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[b]I really want blog visitors to help me out of this crossroad that I am o. I am a lady of 32 years old and I will be getting married in the first quarter of next year(2015). I have done introduction and all is set. About eight years ago, I met this wonderful man. Then he was about 35 years old, married and with two kids. On the first day that circumstance brought us together, he was friendly yet firm, you could see straight away that he was well cultured and a man any lady would fall for.

Well I didn't fall but we became close friends. Very close friends but there was nothing sexual between us o. Gradually he became my good friend, my mentor, my confidant, just like a big elder brother to me and frankly, he behaved himself all through and I never gave our relationship any thought beyond being platonic. I will tell him everything that was happening to me and he would advise me, make me laugh and be there for me. Even when I met my soon to be husband, I told him about it and in a way, he helped me accept to start a relationship with my husband to be. In fact if not for him, I wouldn't have said yes to my husband to be

I really cannot explain how it all changed, but the bottom line was that three years ago, which was about five years after I knew him, our relationship moved from being platonic to being sexual. I am not laying the blame on anybody, but after I started a relationship with my soon to be husband, I kept comparing both men and frankly, the difference was like Coke and water.


While my older friend was friendly, and outgoing and fun and matured, my husband to be was dull and timid and uninteresting! I complained to my older friend and he would always encourage me to stick to my husband to be and with time I started loving my husband to be too in his own way.

Two years ago, this my older friend’s wife passed away. I felt like my own flesh and blood passed away, cause as much as I was involved with my older friend, the line of his family and wife, was a line I never crossed. He loved and cherished his wife and family so much that I always prayed for my husband to be to love and cherish me as such! Anyway, after his wife passed away, I saw my older friend’s pain and misery as he mourned his wife and I saw him gradually regain his self again.

About six months ago, we had a family engagement and he was invited. My entire family was present and he was also present. I introduced him to all my elder ones(I happen to be the last born o). My husband to be was also present and everybody got along great. The occasion was also very successful. Last week after my introduction, my older friend told me that he wanted to see me. When we saw, he started by apologising for what he had to say and told me that he would like to ask for my permission to talk to my elder sister for a relationship that might lead to marriage.


I just sat there tongue-tied. I couldn’t say anything then. Since then, I have been giving the whole talk deep thoughts. My elder sister is divorced with two kids, which my older friend knows. My sister is a nice, wify material who was unfortunate with her marriage. She has been divorced now for more than 15years. She is about the same age with my older friend and I know they would both make a wonderful couple together.

My dilemma is that me and my older friend have been involved severally sexually, now he wants to start a relationship with my elder sister. I have not given him a go ahead and I know that if I say no, he would respect my decision but I really love him and would want to see him happy and fulfilled just as he had made me happy and fulfilled all these years and noting that I too would be married soon, I would love my sister and my older friend to be happy too together(and I am sure they would make a wonderful couple.


Please I need reader’s advice fast, as my older friend has started disturbing me that I am yet to give him a reply to what he asked of me.[/b]

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i miss our hilly Umunna Bende camp, Reppinh #'4' platoon#mami market # Mr. NYSC #Platoon '16'

MizMyColi:
You!

Me!

kika23:
Where's Kulboy?

I am here

My "fe-fool" Una Thank you o

Good evening folks, Please check my profile picture to know what I won.

Beennkumar:
Kulboy, let it slide.

Just ignore.

Yezzir boss

FrancisTony:
You wish! You wish!

Like you know me, right?

Boy i can bet my m.s.c fees that you won't and i repeat WON'T scale through the first elimination round if you had contested. You are just a pained "nincompoop"

naijaboiy:
Oga I hail you too...

Thanks man

Naijaboiy reply my mail

IDEApro:
The manner she responded to kulboy over spam mention before the contest was totally unacceptable.

Kulboy was a threat to the regular romance members....they all envied him.

The Most Handsome
The Best Brilliant Answer to the Questionnaires
The only Graduate among them
An Enterprising Young Guy

He was just a threat.

Such plaudits showered on my personality. All I can say is Thank you. I take pride and consolation in knowing that a few courageous members of this forum have decided to speak up about the injustices and irregularities that rocked/ridiculed the sole purpose of the Mr Nairaland contest and Threatened to shake up the very foundations of this contest. They can never get the better of us. God Bless us all

FrancisTony:
Who told this one I failed JAMB? You think I'm like you?

