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RomanceRe: He Said: She Asked Me Out by Lady234(op): 5:16pm On Feb 13, 2010
naughty boys
Christianity EtcRe: Despicable Act / Jesus Encourages Cannibalism by Lady234: 4:45pm On Feb 13, 2010
@ Abu Zola
You are still running away from my question.

Why do muslims kill people
Christianity EtcRe: Despicable Act / Jesus Encourages Cannibalism by Lady234: 4:37pm On Feb 13, 2010
@ Abu Zola
Are you running away from my question.

Why do muslims kill people?
Christianity EtcRe: Despicable Act / Jesus Encourages Cannibalism by Lady234: 4:18pm On Feb 13, 2010
@ Abu Zola
why do muslims kill people, i hope you are not trying to avoid my question.
Christianity EtcRe: Despicable Act / Jesus Encourages Cannibalism by Lady234: 4:07pm On Feb 13, 2010
Why do muslims kill people
Dating And Meet-up ZoneRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 4:05pm On Feb 13, 2010
dani1luv:
Thanks wink
You're welcome
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 4:01pm On Feb 13, 2010
You've got the point MRbrownJAY.

MRbrownJAY:
people say this things because ITS TRUE.
if you read carefully the threads on NL you will realize that most people are desperate "TO MARRY" not "TO MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON"
that because society in 9ja look upon marriage like some kind of "success", like a man is not A MAN unitl he has found a wife. all this BS has people marry just for the look of it and not for the right reason.
nobody should marry anyone because they THINK that person is right, they should marry that person because THEY KNOW they are right.
look at family in 9ja, parent pressuring children to get married, so a child would settle for less just to satisfy his parents and wont really care if they loves the girl/guy or not as long as family is happy. . . . . . . . . . . its called peer pressure.

but remember these people dont LOVE them, they just accept that the person is god fearing, with good family background/values and look the part so be it (thats all the requirements needed).

when women get closer to 30 and are still single, they lose their minds.
when men are getting closer to 35 and are still single they just pick whoever is available at the time and marry them. then you have children growing up in these loveless union where dad has a string of mistresses and never shows any affection to mum. that child will grow up and act just like daddy when time comes. . . . . . . . .

i will be bold and say that many husbands let their wives become unattractive and overweight after marriage/childbirth because they dont care as their many mistresses is there to take over the intimacy department.
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:58pm On Feb 13, 2010
camelot:
sum ladies do fall in love with their heart and not their head, a times
its true, but a woman shouldn't allow a mans cheap lies deceive her.
By lies i don't imply words rather i imply his action.
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:42pm On Feb 13, 2010
@ MRbrownJAY
Why do people say this when they want to divorce:
I wasn't that into her or him
She wasn't the one for me e.t.c. The question i ask here is: is it possible to love the person who is not for you.


MRbrownJAY:
@poster
i mean, who in his right mind would marry someone they dont love. NO MAN WOULD MARRY YOU IF HE DOESNT LOVE YOU(unless he was with you for your money/status or peer presuure)
the problem is: that do you think that LOVING you mean respecting you and cherishing what you guys have?

by the way, many people get s.u.c.k.e.d in marriage by people that are good in playing the right game pretending to be someone they are not. after the marriage then this person would become their true self but by then most women would be deep into this marriage thingy and wont divorce because of religious foolishness.

i mean if men can beat their wives, cheat openly on them "out of love" then all this talk is pointless.
LOVE IS USELESS until that person cares for you as a person not as a wife.

example:
- some men will tell you that its you duty to have babies
- some men will tell you that its your duty to cook and clean
- some men will tell you that its your duty to raise the kid and stay at home
- some men will tell you that its your duty to sexually satisfy them whenever the feel like it
- some men will tell you that if they bring the cheddar then they will make all the decision concerning the home.

