izonborn098: . *you haven't caught this man red handed.. *you have some evidence which is' his discussion with one victoria. *you haven't know whether they slept together because you only has paper evidence' which he can deny. *you are about to be faster than your shadow because you are alredy in ur sister house and i believe you have already spread the news to her which i know your marriage is now 50-50 except she is a matured woman. *confronting ur husband will lead to two things either he deny or accept. *what if he deny and stand his ground? *what if he accept and apologize? *if he happen to cheat with the said girl it will be a trauma to you and the compound will be uncomfortable to you. *if i were you i would have still gather more information and watch his step so that you didn't go and do mistake to end ur marriage. *u can confront him but expect the worst..
When you see that kind of sms between your wife and one John, pls wait till you catch her red handed inugo?
manoflove22: my girlfriend broke up with me after catching me cheating on her with her friends, i have been begging her since weeks now, she said we can never date again.
And this is what i saw and emulated from red pill thread that a girl get attracted with you more if u have other option and she knows other girl want u
now I'm badly missing her we haven't call since weeks now
please how can i get over thinking about her, please alpha males skip this thread i don't need ur abundance mentality jargons make ogun no kill una, lovely relationship omg
addmole: I and My wife have been married for 5 years. We are based here in Lagos. She's 35 years old. We are doing very okay and living comfortably. Since we got married, my wife hated sex so much. I am not even trying to sugarcoat this. She doesn't want to hear you talk about it or she does it. There's no one in the family that haven't tried to settle our differences since we got married. She was never like this when we were dating. It's been 1 issue to the other. She doesn't initiate sex, and when she does accept you to have sex, it's missionary style and it's just 1 round. Ah, me wey dey like knack wella. This woman begin change am for me. Lol. She doesn't want to hear you discuss sex.
Anyway sha, lets move on...
5 YEARS ago, her mum came to my house to kneel down and tell me I am stressing her daughter that I should not kill her with sex. Her then-unmarried sister then asked if I ama dog? Ah, insult. Anyway, I don forgive her. I spoke to my wife and told her what is the meaning of this? What kind of lies are you feeding your family with? This is the same person who happens to make just 1 round of sex. Just 1 round. She lies flat on her back. Once you are done, she quickly pushes you away if you stay on top of her for more than 10 to 15 minutes. There were times she would hit me if I try to initiate sex. I reported to her elder brother. He elder brother warned her. She stopped. She moved to kicking me anytime we initiate sex on bed, i reported to my pastor, he spoke to her and then, she stopped. My pastor told me i have to be patient with her. I said OK.
Omo... The only time we make love is just 1 round, missionary style and that's it. She says she has pain on her stomach. I have been patient for 5 years with her. I told her anytime she's strong enough, we can make out. That there's no problem.
I have been pressured to cheat on her many times. i HAVE BEEN REALLY PRESSURED. Its just not easy. Her family have insulted me for demanding sex from her. Lol. The thing tire me. I see no where i am demanding. We don't do any other position apart from the missionary style. We do not even kiss. This is a woman that doesn't want you to kiss in in anyway. Even sometimes, she shouts at you when you try to be romantic to kiss her unexpectedly just to spies up our love life. She doesn't even want you to cuddle her on bed. She wants to be alone. Make money, attend to her business, vibes, laugh with friends and family and that's it. When it comes to sex, don't go there discussing that with her about making out.
I even had to retort to preparing her mind for sex by sending her a position we would try on WhatsApp, she would leave the message on read and not respond. When you talk to her about what you sent to her, she would just tell you, she's not strong to make love.
ANOTHER PART OF HER: My wife is a very bitter person full of anger. If you try to tickle her when she's cooking in the kitchen to play with her, she gets angry and warns you not to try such. My wife doesn't want you to play with her. I am not writing all these to make it look I am a victim here. But all these are my experiences. I have to pour it out. I NEED SOME ADVICE.
There were many times, we agreed on separating. But we have already children and we used to think about these because the quarrels and the disrespect, sex and everything is causing a whole lot on us.
