₦airaland Forum

fman:
And turned into a hoe!!
Werrin go make a disciplined lady not go home after school?
Only God knows the amount of BP
U caused ya parents.

Even many pastor daughters in secondary schools are already hoeing before university attainment.

Na sense them dey take follow female children,no be gra gra.The hand wey parents dey take follow onyinye shouldn't be same with nkechi or bolanle.

My dad is a very stubborn man who birthed a very stubborn daughter,so the house gats to dey hot.Goay no dey born fowl.

Aurielfinizu:
For light it depends oo..

I think say tinibu make light steady for Lagos..

Na only island accommodation high

That's a lie o

Accomdatioñ is high also on mainland depending on the area.

Besides light no dey steady for lag, even some estates in VI you can't imagine how much you spend on light for those that operate on 24hours estate light.

If you no bypass some stuffs,you go spend like 100k in less than 1 weeks,no kidding here bro.Those estate management set their own meter gauge/bills.

ABUJA is way better.

Those in mainland where it's cheap are dying from congestion,suffocation and traffic.

And Lagos dey smell, EVERYWHERE including that _fucking Island.The water stinks mehn!Even when treated, sometimes it stinks.

I don't have such challenges in Abuja.I pay for rent,i can drink the water.I can run errands and come back with little traffic.

Light is steady and by pass is easy.I hardly use gas to cook,it's electric cooker and Air conditioners are all in direct

Easy life,less pay.

Desusi:
You're too harsh,haba!when a woman cut her hubby preek,what do we do to her too!

Cut her breast.

Some parents need to be careful with their extreme ways of addressing issues in the house.

I remember when my dad was doing all those tough bullshiite on me, immediately I got admitted in the university,I stopped coming home during the hols.

MrBrownJay1:
that "state of mind" raised you to who you are today... as much as its great to voice your mind (and show that you are an adult), do so with respect for your parents

Wrong advice.

Jovialjune1:
Some women don't value themselves, living with a man when he hasn't done the needful, and having kids in the process

Shame.

Abuja marriage.
Very silly women.Some has given birth UpTo 4 times already.

No need for trial.

Just cut their _preek throway.
Just mercy leave only their blokuses.

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jeromestarks:
And what happens when the new get stained?

Why will it get stained?
You don't wash your toilet frequently.

If you have issue with toilet washing all the time,buy a gallon of hypo and sprinkle in your toilet atleast three times a week.You can sprinkle in the morning before going to work and flush off when you're back.

It helped to kill germs too.

jeromestarks:
The house was built 3 years ago but the owner ( the only occupant) used it badly.

How do you clean your own toilet and/or bath tub?

I use vinegar and baking soda with iron sponge.

You can use the soft iron sponge to give a smooth wash.

Please wear hand gloves when doing this.

It keeps it white.

Pour tye vinegar around it,then sprinkle enough soda, you can leave it throughout the night then wash in the morning.

jeromestarks:
I just want to know how to clean it.
How do you clean the one in your house?
Do you just buy a new one each time it is dirty?

Well, moving into a new house there are things you just have to change.Toilet seat is one of them, you don't know how long in years it has been used.

If you have the money,just change it.

If not, as someone suggested use liquid acid.

Hypo may not do much.

A vote for Tinubu is a vote for the mentally depraved.

Buy a new one or second hand.

Peter Obi is the best of the rest.
Know this and have peace.

Aurielfinizu:
Abuja is wicked when it's come to house rent

I don't believe that o.
As someone who grew in Lagos, you can spend 400 in self con in Lagos,then spend that amount running gen.

But you can spend sane 400k in Abuja for sane accomdatioñ and you go dey see nepa light steady.

Aurielfinizu:
The one I bought in kubwa Abuja is bigger for 2h

That's why I prefer ABUJA.
Lagos is expensive.

800 naira banana for Chevron

Mumu kwantry!

Oyiboman69:
in many countries around the globe,you'll have to pay heavily for such assistance. you're saying this because here in naija,people assume it to be the duty of the mother in-law and other female relatives. had it been they were in in situation where where there is no one to help out,and the op waking up early in the morning fetching water,carrying the baby and running other errands which will almost deprive him of the strength and time to provide for his family...he won't be complaint of where to sleep where he can comfortably maneuvering a place to in a two rooms apartment....
He's a selfish person. why can't he sleeps with his wife in the room with the baby while the other two women sleeps in the parlour,and their assistance called upon when needed?

Lol.
And then when he wants to take his bath,both women will stay on the sitting room untill he is done with his routine, morning and evening.

Is it better one goes to reduce inconveniences?

We are not abroad,but in Nigeria.
What is applicable in Naija is what we are dealing with on this issue.

Baronthecelebri:
the mother inlaw and the wife

I support you.

Acidosis:
It's good to know that your mother wouldn't do such. Mine wouldn't do such too but I also wouldn't inconvenient any godmother to do nanny duties even if I live in a 20 bedroom apartment.

Some couples don't have their mothers around but they survived. The whole charade sef is not good for the newborn, both physically and spiritually.

Now, the godmother is already here.
The question is How are they going to address the issues?

My oga,you see the op's wife and MIL.Mother and daughter truly lacks salt.

Its very clear and I can boldly say the apple didn't fall far from the tree,both are very very petty, unreasonable and without decorum.

No wise MIL will do that!She acted without sense knowing fully well it's a one bedroom apartment Especially when she lives across the street!

