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Wilson300:
I will like us to have but don’t know if my 6inches dick will be enough for that punna

Wilson300:
Ask your father

Wilson300:
To suck this girl Toto then shook my 6 inches gbola day hungry me

etrange:
So the senator took a screenshot of the alert and sent to you cause he was too excited? You guys that cook up fake news are destroying the country just as much the politicians.

Kipaji:
That is true. Ladies wanna have fun. Most want to go around and take in as many D's as they feel like and then "date with a purpose". But the great thing is that we don't have to deal with those women. Ultimately, we choose which women we allow in our kingdom.
Now, some guys want to be among those guys most women have fun with. But, irrespectively of how much sex that gets you, that is not a masculine position.
As a masculine man, you will naturally attract women. But becoming a man-hoe/player/bad boy would be a feminine move.

Wotowotoman:
You think say prenup na for poor man?

Truvelisback:
Don't shoot your shot again until she place the ball at your feet.

UppaZakum:
You have probably been reading without understanding. What planet are you from? You would rather want me to provide financial support in a way that compromises my overall financial health and long term career goals, init? We've lived together for >5 years on my own income without any squabbles. I have happily discharged my responsibilities as a man. Imagine now making a decision that puts a strain on my own finances without any guarantee that such move will yield any long mutual benefits. We've seen the outcome for those who have undertaken similar moves. If she wants it, let her work and save enough money to fund it herself. I will not be used as the scape goat. Imagine me sacrificing my finances for her nursing ambition and when it's time to reciprocate the gesture, it'd be nothing but disdain. Here's a likely scenario that can play out.
Hubby: Babe, could you assist with $20k to process my immigration expenses for green card? You know employers have no issue employing international students provided they have their green cards.
Wifey (now a Nurse): But you don't need it now. Since I'm already working, why not just stay at home and help with the kids and chores?
Hubby: But remember I had this money saved up but used it to fund your nursing program.
Wifey: Errm.. Yes. But,,ah! *makes only decision that benefits her, which is likely not going to be in the hubby's best interest*.
It is at this point he then realizes he's finished


lol.. I don't even wish this situation for my enemy. The implications are far reaching. As Fashola would say, "May our loyalty not be tested". It is indisputable fact that women suck at taking financial responsibilities.

Don't worry, nothing will happen to her. I can guarantee that putting myself first and reaching my long term career goal first benefits both of us.

Next time, please reveal your gender. I only responded based on the assumption that you're a male. I don't take advice of this nature from women, simps and beta-males. Thanks though.

UppaZakum:
Your post is very interesting with a lot of valuable insights. I appreciate your time.

First, I have buried the idea of sponsoring the nursing program based on the responses I have gotten. Access to my bank statements is now restricted (password changed). I think we're all aligned on that one.

Second, I do not have any iota of doubt about you did. My scenario is almost similar to yours. It might be difficult for any other person than the individual making the decision to wrap their head round it but I fully understand and believe it.

Third, you're right about her not being enterprising enough. I don't know if it's largely my fault. To be frank, her monthly allowance will most likely exceed the salary she'd get from most of these white collar jobs, that may have driven her lackadaisical attitude towards doing something. But a part of me still wanted her to be productive even with less pay.

Lately she has been applying for jobs and this may be related to the fact that I have scolded her severally for not making use of the training. Someone told me it was becuase I didn't let her decide what she wanted to do which I do not agree with. She told me about the data analyst training and I supported it. I understand taking care of children can take tolls on women but our kids are now grown up and she has help. Younger kid is now 2+. Whenever I get back home and log on to my computer, I could see different job sites. She's improving in that regard.

I'd take your advice to watch how she behaves when I eventually give her my final verdict. I agree with you that her doing something could help our family no matter how little, which is why I wanted her to do something productive concurrently with my PhD program. To be honest, this is going to be a very expensive venture. Accommodation alone costs around $1000/month. Health insurance only covers me and my spouse which means I have to get health insurance for my kids. Immigration expenses while rounding my the program is also another big ticket item. So I under stand that doing something will help. However, the benefits of that have to outweigh the cons by a longshot. For Nursing, the cons are numerous, so definitely a no go area. If she can consider the other alternatives- work from home, freelancing and any other avenues to make money or do a no-regret moderate course (less than $ 8 -10k) for her to switch from F-2 to F-1 visa status and be able to work as a student or any other mutually beneficial options available then I'm amenable to such. With that I can see how she behaves. The earlier I see the signs, the better. But as per this nursing thing, it ain't gonna happen as we've all agreed would be tantamount to digging one's grave.

Thanks a lot once more for your views and suggestions.

Thanks all. Useful perspectives from y'all. Glad I brought this up cos I'm already suffering from analysis paralysis.

AntiRiot:
Gentleman, I understand your desire for selfless love.
Here is my advice:
Go out there and talk to girls physically, be it at work, in church, at events, etc

Stop being a cool headed "shy" type of guy. If you develop the self confidence and go all out without reservation to talk to babes consistently for 1 month, I assure you that you will see multiple ladies you can pick from.

P.S. your looks don't matter. But dress neatly.

Thanks

xammax:
Still waiting sir🤲

xammax:
Hi guys,

So I recently got a job in a big 4 firm. Apparently I’m in tax and I am absolutely not finding it enjoyable.

I’m sad about this because I want to do audit.

I’m only sticking it through, it appears I cannot move in my firm because I just joined and going to a year.

I do want to leave to another big 4 firm to audit as I don’t mind starting over but then I do not know the process of doing this to make this move.

How do I cope with something I absolutely do not find joy in.

Advise…..

xammax:
Hi guys,

So I recently got a job in a big 4 firm. Apparently I’m in tax and I am absolutely not finding it enjoyable.

I’m sad about this because I want to do audit.

I’m only sticking it through, it appears I cannot move in my firm because I just joined and going to a year.

I do want to leave to another big 4 firm to audit as I don’t mind starting over but then I do not know the process of doing this to make this move.

How do I cope with something I absolutely do not find joy in.

Advise…..

Dominatrix:
Yeah sure, hit me up!

Dominatrix:
Been a minute son!

excel127:
It works