₦airaland Forum

Society benefits at the end of the day. Two new slaves for his majesty’s service.

Una don start again. Election go soon reach, the same old gimmicks are out in full force. Don’t worry yourself, Portable’s uncle will return for round two.

It could happen to anyone.

Kalatium:
A Nigerian lady has sparked intense debate on social media after criticizing what she described as a growing pattern of emotionally and financially manipulative relationships involving some married men in Abuja.

In a viral post, the woman alleged that certain married men deliberately pursue young female corps members and junior workers who are still struggling to establish themselves financially in the city.

According to her, the process often begins innocently.

A young woman managing life on a modest income and paying rent within her means suddenly meets an older, financially comfortable man. The man begins providing support, introduces her to a more expensive lifestyle, upgrades her accommodation, and gradually becomes a major part of her daily life.

The lady claimed that in some cases, these men discourage the women from pursuing relationships with other men while encouraging loyalty and emotional commitment despite being legally married themselves.

Her biggest criticism, however, came from what she described as the ending of such relationships.

According to her, after months or even years of financial support and emotional investment, some of these men eventually decide to return fully to their marriages, sometimes citing religious transformation, family responsibilities, or a desire to focus on their wives.

The women involved, she argued, are often left to deal with the emotional and financial consequences of a lifestyle they may no longer be able to sustain independently.


Nairalanders, what do you think?

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Cc nlfpmod seun Dominique

Bring both parents. Most families I know do this. If anything, many women birth children in a bid to bring their mothers over without their husbands complaining. Men dey hear am pass if their mothers are deceased meanwhile the woman’s is alive.

Marriage will never be child’s play.

In two months, we’ll see videos of dancing doctors in DRC, Liberia and Uganda. Na every other year we dey hear of Ebola. Nothing dey happen.

nashito:
I'm really really concerned about the major recent major Ebola Outbreak in Congo & Ugnda.

With the type of reactive and not pro active government we have currently, I'm really worried Ebola would already be in Nigeria as we speak and spreading...

The United States, Canada and Mexico in a Trilateral agreement yesterday, have limited people traveling from Central Africa and other designated African countries to follow through some particular specific Airports, with access to quarantine. As they would be first and foremost examined at the point of entry.

However, ok yet to hear our health ministry or minister issue any cautiousness in Nigeria.

I'm really terribly worried because regardless of your stand with Ebola, it's a very deadly and fast killing disease.

What do you guys think?

You don’t.

Greatex90:
Do you have sense?

Tear gas on school children na normal Nigerian something.

First time this happened to me, I was in SS1. The smell of burnt rubber clogged my throat while my eyes watered uncontrollably. It wasn’t a funny experience. The thing triggered asthma in the vulnerable. We learned later that the usual Nigerian fuel scarcity made people belligerent in a nearby fuel station and the police discharged the substance, not caring that a secondary school was next door.

I changed school. My second experience was in SS3.

This time, the sensation was familiar. Likely due to knowing what it was, it didn’t burn like the first time and I covered my face with a cloth to lessen the effect. I had peers who had never experienced it before and succumbed to asthma attacks. What happened this time? A police convoy was stuck in traffic and decided to clear the road for themselves.

Two different schools. Two different states. The same experience. The same culprits. Naija no fit better. Parents say things were better in the past from false nostalgia.

At least been there, done that. He can move forward in life with no regret.

Woman no dey Nairaland.

Allthingswork:
Well...some might say this. Others may feel it's been rebranded and reformed. Depending on ones outlook.
The old NL interesting days of Mukina, Mynd, Sexysteel, Mrschima and a host of them. Ah, Kanwuliaextra was another crazy but enjoyable lady that I used to low-key fan. Omo, she had many battles on this forum with men and women, ooh. Haha. And, she won them! 😅♥️ Them days...

Add our belief in witchcraft to the mix. We will keep chasing spirits while those who’ve studied their environments will keep flourishing before us. At least, they’ll either pass on their outdated technology to us or come over as expatriates to govern our resources. It makes one believe black skin is cursed and requires guidance from other races to achieve something significant.

The forum is a shell of its old self.

Allthingswork:
Yup, she's tall for a female. 👍

You feel old? Aww.
How old? Don't answer that.
Nairaland has been around and has stood the test of time. Twent-one years already. An admirable feat.

Destiny sent a message to buy an iPhone.

Policemen in checkpoints are bored. All they see are cars pass every other minute. It’s why they frustrate commuters by telling them to stay for hours in a bid to entertain themselves. When you’re frustrated, frustrating other people becomes an amusing activity.

Took daddy’s height. Nice. Damn, I’m old. The child is one year younger than Nairaland.

Former Southampton FC and Royal Antwerp FC forward Victor Udoh has died at the age of 21, with reports indicating that the circumstances surrounding his death are being treated as suspicious.

1. Oyibo dey poison person? I suspect his fellow Africans, most especially Nigerians.

2. It’s 2026. People still fake ages? That man is not 21. Maybe he was 21 four years ago. His heart may have given up from the constant stress placed. Oyibo go reason say he really dey 21 come pile physical stress on am like say na young adult.

Plenty story aimed at a forum consisting of 100% males. Comedy.

Jman06:
I have observed with dismay how the older generation ladies who are already past their primes go about spreading falsehoods about men's fertility and virility claiming that men have biological clock and blaming infertility in marriage on men.