Your mate are doing NYSC in early and mid twenties and you're doing your own in late twenties.

such a shame that NYSC seems like an achievement to you. you are just too inconsequential, keep searching the nooks and crannies of NL for the underserved relevance you desperately seek , Shame on you Sir.

MizMyColi:
Naaa
No church.

I am tired ehn
I catered at a wedding yesteday.
It was so so stressful.

My eyes r still swollen.
I'll go in the evening.

I'm glad I didn't get to see any of those posts, except of course, those I was explictly mentioned.
Which I will keep ignoring. Most of those monikers mentioning me are unverified e-entities anyway .

You, Amefrica, Chibwike, Tosyne2much....Kulboy
I love your spirit(s), how you handled the whole ish, despite not "winning".
Speaks tons about your person(s).

T'was an honour working with you guys.

You are such a Unique Nairalander, God bless you plenty ma'am

FrancisTony:
Where is the proof that he cheated except making a derogatory comment.

Kulboy was a cheat and lost disgracefully.

@FrancisTony, I can only dignify your unwarranted jabs at me when i know you have successfully passed JAMB and gained Admission into a PolYtechnic/University. Ediot!

so much controversy..............there's only one authentic kulboy and ya'all know who it is

mencade5:
see this boy ooo. U no write my name abi?

I had go dig deep and resurrect my monicker which i abandon for two months for you. I always appear as guest. ...okay ooo

I'm really sorry special Thanks to my chairman, I greet you sir.

IDEApro:
Madam when people support you for a worthy cause they do so with lot of emotions and you the cross bearers must up your ante cos its not only about you but you also representing their emotions and sacrifices.

What do you think happens when people slums and die watching football when their favorite team loses, refuse to eat, become gloomy et all? Are they paid wages or the footballers?

i'm sorry for this. i had a lot of other pressing issues of life which made me unavoidably absent during the course of this contest, thats why i solicited help and left the bulk of the work for my campaigners and supporters to do.the little free time i had i dedicated to this cause. Against all odds We got here. We all Had fun while the contest lasted and should be glad that the unpopular underdog against all odds reached the finals and created a niche for himself. Thank you

Thank you. Thank you. Thank you.
I have just sent NaijaBoiy a message to congratulate him on his victory. His supporters and his campaign also deserve congratulations.
I want to thank MarthaK, Rokiatu, Berem, Dechandel, Vivi, Medunah, Macklef, 50calibre,Ymodulus, Emyben, will1am and all others for all that they have done for our campaign.
They have made an extraordinary effort not just for me, but also for this Forum that we love.
And to you here tonight, and to the team across Nairaland-- the supporters, Campaigners, voters, Friends and well wishers of KULBOY. I don’t believe that there’s ever been an effort throughout the history of Mr Nairaland that can compare with what you have done over these past Days. Thank you so very much.
Thanks for all the hours of work, The nominations, the mentions, the likes, for the calls, for the support, for the resources spent and for the wishes
You performed magnificently. You inspired and humbled me. You’ve been the very best I could have imagined.
I so wish that I had been able to fulfil your hopes to be crowned Mr. Nairaland, but the Forum chose another winner. And so I join with you to congratulate and wish him well during his reign.
Thank you, and God bless Nairaland. You guys are the best
With gratitude,
Kulboy.
Thank you all,
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I love you All

Vivly:
cutebebe
adwem2003.
Drop your final votes for Kulboy now.
Thanks.

Vivi La Hot. Remember I schooled in France

lmtm:
My vote goes to kulboy,dude is fine
Cc:Dygeasy

Thank you

Cutehector4u:
looooool.... Am sory, i hav voted for naijaboiy...

No wahala

IDEApro:
Fine boy you are losing lead. Better canvass for vote for this is purely a popularity contest so if you bask in the euphoria of 'my fine will deliver me' the result will shatter your confidence.

Idea 2minutes remaining

Lapyte:
I vote Kulboy
Cc lapyte

Is this the Lapyte I know? Tomi na u b dis?

stingg:
U don win already bros

Brother Una too much, Infact i dey contest next for Nairaland Governor.

I vote kulboy
Cc: Dygessy

where is my darling rokiatu?