The wife being her mother's daughter is not playing fair.She should work with her husband,listen to him and discuss with her mother on the possible way to resolve this issue for posterity sakes!..

Nobody knows tomorrow! Anything can happen and the godmother may be the source of hope for her daughter when other kids starts coming.

Some women no get sense truly.

See the way them dey disgrace theirselves.

Oga op,when you get money better find house wey far ,move before you die b4 ur time.

Baronthecelebri:
yeah, you're right. But women get fish brain

Which of the women?

Acidosis:
That's why a man ought to be at the top of his game at all times. He probably fell for the idea of inviting a godmother without thinking about the fact that they live in a one bedroom apartment. Women will always come up with fanciful ideas and all that without thinking about the implication.

The problem started when they invited the godmother. I ask again, what is the role of a godmother?

They are fully to blame please. Why inconvenient another person and make her travel down from another state without thinking about the security implications and their living condition? Who does that?

If they didn't invite the godmother,who would have been in the hospital helping the wife huh?
Since the MIL lives across the street,where was she when her daughter put to bed?

She felt comfortable since somebody else is keeping awake because of her daughter,now the daughter is back they want to get rid of the woman WITHOUT even making attempt to do it in a Loving and reasonable way.

I don't like that!

My mom can't do such,it boils down to morals I believe.My mother will definitely make that woman very comfortable and will buy heaven and earth to compensate her.

Acidosis:
I'm not undermining her efforts. However, I won't join you to blame the mother in law. The op and whoever brought up the godmother role are fully to blame. The op should sleep outside pending the time the godmother would return to her state.

He will be foo.lish to do that because of three unreasonable woman.Especially when one lives across the street.What he opined us the best option, the MIL must be able to leave till Wednesday as promised by the op.

The wife is a very nasty woman indeed!
If the godmother was with her while she is bedridden,what stops her from asking her mother to exercise a little patience as her husband demanded?

He shouldn't sleep well in a house where he pays the rent?For what?!

Nonsense!

Acidosis:
OP never mentioned that both mothers were unwilling to attend to their daughter. Knowing very well that they live in a one bedroom apartment, there was no point inviting any godmother from another state.

The couple instituted the problems so let's not shift blames to the mother in law. She's doing the same thing any mother would do.

Oga, the op said the godmother was the person who attended to his wife after she put to bed in the hospital.They made shifts at interval to that effect!

You can't just undermine what she has done,afterall someone invited her in the first place!

Even if she would go, it shouldn't be in such away that shows she is not wanted in the first place.

Good.


Emi lokan Remix ft ladyrosa



E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba no do well, him dey shout Emi lokan
E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba, no fit _fûck
But him dey shout E mi lokan

Hand dey shake
Leg dey shake
Baba wey no fit _fuck
Him dey shout Emi lokan

Brain don weak
_preek dey lick
Baba wey don old
But him dey shout Emi lokan

Acidosis:
Yes, she helped the family but not without invitation. The couple caused problems for themselves when they appointed and invited the godmother to do what I don't know even while their mothers live a few distance away.

The mother that lives across the street yet a godmother was the one sleeping in the hospital on behalf of the wife.And to think she came all the way from another state.

I want to know why won't she listen to her husband?Or she blind not to see dude is not sleeping well in his own house?And that taking his bath to relax will be a big challenge as regards inconveniences?

Wife wey get sense, will inform the mother of the husband's suggestions and stand with her husband since he begged for a few days to resolve the issue.

There's no problem here, except for two unreasonable entitled women who share same maternal mental inconsistencies.

As a matter of fact, MIL in any marriage is an intruder.Many of these woman are ready to run down their daughters home like they dis theirs, a wise woman must create a balance.Tell your mom about your husband's suggestions and stand BY HIM to prove it's a better decision as long as he is not cutting her o

Let's tell ourselves the truth, his MIL felt threatened that what may be reserved for her as compensation might go to somebody else.

Who called the godmother?
Why is the MIL not visiting pending when the godmother leaves?
Why is the godmother still there even after the MIL arrived with a bag?
Why is your wife unreasonable to resolve the issue without even involving you?


All three women are so unreasonable but the least is the godmother, she helped you when you needed her the most.

sonofthunder:
I know what you mean but trust me on this... I'm not saying it's very serious.

You can start up by getting him to exercise.... Walks, light jogging, or hitting the gym.

Sincerely, he does this things moderately.

sonofthunder:
There's an underlying health condition.

Help him overcome it.

Lol
Doing my best, I think it's just what it is a snorer.It gets worst when he is tired.

Abeg I don dey cry.
My ribs!!!

KnowAll:
That is y a guy wey no go give shi-shi no go get shi-shi, u sow what u rip.

Emi lokan Remix ft LadyRosa



E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba no do well, him dey shout Emi lokan
E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba, no fit _fûck
But him dey shout E mi lokan

Hand dey shake
Leg dey shake
Baba wey no fit _fuck
Him dey shout Emi lokan

Brain don weak
_preek dey lick
Baba wey don old
But him dey shout Emi lokan.

KnowAll:
Obi urchin, cannot debate.

Emi lokan Remix ft LadyRosa



E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba no do well, him dey shout Emi lokan
E mi lokan
E mi lokan
Baba, no fit _fûck
But him dey shout E mi lokan

Hand dey shake
Leg dey shake
Baba wey no fit _fuck
Him dey shout Emi lokan

Brain don weak
_preek dey lick
Baba wey don old
But him dey shout Emi lokan.