the most silly part in all this is that some silly church man pastor/priest will go along with this nonsense.
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:37pm On Feb 13, 2010
camelot:
lady it seems you are talking from experience ? undecided
No i've never experienced such
Christianity EtcAre Shia Muslims Infidels by Lady234(op): 3:16pm On Feb 13, 2010
Wahhabi sunni muslims say shias and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims are infidels.
Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi#Destruction_of_Islam.27s_early_historical_sites
Destruction of Islam's early historical sites
Main article: Destruction of sites associated with early Islam
The Wahhabi teachings strongly disapprove of veneration of the historical sites associated with early Islam, on the grounds that only God should be worshipped and that veneration of sites associated with mortals leads to idolatry. Consequently, a significant number of buildings associated with early Islam, historic mosques, mausoleums and other artifacts have been destroyed in Saudi Arabia by the Wahhabi followers from early 1800s through the present day. This practice has proved controversial and has received considerable criticism from the Sunni and Shia Muslims and in the non-Muslim world

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahabbism#Attitudes_towards_Non-Muslims
Attitudes towards Non-Muslims
A study by the NGO Freedom House found Wahhabi publications in a number of mosques in the United States preaching that Muslims should not only "always oppose" infidels "in every way", but "hate them for their religion , for Allah's sake", that democracy "is responsible for all the horrible wars of the 20th century", and that Shia and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims were INFIDELS

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
Because they gave themselves the ultimate right to declare people Kuffar (plural of Kafir or infidels), Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab's followers led an army which occupied Ta’if and Mecca (Makkah). This was followed by massacres of unarmed Muslims (including men, women, and children) and the destruction of many graves and holy sites. Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab also considered destroying the house where the Prophet Muhammad was born and destroyed Sufi shrines and sacred tombs in Mecca and Medina, including the grave of Prophet Muhammad and his companions, out of fear that it might be worshipped.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
RomanceGirls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:10pm On Feb 13, 2010
Girls, Never marry someone you only love marry someone whom you know loves you. When in a relationship with a man, never you throw yourself at his feet or marry him when you suspect his heart is not all yours. There are simple signs to know a man loves you. Examples include; How interested is He in solving my problems, How attentive is he when i talk to him. If a man loves you, your problems becomes his problems and when problems are solved together love becomes thicker. There are of course other signs to show that a man really loves you apart from the ones i have written but never marry someone you only love.
Finally never agree to be a stay at home mum it can ruin your future.
Love. Lady 234
Dating And Meet-up ZoneGirls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:09pm On Feb 13, 2010
Girls, Never marry someone you only love marry someone whom you know loves you. When in a relationship with a man, never you throw yourself at his feet or marry him when you suspect his heart is not all yours. There are simple signs to know a man loves you. Examples include; How interested is He in solving my problems, How attentive is he when i talk to him. If a man loves you, your problems becomes his problems and when problems are solved together love becomes thicker. There are of course other signs to show that a man really loves you apart from the ones i have written but never marry someone you only love.
Finally never agree to be a stay at home mum it can ruin your future.
Love. Lady 234
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 3:05pm On Feb 13, 2010
freecocoa:
U wrote something worth reading,i wish it was dat easy.
I know it isn't easy. But women must "grow up".
Marrying a man who doesn't really love one is disastrous. That is why i encourage women to read their books and head for financial success because if a woman is financially stable and YES financially independent and HER EYES ARE OPEN then she won't be used as trash by men.

Love. Lady 234
Christianity EtcRe: Christmas Miracle- the Abdulmutallab connection by Lady234(op): 2:46pm On Feb 13, 2010
Haksalam:
Why do thesecchristians always start a trouble-inciting thread and when they are confronted, they claim thae we, muslims are so violent? Everybody including muslims have condemned Abdulmutallab's act, so why are you still accusing the muslims of violence? Our noble prophet, Muhammad (SAW) preached peace and love towards all. You shud also take note that all the wars that were fought during his lifetime were in self defence and defence of faith. He never initiated any war. You just argue baselessly and fallaciously. Know the facts before you argue or remain quiet.
Then why do muslims kill
Christianity EtcAre Ahmadiyyas Muslim by Lady234(op): 2:40pm On Feb 13, 2010
Are Ahmadiyyas muslim.
Share your views why you consider them not to be muslims.
Dating And Meet-up ZoneHe Said: She Asked Me Out by Lady234(op): 2:26pm On Feb 13, 2010
Theres nothing wrong in a woman asking a man out.
A woman asking a man out doesn't mean a woman has overstepped her gender role.
RomanceHe Said: She Asked Me Out by Lady234(op): 2:24pm On Feb 13, 2010
Theres nothing wrong in a woman asking a man out.
A woman asking a man out doesn't mean a woman has overstepped her gender role.
Christianity EtcAre Shia Muslims Infidels by Lady234(op): 2:13pm On Feb 13, 2010
Wahhabi sunni muslims say shias and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims are infidels.
Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi#Destruction_of_Islam.27s_early_historical_sites
Destruction of Islam's early historical sites
Main article: Destruction of sites associated with early Islam
The Wahhabi teachings strongly disapprove of veneration of the historical sites associated with early Islam, on the grounds that only God should be worshipped and that veneration of sites associated with mortals leads to idolatry. Consequently, a significant number of buildings associated with early Islam, historic mosques, mausoleums and other artifacts have been destroyed in Saudi Arabia by the Wahhabi followers from early 1800s through the present day. This practice has proved controversial and has received considerable criticism from the Sunni and Shia Muslims and in the non-Muslim world

