Has anyone seen the movie? It was directed by a nigerian and it made 12 million dollars on its opening week.

What are your views? We have Dizzee Rascal(Nigerian and Ghanaian), Tinchy Stryder(Ghanaian) and now Taio Cruz( a dance artist and Yoruba).

@Blackspade

Yes the black model you posted is at the most 25. Why didn't you post a 25 yr old white model to compare instead of a 45 yr old plain white woman like SJP.
At least if your going to make a comparison between a 25 yr old and a 45 yr old, put in Sharon Stone.
I must add, I wonder if the 20 something black model will look good at 51 like Sharon??

More Sharon

@Blackspade

Forget Angela Bassett oohhh!!

What of Sharon Stone, a white woman , age 51!

Leilah thats not true.
I am very attracted to white women,
There is so many beautiful white women.
I am attracted to nigerian women too but
they really need to watch their tummys. I
have yet to meet a nigerian woman with flat tummy
yet all my white girlfriends had super flat tummy
small waists, nice breasts and nice hips.
We need more gyms in Naija or promote them more.

Why does everything have to be bout' paper?
think they genuinley love her.shes part of family for 5 yrs.
they don want to lose her. they're just crazy, thats all.

My friends' easpecially female friends don't like the thought of me dating a white girl.
I'd love to date one but my friends are pressuring me not to!

pamela is my queen

another one

Some very beautiful white girls

This seems to be getting out of hand. Miss 83 what did he tell you on the phone tonight? Did he tell you how much of a loser his wife is or some other lie? Please you are seriously deluded. move on. His wife is his wife. For all you know, the 2 of them could be laughing at you behind your back!

Miss 83

I find your case incredibly sad. One minute you're saying he never says anything bad about his wife the next your coming out with all this mallarkey about her being an unfit mum. Are you contradicting yourself? Either that or you're a downright liar or he is!! if she really is an unfit Mum as he claims then why is he comfortable with leaving their son in her care, while he is feeding you nonsense so he can have a bit of a fling with you??! And if his wife is that nasty then why hasen't he filed for divorce yet?? Afterall if she is an unfit Mum then he should have enough evidence to gain sole custody of him!! Believe me the things he is saying about his wife are actually a subconcious thing. He's actually stating his faults and passing them off as his wife's. This man is clearly f**cked up and I'd advise you to get out of there asap. You can keep day dreaming as much as you want but he ain't gonna leave her for your pleasant smelling pussy or anything else for that matter. You're wasting your precious time woman. MOVE ON!

He's not going to go for the divorce, you're fooling yourself!

People please stop dissing Miss 83. You never told us how long you've been dating this man (days, mths, yrs??) When you started seeing him was his wife still living with him? What exactly do you have that his wife dosen't? We have to see the full picture before we can really judge. You're not exactly getting a great feedback here only insults. You say that he never talks bad bout his wife and that he says that she just dosen't make him happy. Is that the only vague explanation he can give? What sort of prblems were the having or did he even tell you? Is he actually any bit honest with you at all?

Where is Miss 83? Well are you going to do what I advised you or what? Anyways I'm a Nigerian man. I ain't married but I know that a Nigerian man will never leave his wife for another woman. He may have a mistress or whatever but at the end of the day he can never leave his wife. But it might be different in your case Miss 83. You say you live in the UK so maybe you're seeing a white guy. They tend to leave their wives for someody else so you might be lucky but if he's a Naija man you might as well forget. it ain't going to happen love no matter what bulls**t he's telling you to keep you keen. I ain't dissing you or anything but you have to be cruel to be kind. If you ain't satisfied with just being his mistress/bit on the side (which you obviously aren't) then move on and find an eligeble bachelor. Theres plenty of single men around.

