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whitelexi:
You can even meet people on Chisco night bus

my eldest sis met hers in dan dollars bus

@poster

it could be anywhere,a friend of mine met hers on d plane

whitelexi:
I never heard of good gossip sha

diff peeps for diff things

Ujujoan:
The most important thing to look out for is sincerity. Like someone said, you can be compatible with anybody you want to be compatible with; afterall compatibility is all about endurance and understanding.

Sincerity is a rare trait. I’ll stick with a guy who tells me the truth

nope u can't be compatible wt anybody ,no matter how much u try to pretend,the lies and pretences will be obvious,before a person is sincere to u,u both have to be compatible hence that gives him d chance to show his sincerity,but if u both r not compatible where and hw will he show u that hes sincere

compatibility goes a long way ,and hence brings out d sincerity in someone

whitelexi:
If he says something good about u, whether you're there or not, thats a compliment but not a gossip

nope u seem to have forgotten dat sometimes we gossip about pple positively(wen they r not there)

gossip has got d good and bad side,thats d simple fact

jkpretty:
We gossip & men gossip. If he really matters to u, u know what to say & what not to say about him. (vise versa)

my point exactly

whitelexi:
Gossips are gossiping about intimate issues regarding their partners over a can of beer
You get my drift

and im still saiyng dat as long as he says sthg good about me,and not about our sexual life or other personal matters then its fine by me

jkpretty:
Looking at this pick up lines thingy, i actually depends on who its coming from 

Wondered why the same statement is made by different guys and while u are like "go-to-hell" to one, u appreciate the other whole heartedly.

To men: Make urselves men of substance, with that one matter how "whacked" your lines are, its will always be perceived with "utmost good pleasure"


@Topic
I hate it when i hear "So what's the lovely name"
like, how on earth do u know i have a lovely name, or do i have to?  what if i'm "Clementina" or "Philomena"

or kawusara or berra still pudenensia

if i was still in d dating league,i would not want a male virgin,wat da heck im i doing wt a male virgin

whitelexi:
Over a can of beer ohhh

u r confusing us here,ur subject said gossips,ur topic said intimate discussions and now u r saying over a can of beer

rubi:
The poster said intimate If you understand what intimate means not general compliment. I don't know whether you are married or single but when a man discusses his intimate relationship with his friends that is not acceptable

intimacy comes from d heart ,now if my husband expresses d love he has for me to his friends intimately is not intimacy ,then d definition of dat word is different

rubi:
If hes my hubby that one is ABC. I did not do it when I was single so don't know how it was.

yeah i get u ,but wooing a man is not meant for d singles alone,but for also d married

rubi:
You said friends that means he or she has no value and respect for you and cannot protect you
But if it is a friend I can say it is fine to confide in someone experienced and matured ( a friend in need is a friend indeed)

not true,you're attaching so much emotions to this

a man can be wt his friends ,and his friends might be discussing about how terrible their girls r,and also their bad characters and so on

and then your man opens his mouth and says that

"well im lucky to have my own wife/partner/lover ,shes quite diff from all this girls u people r talking about,shes a God sent to me,shes got a good character and gives me peace,i love her so well"

now tell me if that guy has no respect for u,if he does not have respect for u,y did he say so many good things about u?

mecussey:
You don't turn your remote to everybody, not every man can be woo easily because I don't like every girl no matter what you have

anybody both man and woman can be wooed easily ,but and i say but only if u knw that person well emotionally ,mentally and physically

mellow:
There is absolutely nothing positive about gossip. If there is

it should not have been called gossip.

there is sthg positive about it ,sometimes its said in a good way,but not in your presence and dats wen its called a gossip

lmao

like ur own

rubi:
I am not going to woo any man it is not ideal

even if hes ur husband

whitelexi:
You have a point there, but i wouldnt class that as gossip. . .  Is there anything like "good Gossip"? I ask because, gossip as a word has always had a negativity about it and nothing positive.
I wont class that as gossip because: "telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character", this is what is expected of every woman, so its somewhat normal or even ordinary. . .  You don't expect a man to admit in public that his wife is ugly naa

your subject said gossip,but d main topic said intimate discussion

if my man discusses me wt his friends and tells them how lucky he is to have me and so on,then i don't see that as a crime or is it?your character as a woman/man speaks out for u,though u might not be d one doing the talking ,but people who has had a one on one contact wt u,will help u spread it all wide

and if u call that gossip,then i guess we both have a diff defination of that word

feb 31st here

its very easy to woo a man,just turn d ur remote control to his emotional channel,and he's all yours

whitelexi:
Good or bad, gossip aint good

so its also a bad thing,if a guy discusses his lover wt his friends,as in telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character

u mean its also bad or wat?

its not a crime,as long as he says sthg good about me

CARUSO:
me e be like say na curse!!

we wont be kept quiet though, we wont be stiffled, we would continue advocating freedom of speech!

preach it doyin


_{but i think i need to go for deliverance ,so dat them go fit deliver me from d spirit of ban ban}

nana:
Lol,nothing do u sha. Them dey make u famous indirectly ni

preach it my love

nana:
hmm,u too get enemies mehn.

lmao enough my sister

debosky:
jenny them don ban you again? Make you repent become born again o! 

sweetheart i tire oooo   them say i be trouble maker naim make them ban me  

anyways i don repent

CARUSO:
i fear ooo!
go away stalker!!!

shatap diaaaa   is it me u  r telling to go away,from dis day hence forth i jenny wont disturb u again