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahabbism#Attitudes_towards_Non-Muslims
Attitudes towards Non-Muslims
A study by the NGO Freedom House found Wahhabi publications in a number of mosques in the United States preaching that Muslims should not only "always oppose" infidels "in every way", but "hate them for their religion , for Allah's sake", that democracy "is responsible for all the horrible wars of the 20th century", and that Shia and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims were INFIDELS

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
Because they gave themselves the ultimate right to declare people Kuffar (plural of Kafir or infidels), Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab's followers led an army which occupied Ta’if and Mecca (Makkah). This was followed by massacres of unarmed Muslims (including men, women, and children) and the destruction of many graves and holy sites. Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab also considered destroying the house where the Prophet Muhammad was born and destroyed Sufi shrines and sacred tombs in Mecca and Medina, including the grave of Prophet Muhammad and his companions, out of fear that it might be worshipped.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
IslamRe: Y Do Wahhabi Muslims View Shia Muslims And Other Muslims As Being False by Lady234(op): 2:04pm On Feb 13, 2010
Wahhabi sunni muslims say shias and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims are infidels.
Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi#Destruction_of_Islam.27s_early_historical_sites
Destruction of Islam's early historical sites
Main article: Destruction of sites associated with early Islam
The Wahhabi teachings strongly disapprove of veneration of the historical sites associated with early Islam, on the grounds that only God should be worshipped and that veneration of sites associated with mortals leads to idolatry. Consequently, a significant number of buildings associated with early Islam, historic mosques, mausoleums and other artifacts have been destroyed in Saudi Arabia by the Wahhabi followers from early 1800s through the present day. This practice has proved controversial and has received considerable criticism from the Sunni and Shia Muslims and in the non-Muslim world

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahabbism#Attitudes_towards_Non-Muslims
Attitudes towards Non-Muslims
A study by the NGO Freedom House found Wahhabi publications in a number of mosques in the United States preaching that Muslims should not only "always oppose" infidels "in every way", but "hate them for their religion ,  for Allah's sake", that democracy "is responsible for all the horrible wars of the 20th century", and that Shia and certain other non-Wahhabi Muslims were INFIDELS

Quote from http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
Because they gave themselves the ultimate right to declare people Kuffar (plural of Kafir or infidels), Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab's followers led an army which occupied Ta’if and Mecca (Makkah). This was followed by massacres of unarmed Muslims (including men, women, and children) and the destruction of many graves and holy sites. Muhammad ibn Abd-al-Wahhab also considered destroying the house where the Prophet Muhammad was born and destroyed Sufi shrines and sacred tombs in Mecca and Medina, including the grave of Prophet Muhammad and his companions, out of fear that it might be worshipped.

