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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Single Mothers Meet Single Fathers Here,don't SHUT UR HEART! by lacreamzy(f): 2:49pm On Jun 05, 2020
Family / Re: Time To Divorce My Wife? by lacreamzy(f): 6:19pm On May 05, 2020
noakchukibadan:
Hello,

Please no ethnic banters. One of us is from Ekiti, and the other is from Benue. I am married for 8 years with 2 kids. It has been one problem to another.

I must be very frank, before marriage, my wife had many very questionable characters, but unfortunately we did the marriage counseling in a church were the pastor happened to be her family member. Many of the issues would have been resolved, but when I raised those issues about her character the pastor promised me that everything will be fine after the marriage.
Although this is not an excuse, but looking back now I would have been more patient and taken my decision myself instead of rushing into the marriage. For this I HOLD MYSELF ACCOUNTABLE

There is hardly nothing we do not quarrel about, I have always been the one to initiate settlement. The only way I ensure that there is peace in the house is for me not to complain about anything. Even at that, there is always trouble. If the children do anything wrong, she always says those characters the children are exhibiting are not from her and that she is not surprised that they inherited such characters from me.

She can go for months without talking to me, even if I tried to, I have done all I could do, I have begged, cried prayed. I just feel tired and exhausted from trying to make the marriage work or have peace in the home, the sad part is that she often reminds me every time there is misunderstanding that I should remember that she can stay on her own without talking to any body. Just to add, she is very prayerful.

OTHER INFORMATION.
1. I can say conveniently that there is no money problem at home. Finance is okay.
2. I went to see her father 2 years ago, the man said unfortunately he can not do anything. This is true because she was raised away from her Father, she has no contact with any of her fathers family and her father has a zero say in her life.
3. she has 5 elders ones, non of them is in communication with her because of many unresolved issues. Of her 3 younger ones she only maintains a relationship with the last boy who is just 14 years. .
4. Her mum can not talk to her because she simply dares not. However, behind, her mother use to beg me and she kept saying she understands her daughter's character and that she is doing her best by praying and doing deliverance for her.
5. She is not in contact with her maternal uncles and aunt because she said they supported her elder ones when she had problem with them.

So I am stuck with no one to help call the both of us and resolve the issue.

Every year for 5 straight years, she always forgets my birthday, last year, she forgot also, three days later, she bought me a present and I refused to collect the present and I asked her why does she keep forgetting my birthday, year after year for 5 years. She just said sorry, but I left the present in the room, she never bothered to bring the present to me. Another birthday was gone yesterday 2nd May, and as I write, no happy birthday yet.

I literally cook for myself, and all domestic things I do for myself.

I will end this by saying that in fairness to her, her character was not too different before the marriage and courtship, sincerely only once, that was like one year before the marriage I broke up with her, she came to apologize and promised that she will change. Her mother also came to apologize to me also.

This woman has refused to change or allow peace to hold sway, she is right every time, while everybody around is wrong. Sincerely, I do not know what to do anymore.

I am tired and exhausted. I do not know what to do anymore. I am 42, I was diagnosed of high blood pressure 2 years ago.
NYSC / Re: NYSC C14 ABIA State..lets Meet Here! by lacreamzy(f): 8:05am On Nov 19, 2014
profeoo:
uwc miss. U cn drop ur whatsapp no so u cn be added to d ongoing Abia stream 2 grp
Tanx
whatsapp number:
NYSC / Re: NYSC C14 ABIA State..lets Meet Here! by lacreamzy(f): 8:03am On Nov 19, 2014
tiersly:
We full ground for here ooo, where 're yhu coming from ma'am ?
from lagos sir/ma?
NYSC / Re: NYSC C14 ABIA State..lets Meet Here! by lacreamzy(f): 7:03am On Nov 19, 2014
Good morning house
Am posted to Abia,stream II,
Glad to see some of my ogas here; I sight you LAkerry and SodiqYinka kiss
Any other stream II in the house
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C (Stream II) by lacreamzy(f): 6:25am On Nov 18, 2014
belteshazzar:

alright, will get back to u ASAP
okay,thanks
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C (Stream II) by lacreamzy(f): 11:35pm On Nov 17, 2014
belteshazzar:

similar issue here, How far, Where u able to rectify it.
have not o,d ppl I talked to weren't saying anything tangible(dt I should go nd collect in sch)also sent complains to d e-mail addresses,no reply yet.............pls once u get solution,I dey around
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C (Stream II) by lacreamzy(f): 11:26pm On Nov 17, 2014
Durcky:
dat my call up is ready ..I can pay now or go to my school to collect it....... but I paid since last month..... pls...tell me Hw to go abt it
na d same boat we dey
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C (Stream II) by lacreamzy(f): 4:16pm On Nov 17, 2014
jennii:


Click on "contact us" on the nysc homepage
thank you so much
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C (Stream II) by lacreamzy(f): 3:43pm On Nov 17, 2014
Pls house
I paid d 4k a long while ago
But Its written on my dashboard dt I av to pay or go to school to pick it
Is there anybody with similar problem?
Can anybody help me with e-mail? or phone number I can lodge my complain
?
Assistance from anybody would b appreciated,thank you all
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 8:25am On Nov 12, 2014
Taiye4Christ:

grin
You are welcome, dear. Hope you had fun, sha?
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Yes o,I enjoyed d day

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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 12:06pm On Nov 10, 2014
Taiye4Christ:
Happy birthday to Akerry boss and the creamy baby, Lacreamzy.
You are born and destined to be great in life; accept nothing less. God is taking you there!

