₦airaland Forum

lionphil:
Pick her calls... Imagine you were one of the customers that had been waiting on the queue then the attendant just sold for someone that just came, how would you feel?

She did the right thing, you should have been patient with her

ugwumichael:
I would give preference to my regular customer first, while attending to the new faces as well. Let's say for every 2 regular customer I attend to, I will attend to a new customer as well, i.e if my old customers are much on the queue or do it a 1:1.

My question to you is, where does your babe fall in this your analogy?
She falls into it very well irrespective of weda she owns the place or not. I have seen fuel attendant do it very well.
Just like you said, I wasn't expecting her to attend to me immediately, after all she said I should wait. But after serving like 2 or 3 of them she should have look my side.

Is she the station manager or owner?

ugwumichael:
You can't be testing your babe with something that will make her lose her job and you expect her to fall. I guess she appreciates what you have been doing for her, but you should know you have not married her and you may easily dump her when she start demanding for money even to buy sachet water because she has lost her job and you start seeing her as a burden.

FBIBOT:
Her story doesn't make any sense..... Seems she is just seeking attention

Truly traumatized person won't be comfortable taking pictures
Masturbating and driving in Lagos traffic.... really?
Not to talk of doing it when you are with a stranger plus kid... Come on.... She must think we're idiots

Maysdevices:
If you want an accurate depiction of the staggering amounts of unintelligence naturally present in the average Nigerian man, read the comments on this thread

Growing up I used to think men were smarter because they spoke up more, now I see the adage of the emptiest barrels making the loudest noises ringing wildly true for them

A nation full of fishbrains, male and female

RoyalBlu:
OP!!!


*This thread just hold me local.
Normal me wey nor dey comment pass five times for one thread. Chai.

MrBrownJay1:
you are dating your own shadow!

Bimpe29:
I'm truly sorry on behalf. However, your girl stance is entirely commendable and worth emulating, particularly in the present day Nigeria.
Clearly, she demonstrated fairness and justice which is absolutely remarkable. This attitude and sense of entitlement have been disastrous for us in our quest to develop as a nation.
The man knows man syndrome, na my personal person as well as my tribal guy of a thing keep marginalizing and preventing some people from getting opportunities they actually merited.
Please forgive her fairness and encourage her to always be fair and just in her little capacity, thereby we will all have a change of attitude and ensure that our personal interests will not at any time influence our official decision.
The change has just begun with your darling girlfriend.

Juliearth:
Did I type this? No truer words than these. The change we desire starts from grassroot acts such as this..

ugwumichael:
Would you be happy with yourself if your brother jumps queue for you and it leads to disturbance in the station and the management gets to find out, and after close oecwo k for tde day he comes home ajd tells you he has been sacked as a result of trying to favour you.
Talk truth oo today is sunday

D111:
Don't be too hard on the girl, maybe her boss is around at that time she was just being careful of what might later happened If she attend to you immediately.so my guy pick her call and let bygone be bygone

Biglittlelois:
Nigeria can never be great because of Nigerian men, from the young ones to the old they are all corrupt, like to cut corners and cheat people, yet they complain about politicians everyday while they are exactly the same, someone said an average Nigerian complains of politicians because they are not at the helm of affairs, if they were they will do worse, now I truly believe him.

Karleb:
Bros, love should be sacrificial.

ugwumichael:
Are you familiar with " he who pays the piper dictates the tune "?

ugwumichael:
If you really loved her, then you should have approached her boss and not her, so you don't put her job on the line

tochez24:
You still haven't learned⚠️

Life will teach you the hard way🙄

liveyourlife007:
Another bus driver spotted

RoyalBlu:
Sample the opinions of nairalanders?

You go legit enter panic mode.

It's been an enlightening thread no doubt.

PureFace1:
Your brother is just an attendant not the owner.

If you love your brother you wouldn't allow him to be taking that kind of risk that can put his job on jeopardy. A lot of big men come to the fuel station you know and it will only take one or two complain from the big men that know the boss very well to get him sack.

Will you provide another job for your brother if he lose it because of you, it's not all boss that tolerate nonsense you know

Raalsalghul:
Maybe, it's just me but I see nothing wrong with what she did.

You never know if her boss/manager is lurking around hence why she decided not to jump the queue.

SmellingAnus:
Forgive her... Accept her back... Stop that daily contribution/Akawo you do for her... If she stays with you for one year without complaining Marry her...

PureFace1:
You are not the only regular customer they are serving or are you the one using all the petrol in their station? so you think you are the only regular customer on the queue ? what if all of them also demand for special attention ?

You are a man but your entitlement mentality is sickening and even more pathetic than women, you are not the only customer patronizing them, in fact the petrol you are buying from them is just a drop in the ocean.

Remmedy:
Trust me I hate simping but let’s analyze this properly because I find nothing wrong in assisting your girlfriend 2k daily since you are certain you will end up spending it on alcohol , carrying whores or other frivolities…

Let’s be honest she earning 15k monthly is very poor and she needs the least support from her lover don’t forget she helped her boyfriend conquer the addiction of gambling and masturbation… it’s worth giving it to her to assist her since she’s not even feeling entitled to the money…

Some girls this days will introduce more addictions to you plus billings that can cripple you ..

OP clearly mentioned that money part for people to bash the innocent girl … Honestly she deserves a better man ..

PureFace1:
It is that believe that will make corruption to continue to thrive in Nigeria for years to come.


That girl know her boss wouldn't tolerate it if he find out and she's not ready to lose her job

Ubeh22:
The boy is too arrogant and full of himself

VillagePipu:
Next time, drop off the jerrycan with her, give her money to fill it and let her send you a WhatsApp message when it's done.

Then, bounce away.

RoyalBlu:
You've learned, she's learned. Everywhere good.

You'd have just sorted your feelings out with her in private.

Nairaland tho.

VillagePipu:
You should have given her the Jerrycan with money to go and get fuel for you.

Laird:
So if You as a bus driver have been waiting on the bus parkline for your turn to load your bus with passengers and suddenly a bus just comes and is put ahead of every bus in the line because the bus owner is one of the bus park loaders girlfriend. You will agree

A lot of I.Q's and orientations in Nigeria need recalibration

RoyalBlu:
Are you seriously asking why everyone is about the 2k?

OP you wanted the show. Now you've got it.
Some info should be private. But you threw in everything hoping for your girl to be bashed. Shey you're now satisfied.

After your shakara finish, goan fix what wasn't broken in the first place.