These fallacious claims are borne out of the desire to deceive the younger girls and make them reject marriage proposals from older men. These older women do this in a bid to have a the older guys settle for them when they can't get much younger girls to marry. It is a strategy which they're using to ensure that the eligible older men are left with no choice than to settle in marriage with the older generation of women!

The fact is that men age like wine which becomes stronger and better with time. In this country, it takes a lot of time for a guy to become financially ready to start a family due to the economic situation of the country. This is why most marriageable men are those already in their late 30s to early or even mid 40s.

These older women spread the lies that men have biological clock and would not be able to father a child at older ages. Evidence around us have proven such claims to be false because even in our immediate families, many of us were born while dads were in their 50s and early 60s. So, what biological clock are they now talking about?

They also claim that at such ages, men lose their virility and become impotent. This claim is also arguably false because, except in the cases where the man suffers from chronic illnesses that affect their sexual effectiveness, healthy men still retain their sexual potency even up to the age of 70 in some cases..if at my age, I still have those embarrassing moments of genital attention in the public, then I can tell you that such claims are unfounded.

We know that most cases of infertility in marriage occur from the side of the woman! But these old women like to twist facts and put the blames squarely on the men. For this reason, men who are being accused of being responsible for infertility in their marriages should not sit back and swallow all the humiliations and insults. Let them try their potency and fertility outside with much younger girls! I'm very sure that the result will always be positive.

As a man, when you have suffered all your life and eventually make money to be considered marriageable by the greedy female gender, save yourself all the troubles of having to struggle with bearing children by marrying from the pool of much younger girls. If you know that you desire to start having children immediately after marriage, then do yourself a favour by marrying a girl in the age range of 18 to 22. An uncle of mine got married at 42 to a 38years old lady, he's now 62 without a child. His wife is now 58 and obviously reached menopause. Now, imagine if this man had married a girl in the age range of 18 to 22, he would have had all the children he wanted before even crossing the age of 50 so that he could have used his working years to take care of them and help them stand. Now he's retired and without a child! His case makes me sad whenever I remember him because he's a good man by all standards.

Now to the young girls, learn to set your priorities right. As you go through the various social media platforms, don't be deceived by what you read or hear there from those older women discouraging you from marrying older men. In Nigeria today, those older guys are the most eligible for marriage by all standards. They are more financially and mentally stable to handle marriage! Besides, provision for the family goes seamlessly when you are dealing with the far older men! If you know that you want to marry on time and have your children easily, then your best bet is marrying a more stable older man.

It is very good when girls marry early because aside reducing the problem of infertility in marriage,it helps reduce the chances of complications and high risk pregnancies. The problem of genetic diseases and congenital anomalies is also greatly minimised when a woman starts bearing children early! So, don't be deceived by those selfish older women who want you to remain unmarried just like them. A word is enough for the wise!

Why are the moderators moving people’s diaries to the general section? Nairaland, ehn.

I’ve gotten the information I require. A.I. will always be more useful than this place. Topic closed.

What do you children gain from spreading lies in this forum? The government should start arresting people for fake news. The same way you are so bold to spread falsehood is the same way you’re scared to face the associated consequences.

Unpatriotic2:
Are you trying to say you've not seen videos online where abokis were injecting fruits with a substance through a syringe?

When next you are buying from an aboki, simply tell him you will pay for the 3 oranges and that you want him to consume those oranges in your presence. Come back here and tell us your experience. They won't consume it but you think you know better than everyone else. Oju e ma la. Your eyes will open, you think this kidney, liver, stroke and other old age symptoms that are now very common with small children and teenagers is a joke, right?

See am. First response is from a jambite who talks rubbish about the government because everybody else does. It’s like their love for soccer. Ask them why it is the greatest form of entertainment and they can’t give you details. Na una way.

Good luck to her.

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A student doesn’t need a skill when he/she can depend on allowances/mom and dad. Them plenty for Nairaland. What is sad is adults without skills of any sort. Those ones also plenty for Nairaland wasting their lives year after year.

DaInferno:
you clearly did not get the message the op was trynna pass. He's is not here to compare phone prices with you, he is simply saying it isnt wise to buy an iphone of 200k+ without having a skill that will sustain you

Poor you.

Peacecore:
I don't use AI in such sensitive matter.

Faith the size of a mustard seed can move mountains.

Lovelink1991:
Is it possible to do that which you ask for?

Nairaland won’t kill me. ROFLMAO. Because one visits here, urchins believe everyone is on the same level. Thank God for my life.

Lithiumite:
Atleast I am not crying hunger like you all the time..... I bet you still cant afford 49k for 50kg bag of rice,better ask for a pay raise from your obidient movement.

If all three of you got treated, you could continue whatever it was you had going.

OredoPikin:
Infection made the rule.
Why should you do 2 women at the same time.

I remembered i onced engage in this
Although the other one was just a side chic to me but i was sleeping with her raw.
But she gave me infection, i passed to my gf unknowingly, then i treated myself, then my gf then now passed it back to me before i opened up to her and we both went and treat ourselves together
I didn't even tell the side chic, i just cut her and focused on just one girl
ThankGod it was a treatable infection.
One minute pleasure go just send you to early grave

Use A.I. for an in-depth explanation.

Peacecore:
What are insinuating?

I’ve never seen these two accounts in my fifteen years here.

Since parents didn’t teach him that actions have consequences, society will.

…and yours? Oh, you didn’t drop one. I don’t waste my time in 2026. Find someone else.

GeneralOuki:
your opinion is straight up propaganda regurgitation