Happy birthday, l‘akerry lacreamzy!
Atlast,its lakerry lacreamzy birthday.thank you so much dear.You're wonderful grin wink
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 4:17pm On Oct 25, 2014
Taiye4Christ:

grin
I trust you na!
Hope you are just fine?
yes o,am just fine.how r u nd iya ibeji?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 11:54pm On Oct 24, 2014
Akerry:
my dept FINAL semester results officially released today! All thanks to almighty God, the two-one be like first class for my eyes.......so so happy.
congratulations dear #huggs
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 9:07pm On Oct 24, 2014
Taiye4Christ:
Cuteluvlybay
Lacreamzy
Satope1


How far?
I dey o my dear
Just been observing since 1960 wink
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 8:30am On Oct 14, 2014
Feyifahm:
d night was cool,urs,op u dreamt abt megrin
*clears throat,
e-bride how you doing this morning?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 5:11pm On Oct 13, 2014
Usherseun:
thanks, which dpt?
PAB
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 4:30pm On Oct 13, 2014
Usherseun:
hello ladokites, i'm also a ladokite, PAM
welcome dear,glad to av you in d house
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 6:54am On Oct 13, 2014
trendiitee:
Make una fight well well..... Jeezz!!!!! Dis is just frustrating.. After una don curse and insult each other finish ehn and den una cum meet sumwia later in life,,u knw how e go be nw..
Anyways,,all of u shd pray 4 me to get my number 2day.... And pls wen u pple re done fighting,,,I'll come back.. I can't stand dis kind of atmoshere,, dat is why I'm always pleading and begging pple who re @each other's throat... Buh I don't tink sabiguy will even listen to me 2day,,so I decided to let him be.


Goodmorning to you all
gud morning dearest sis.I pray you get your call up number today in jn. smiley kiss
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 7:55pm On Oct 11, 2014
Akerry:
Anugod,the great e-warior i greet ooo or is it e-warioress grin grin just like Tiger and tigeress grin ....All protocols duly observed....... The pace at which this thread is moving is even more than the speed of Light. I'm still struggling to read d missed pages though, no thanks to sabiguy and other e-warriors grin @trenditee,hwfar with the call up number issue? .I GREET U ALL
I greet you,how's been ur weekend?
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 9:56pm On Oct 08, 2014
trendiitee:
hahahahahaha.. How re u 2nyt galfrnd?? Me don miss u sotey I don dey loose weight.
missed you so much too sweetie kiss
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 9:36pm On Oct 08, 2014
trendiitee:
God save u...I don dey wear my boxing kit,,I for crush u wif dis my big body.. Hahahahahaha. BTW I'm a product of pure nd applied biology,,,u?

Beboy23,,,u re welcome.
trendiitee and her boxing kit,smh on whoever d blow go land on


Omo ladoke,owo temi wa loke
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 7:22pm On Oct 04, 2014
Akerry:
yes yes! Me and my lacreamzy must serve for d same state o. Sodiqyinka come and help us o grin grin
Sodiqyinka pls ur help is needed asap o,me nd my darling b'daymate must serve at the same state so dt nov 9 go make sense o
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 7:21pm On Oct 04, 2014
Akerry:
yes yes! Me and my lacreamzy must serve for d same state o. Sodiqyinka come and help us o grin grin
Sodiqyinka pls ur help is needed asap o,me nd my darling b'daymate must serve at the same state so dt nov 9 make sense o
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 9:10pm On Oct 03, 2014
Akerry: Good evening my e-family! Sodiqyinka, thanks for the great work you are doing here, nabsprada,cutekemitola and Horlawoomey, u guys are great writers, i love u guys writing skills,seriously learning alot from it....sir Noordean, richybanky and other OAUites, any news frm ur school? Trenditee and Taiye4christ,d best e-couple so far, Dania30, omolizzy, heineken,my man,kalushaiyke,nigerdeltaboi,dstnd curiouses,taiwoliu,barmy,claroo, urchbarbie darling, luvlycutebay titiluvly,idboyostic,rashfat, fweshblacboai,Ayomax AmegoA/Anugod cheesy cheesy pendusky,come and join us here oo...and so many names i cant remember now, i love u all lacreamzy lakerry cheesy cheesy
lakerry lacreamzy wink
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 9:37pm On Sep 28, 2014
Akerry: lacreamzy lakerry! Where ve u beeen?
have been around o my dear,just been on nd off.how r you?how was ur weekend too
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 5:55pm On Sep 28, 2014
Happy birthday Nabsprada dearie,God bless you

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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 4:44pm On Sep 27, 2014
Taiye4Christ: I am overwhelmed by the amount of prayers and wishes I am getting.
Honestly, I had to run away when I first came in earlier on because I didn‘t just know where to start from. I can‘t possibly mention everyone, but here is saying I appreciate and love you all so dearly.
happy birthday dearie,I wish you peace,prosperity and happiness.igba odun,odun kan ni.

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Dating And Meet-up Zone / Re: Those Born September Let's Meet Here. by lacreamzy(f): 4:20pm On Sep 27, 2014
Taiye4Christ:
Wooooooow! The chairman himself graces our thread? Today must be christmas! grin grin grin


November 9... lakerry, lacreamzy things on point!
nov 9 is all about lacreamzy lakerry,dancing shoki............can't wait

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NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 10:01pm On Sep 15, 2014
Taiye4Christ:
Hahahahaha
I believe you, fine girl. This your dp fit cause go slow o.
*beautiful*
go slow ke,pls waka pass fast fast o grin
NYSC / Re: NYSC 2014 Batch C House by lacreamzy(f): 7:59pm On Sep 15, 2014
Taiye4Christ:
I‘m doing fine. You?
am doing finer

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