We do not have any form of healthy discussion very well. Before you know it, we are quarrelling over the place, she's shouting. There was a time we quarrelled that after throwing a Gotv remote at her, she fainted. She woke up before we got to the hospital. She almost died. I told her, she needs to stop her anger and control herself and enjoy her marriage. She just won't listen. She's an Edo woman.
I have tried many times to leave the marriage because it's affecting my mental health. Sometimes I regret about getting married to her. Sometimes, I just feel, maybe I CAN TRY MORE and give her a chance. When you call her to discuss our sex life, about her anger and bitterness, she doesn't apologise. She hardly apologise. Even when I get to explain her part on why she was wrong, she claims she's right until maybe someone hears us arguing before she would reluctantly apologise.
I have been battling a really starved sex life, full of a woman with bitterness, anger and pride who never apologise. She's quick to advice other women on Facebook, She would video call friends, give them advice and her family how they need to maintain peace with their relationship. But she never seem to give me respect in anyway in her own own. Hmmmm.
Recently, my wife brought out another timetable that she cannot cope making out with me the way she does. Which is 3 times a week. That she can only be available to make love 2 times a week. This 2 times is just 1 round each. This is how she wants it. I immediately responded to her that I feel her pain. I understand. She cannot be pressured just to make it look like she wants to please me that I would rather get a side chic. Yes, i know this was wrong to tell her, but i am frustrated. She disrespects me and starve me of sex and she's even bending the rules again. She responded that 'ok that I am free to do what i LIKE'.
i decided to bring this here to know the comments from people. I would like to get advice from persons who are going through similar things like this and advice me on what to do.
Some of you might say, call her and talk to her. I have done that several times since in the last 5years. I did it last night and twice today. I have spoken to her. She promised she would change, she would not only repeat the same thing but make things worst the next time.
She disrespects me a lot. I have sometimes left the house but come back after families get to call me. She would change for a week and return to her old self.
What do I DO? Please make your responses constructive enough.
seems you guys were not counselled properly before the marriage , but what made her to change over night?the marriage is really affecting your mental health bro
Kingosytex: They are in a session and nothing more. If you condemn this but supported the woman who her brain dead Islamic husband divorced for letting a male doctor attend to her during child birth then you are a unstable.
lies, in as much as we all know the dangers involved, that lady up there cannot afford it, she is making a video in her room, is that what a cartetar looks like? If she is in severe pain she won't have the energy to do such.Anything to trend
Karen2024: Few days ago I celebrated the iPhone my boyfriend bought me, but today I'm here to let you know that he has taken his iphone. This was how it all started, he said he have a very urgent problem that I should help him with the phone so he will sell it. I gave him he sold it but I don't even know what the problem was. If I ask him he will only shout at me. Truly, men are all scums.
My dear hutzzle and earn your own money, in that way you can buy anything you want, if you have a man that provides that's a big plus
FalseProphet1: If you're watching this show, just know that your name is on first list of those that would go to hell fire. There's no escaping, unless you come to my spiritual center for deliverance with the following items.
1 big goat 1 derica of egusi Big stock fish 1 packet of Maggi Ugwu leaves 3kg of ponmo Half derica of grounded crayfish 1 packet of salt Fresh pepper A keg of Palm wine And envelop containing a tangible seed offering.
After the prayers your name would be on the list again.
Babe1994: I’m working, I’m doing averagely okay. I can do better which I’m striving towards at the moment. Having a child really set me back but I’m getting there. The most important thing is that I have money coming in every month and I have a very supportive family.
Good you have a supportive family, double your hustle and look for an affordable apartment because from all indications you will be SOLELY responsible for your child, goodluck and may genuine love find you soonest
Puss360: Wahala.. if all these are present, then what actually attracted you to him?? I'm very sure it's not money... Is it sex?? What exactly?
Just file for divorce on grounds of irreconcilable differences.... Rent a small apartment, and go with the child... Move on... Don't involve his family or your family...as the case is, you don't need dialogue, you don't need "To exercise patience", you need space!!! Move on... He can come visit his kid... But you move on... There are other men out there who are better than him in everything including the Sex aspect... Check well
Case Dismissed... Next Case Please...
File for Divorce on what grounds when there was no marriage ab initio? Just co habiting?
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