife or family.

Brother.

Your new family is and should be your only priority. Have a honest heart to heart conversation with her,and apologize to her if you had given her the impression you were not being a pillar to her.

Your wife should be your Rock.

To your extended family: A real man should know when to draw that line,and never ever let your family cause your wife any kind of physical or emotional anguish.

Your wife's mother lives overseas and your mom could not come help with the new baby after birth?sorry to say it even if she is your mom,but your Mom is wicked.

BiafranBushBoy:


Lol... Calling the Op and having a seminar would have been better!!

Archangels2:


this last paragraph was so deep...

Joagbaje:
Apostle was not wrong Rahab the harlot who saved the spies was the great grand mother of David . She Gave birth to Boaz ,boaz gave birth to salmon ,salmon gave birth to David father jessee. And I sure the apostle didn't say it to put David down but rather to glorify God that it doesn't matter your background God can change your story

Mat 1:5 — Mat 1:6
Salmon the father of Boaz, whose mother was Rahab,Boaz the father of Obed, whose mother was Ruth,Obed the father of Jesse,and Jesse the father of King David.

James 2:25
Likewise also was not Rahab the harlot justified by works, when she had received the messengers, and had sent them out another way?


But if the apostle was talking about the direct mother . I may need to check that out.

murphyibiam15:

I work in unth ituku/ozalla

murphyibiam15:
wao..hope to meet u

murphyibiam15:
yea I am in Enugu.. and u?

JesusChrist666:
Hi Ladies & Gents,

PLEASE i beg you, don't trivialize this discussion. I am 31 years old already. Working for an international company earning a very good salary monthly (400k+), I have found it extremely hard to marry.

WHY?

Since the age of 18, it seems my reproductive organ has refused to stop growing. It is around 11 inches long now. While growing up, it was fun to boast about size, but now nothing is funny about it.

GFs don't want to hang around and it is very unpleasant to see a woman in tears, the look of fear and the inevitable bleeding that follows after lovemaking. This is very often followed by " I can't do this anymore...i can't cope" and a swift jilting.

I have gone to see several urologists / andrologists in teaching hospitals all to no avail. All they advise me is to lubricate more, take it easy, no deep penetrations. Nothing has worked. I was also diagnosed with satyriasis - extremely high libido.

I have attached some pictures. PLEASE NO JOKES. If you have nothing serious to offer as advice, please move on.

THANKS in anticipation of good advice. I am depressed!

MODIFIED : This is a very private topic and i am going to take it down very soon.

THE PENIS ISN'T FLACCID IN THE PICTURES...IT IS SEMI-ERECT.

afonjasaremad:
rest in peace to the death....I can't hold my tears...

But I will always and still blame the govt....most of the major roads in Anambra except federal roads are just a single lane road despite having high volume of traffic.....
hardly you hear of accident in Enugu...because all their roads are dualized...

Wealth7:



Ladies don't talk in such manner..

GenBuhari:
Because we must show white devils in good light, we have to single out the white woman and give her all the credit?

She happens to be only a member of a team of AID workers whose job it is to rescue such children.

Is she not getting well paid for coming to work and doing her job?

It is like writing a story in UK about an African social worker whose job it is to get get english young homeless English girls off the streets and into hostels; and writing a similar headline: "Youth Worker Anna Nwoye rescues four homeless teenage girls from a life of exploitation on the streets".
This shouldn't be news unless there is an dark agenda behind this and all the recent graphic pictures of death.

Perhaps it is part of an evil agenda to show the best of whites and the worst of ourselves.

Perhaps there is an imminent genocide to be perpetrated against us by whites, hence they can use all the graphic pics of murders, dumped new borns and accident victims, to desensitize us against their wickedness.

Fellow citizens keep you wits about, look after yourselves and each other.

Instead of just rescuing under fanfare, publicity and news cameras, why not also expose the pastor that labeled them witches?

Shiitposter:
Aww, how cute. I wish this escalates to WWIII though so that both countries can bomb each other, with North Korea bombing US at just the right places to destroy Google Inc, Amazon AW and any other big internet database site so that the internet would shut down for a while. Nigerians would need to train their local birds to carry their tweets each other.

youngest85:

Na every month u do birthday?

youngest85:
Na every month u do birthday?

deflover:
Why argue with the police U know they are mad But u went on to argue with them He died a useless death Even if the police man is killed He wasted his own life

Jayson1:
Real Stupidity.



The parents/guardians of these innocent children are complete fools.