Miss 83. You don't wanna push him. Are you telling me in other words that he is controlling you and that you constantly have to tip toe around him. His pushing you to desperation but you don't want to push him into action to do what makes you happy. If he really loved you he would do anything for you without hesitation but you're afraid to broach the subject because you don't want to push him and make him angry or something(I dunno). From what you say he obviously has a problem with communicating(maybe thats why his wifey left him!) He also sounds confused himself(sign of a broken heart maybe!!) Anyway how are you so sure he's going to leave his wife? Is it because he said it with meaningless words? Anyone can say things they don't mean. Tell him you want to see some action instead of words'.

Miss 83. You're not confused. It's just deep down you know the truth but cannot admit it. You can't trust him, you said it yourself. Put yourself out of your misery. Call him tonight and give him an ultimatum. Tell him that you are sick of this running around, that you love him and that if he really wants you then he should immediately proceed with the divorce otherwise its over. see what he does and if it's still the same old story about his son then you have your answer, he's not serious. But if he says ok and does what he says then he does love you. You know what to do. But to be honest from what I can see he still carries a torch for his wife. Sorry. If he really loves you like he claims he wouldn't have you put up with this nonsense he is protaying.

Miss 83 How long has he been married to his wife? How old is the child? How do you know he still dosen't live wth her? How long have you been in a relationship with him? Is he an old man? Is he rich? Come on elaborate more. we need the full details. We need to know the full picture. If he still dosen't live with his wife then she obviously does not want to be with him, the feeling is mutual between them so whats holding him back from seeking a divorce. Maybe he stll has feelings for her??!! . Maybe his wife is the one who walked out on him and he's heartbroken and his way of dealing wth it is by taking his mind off her by being with you. From what you tell us it dosen't make sense. He's telling you what you want to hear, he's not telling you the truth DON'T YOU THINK?? Open your eyes woman. There is alot more to this than what you think!! Maybe his waiting for his wife to come back to him and if she never does he'll have you to replace her. All those excuses about waiting for a while to divorce because of his kid. I don't buy it. He's waiting for his wife to come home to him. He's probably begging her to come home as we speak!

Does his wife know about you? Is he still living with his wife?

HI Miss 83. Could you ellaborate more on your relationship with this man (e.g what he says is exactly wrong with his wife etc). Are you living in Nigeria or elsewhere? is he Nigerian? Is his wife also Nigerian? Maybe then we'd know exactly what advice to give you?

No actually I'm in Europe. I like Karmamod. She's the only one not dissing me. So Karma what do you think I should do? I am in love and I ain't a bad person. I LOVE her so much. She is great, a very quiet girl with a GOOD soul.

Hey People! I told my sister in law how I felt about her today( a beautiful, 24 yr old oyinbo woman with long wavy blond b hair, a small waist and big boobs and big green eyes) how much I loved her today. And the worst came to me. She told me I was screwed up, crazy. What am I going to do?

Hi Guys, I never mentioned this yet but I came to my brother's house 4 weeks ago and he was with his mistress and my bro was on the phone to my sister in law. He had his phone on speakerphne so his mistress could hear the conversation. My sister in law was saying how much she loved him and my brother and his mistress started laughing. When the call ended my bro and his mistress started discussing my sister in law and what a big fool she was. I was so pissed. This innocent girl being duped by my brother and his evil mistress. What can i say?

I am not evil I am just in love with the wrong woman!

The whole family is celebrating christmas day together. I think I will get some private time with her and tell her everything. If she rejects me I will die, if the feeling is mutual, i'm sorry i will have to be with her discreetly, its better than not having her at all.

If you knew this girl you'd understand. She is a one in a million. I

Its not lust It is LOVE. I don't think I can tell her about his affair. it is not my place to tell her that.

I am sorry if I am offending people by being too honest but I wish I didnt feel this way. When it comes down to it, I am 28yrs old and I cannot see my self getting married unless it's her and that ain't going to happen unfortunately. No other woman can get a look in. I am not going to pretend to love someone else. I am in love with someone like alot of people, it just happens to be my brother's wife. I love my brother but to be honest I love her alot more and if this all came out i know my family would disown me but she is worth it.