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EMMACHI1:
Everyone checks the baby after birth.

No one checks the mother for injuries.

Childbirth is not just pain. For many mothers, it is an injury.

Your perineum can tear. Your pelvic floor can weaken. Your back can ache for months where the epidural went in. Your wrist can throb from holding your baby — they even call it “mother’s thumb.” Your nipples can crack and bleed.

And the biggest injury is invisible — the wound the size of a dinner plate inside your uterus where the placenta detached. You bleed for six weeks because you are healing from the inside out.

We call it “recovery” but it is really “wound healing” while you are awake all night keeping another human alive.

If you just gave birth and you feel broken, sore, leaking, or not like yourself — you are not weak. You are injured and healing at the same time.

Rest is not laziness. Asking for help is not complaining.

You just did one of the hardest physical events a human body can do. Give yourself the same grace you give your newborn.

If you're a mother reply in the comments section.

I thank God for motherhood

Cohabitation is not marriage and separation os not divorce,I wonder why my gender has vehemently refused to note this

In Jay Z's voice# Forever young I want to be forever young, do you really wonna be forever , forever ,young# Rest in peace to those that have passed away

Yes ,we call it Ukpotoro in ibeku where I come from.very good fin thickening soups My mum punished us as kids by making us pound itusing motar.chai it was. Ike pounding rrubbr

This man has caused so much pain and misery to families

Oga, you go explain tire

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Stephen0mozzy:
Shey this one no be skit ni.
That's assault and harassment.... Just because say we wan correct anyhow behavior nor mean say make we become animals too.

Tell men who turn their heads and salivate when they see indecent dirty girls to be disciplined. I turn my eyes away in disgust when I see most of these creatures poorly dressed in the name of fashion, but na those kain ones una dey tag "sessy" and that's why dem dey continue.

If you have to be naked to feel beautiful and free, then it's a mental illness that should be starved, not validated by catcalling and attention giving.

Final Verdict: If this is verified as NOT a skit, those guys should be arrested.

Obviously scripted na,

Dijita:
How is this article helpful to anyone?

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How do you fight the actual root cause?
How do you distinguished this problem from arthritis?

He never addressed this aspect

Dirty neighbours but the main issue is that my walls keeping peeling off even after I re cement and repaint, wals looks soggy and damp

8minutes

Its safer done when the child is under one year, my cousin did in 2016 at one catholic hospital in Enugu and it was below 300k

The woman obviously gas mental issues qnd has no business raising kids, needs to go to rehab asap.Lids shoukd be handed over to her relatives if she has any

Pinnup:
As a jobless, hungry and frustrated Nigerian job seeker, I travelled for a job related matter to stay with a friend in his one room apartment. I realized this guy does literally everything with periwinkle. He cooks literally everything with periwinkle. Soup, rice, beans and even sometimes, he prepares it eat it alone without combining with anything.

I am a lover of periwinkle but it seems I met someone who love periwinkle more than me.

Who else love periwinkle and how often do you cook with it?

Meanwhile living in this economy without a job is worst than hell. God forbid what I am currently going through. I need a job. I need love. Give me a job and show me love please before I kpai.

Very nice on vegetable and some other soups,na 2k per Milk cup in Abuja

wizzprince:
Thank you, how is the picture quality, can it compete with Iphone

I need something that will give me good pictures

Then go and buy iPhone since it's obviously on your mind,every phone has its disadvantages

This man never reach 40 years? The person that picked him get taste in wo.en o

What a cut little belle

Ije Nwoke. . May God bless the young lady. . . Nairalandmen see 1000 yards wifey material o

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TechCapon:
I don't know if it's just my own experience or if it's like that with everyone but my experience trying out online dating for the first time have been very horrible. It was suppose to be a place to find love but no way.

One month ago, I decided to take advantage of technology to see if I can meet a nice lady for a relationship. After doing a little research I decided to try Badoo. With great excitement, i set up my profile, uploaded some of my best pictures,
set my bio, applied filter to set age range of ladies I want 22-28. BAM I saw a huge pool of ladies to select from, omo it felt like I was in heaven.
Little did I know that's the beginning of my trouble.
I started matching with girls, diving into DMs, many girls were liking my profile and sliding into my DM, I was like in 3 days I'll find my future wife. Boy was I wrong.
Then the conversations started.. These are my bitter observations.