Source: http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wahhabi
RomanceRe: Look, I'm A Man Now by Lady234(op): 1:09pm On Feb 13, 2010
Does that mean if a 14 year old wins a lottery he can go live in his own house
RomanceLook, I'm A Man Now by Lady234(op): 2:28pm On Feb 04, 2010
At what age or time is it right for a guy to tell his parent: Look, i'm a man now i'm going to stay in my own house.
Christianity EtcRe: Do Numbers Have Hidden Meaning by Lady234(op): 12:25pm On Jan 29, 2010
Churches that do numerology

Bishop David Oyedepo and Living faith church
Mountain of fire and miracles ministries
Pastor Ayo Oritsejafor and Word of Life Bible Church
Christianity EtcRe: Christmas Miracle- the Abdulmutallab connection by Lady234(op): 5:19pm On Jan 19, 2010
focused234:
@post :

How many northerners or other Nigerians, except the victims, genuinely condemned the Igbo genocide, pogroms, marginalisation etc? How many Nigerians spoke against Maitatsine, Boko Haram, Zaki-Zaki, religious riots of Jos, Maiduguri, Bauchi, Kano and other northern towns, which left in their trails wanton destruction of lives and properties? Has anybody been punished for the murdering, beheading of southerners, especially, Ndiigbo in the north? Who genuinely spoke against the jubilation in the north during the September 11 bombing in America?

Has anybody been punished for the murdering, beheading of southerners, especially, Ndiigbo in the north? Who genuinely spoke against the jubilation in the north during the September 11 bombing in America?

Did anybody lost his/her sleep when some northerners were selling bin Laden T-Shirts after the 9/11 bombing? Who has genuinely spoken against the burning of American flag and the shouting of “Death to Americans,” which are constant occurrence in the north? How many northerners genuinely rose against the death and destruction unleashed on innocent southerners and Christians because of the Danish carton and the hosting of beauty pageant in Nigeria?

When the northerners beheaded some Ndiigbo in the north, cut open the stomach of pregnant Igbo women and removed the foetuses inside, before killing the mothers and destroying the foetuses, how many northerners genuinely condemned all these?

When Gideon Akaluka was killed and his head flown like a kite, who in the north talked?

When some Moslems in the north named their sons “bin laden”, who raised eyebrows in the north?
I can't imagine someone doing this: opening the stomach of a pregnant Igbo woman and removing the foetuses inside, before killing the mother and destroying the foetuses.
What even gives them the guts to do this horrific things.

Animals are better than this muslims.
RomanceRe: Girls, Never Marry Someone You Only Love by Lady234(op): 4:03pm On Jan 16, 2010
Ebywizzy:
An advocate of break ups and shattered marriages,a prophetess of for better to stay for worse to GO. From your write up u prefer CONDITIONAL LOVE. E.g love a man if he is wealthy or handsome.little did u know that these can perish at any time.i know how you will end up sorry for you(AN EVANGELIST OF DIVORCE)
Did you read my post very well.
I don't support all those things you labelled against me.

Lady 234:
Girls, Never marry someone you only love marry someone whom you know loves you. When in a relationship with a man, never you throw yourself at his feet or marry him when you suspect his heart is not all yours. There are simple signs to know a man loves you. Examples include; How interested is He in solving my problems, How attentive is he when i talk to him. If a man loves you, your problems becomes his problems and when problems are solved together love becomes thicker. There are of course other signs to show that a man really loves you apart from the ones i have written but never marry someone you only love.
Finally never agree to be a stay at home mum it can ruin your future.
Love. Lady 234
Christianity EtcRe: Christians Tithing Is Illegal From A Jewish Perspective. by Lady234(op): 3:37pm On Jan 16, 2010
Annunaki:
Everybody knows dat "christian" tithing is illegal check point, tell us something new.
It's a sin to pay tithe to non-levitical pastors.
Christianity EtcRe: Hanukkah( The Jewish Festival Of Lights) Starts On 12th December by Lady234(op): 3:30pm On Jan 16, 2010
It's not because that i'm on nairaland that a kid should call me dumb.
Na your mama be dumb.


The doctrine of the virgin birth of Jesus is very different from the dogma of the immaculate conception.
Don't insult me, i'm respecting myself.
Christianity EtcRe: Hanukkah( The Jewish Festival Of Lights) Starts On 12th December by Lady234(op): 3:05pm On Jan 16, 2010
What is immaculate conception.
How can you make such conclusions that i'm a Christian who has adopted a particular Jewish tradition.
By the way i won't take all those insults anymore BE WARNED!
Christianity EtcChristians Tithing Is Illegal From A Jewish Perspective. by Lady234(op): 3:00pm On Jan 16, 2010

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