1. There is hunger in the land

Vast majority of these girls are on the app to do hookup even though they disguise it with fancy words like "friendship", or "fun" or
"dating", or "networking" etc. Almost all the girls I met say they live in Ikoyi, Lekki, VI, Chevron, Orchid and other
highbrow areas but same girls are always asking for urgent 2k, 5k, data sub etc. These girls are even more broke than girls in the village. Hunger has turned the girls to stone-cold zombies without feeling or fear. Ready to follow anyone ready to spend. I can't count the number of girls begging to come to my house even though they've never met me before.. Even me I became scared on their behalf.

2. Too many young single mothers forming single

I met lots and lots of single moms, some as young as 20 doing HK online. I get turned off when I see these
so called singles only to find out they have kids somewhere with one guy. I even met one with 3 kids for 3 guys. It was horrible.
They're all hustling online of course, not there for love.

3. What you see vs what you get is always different.

You will see a very "fine girl" online, her profile picture looks like she's a model or beauty contestant but when u see
them in real life, they're completely different. Looking haggard and tattered. You'll see a light skinned girl online only to see
black skin girl in reality. I almost hid under a table when one of them walked into the lounge to meet me. I started
insisting on video calls to get a feel of what they really look like instead of relying on their over filtered/makeup pictures and getting rude shock at the meetup point.

4. Even working class ladies are not left out.

I met so many working class ladies on the app doing HK, my phone is full of the lewd pictures and videos they sent me via whatsapp trying to
hustle for my attention. All I just need to do is say yes and they'll land on my door step. Am sure these ladies have boyfriends
somewhere who don't know they're living double lives. Some of the few reasonable ones I met were far from my location to make any kind of
relationship impossible.
No shame anymore.. Some will tell you straight up that they're here for hookup, if you're not interested don't bother chatting them and so on..

Please if you have a good homely lady of your own and you're in a stable relationship just hold her tight because it's brutal out there.

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Drsnives:
Today I was destined to catch a big Squirrel at my site..
I did justice to it.
This particular rodent was restless eating my young maize and to the glory of God this restless animal found rest inside my stomach

Can Squirrel ever be big?

With all the problems ravaging the country is saggy boobs that is bothering you?

Jennyclay:
5 kind of men you should avoid

1) Broke men
2) Time wasters and deceivers
3) Stingy ko ko men
4) Bill splitters men
5) number 1, 2, 3 & 4

YOU FAILED TO ADD SERIAL BABY DADDIES, MEN OVER 40 THAT HAS NEVER BEEN MAREIED,MEN 35 PLUS STILL LEAVING WITH THIER PARENTS, should I add more Jenny Clay?

Jakarta:
Na pastor them dey guide like president, what happened to "he who guides me never sleeps nor slumber"? Any way Mugu fall guy man wack.

hehehehe help me and ask them o

meobizy:
Do people actually survive gunshot wounds in this country? Every piece of news regarding the act, I see “the victim was declared dead on arrival at the hospital.” The realization suppose make anybody japa. If 50 Cent was shot five (not nine) times in this country, he would’ve been past tense today.

hmmmm our medical industy is in shambles

Ki11YurSev:
See e don tey wey she dey shayo e don tey wey she dey shayo
See e don tey wey she dey manya o e don tey wey she dey manya
Since 1960 ye ye ye e don tey wey she dey shayo
Since 1930 lo lo lo e don tey wey she dey shayo
E dey do keletun keletun keletun keletun keletun keletun
E dey do your body skeletun skeletun skeletun skeletun skeletun skeletun
E dey do kelepu kelepu kelepu kelepu kelepu kelepu kelepu
E dey what e dey do skeletun keletun keletun keletun keletun keletun
With the freaky money on your body money

Hehehehe

Gen z generation git no chillz

Antoeni:
mix Essential Balm And Aboniki Balm Together For Effective Result

you say wetin?

HONDA JAZZ, very portable car and commonn in kano and Abj, direct Belgium 🇧🇪 na around 7.5m,this might be Naija used

Yes you can,breach of promise to marry

But baby marry baby Zaddies?

What about the baby Zaddies?

It means that you are not yet qualified to be a Toto Mechanic

Very much around and the official foot wear of FGC keffi