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Gossips by whitelexi(m): 4:14pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
Your partner discusses u (intimately) with his/her friends. . . How would u take that? |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 4:17pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
its not a crime,as long as he says sthg good about me |
Re: Gossips by Gamine(f): 4:23pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
Shey, if hin good, no wahala if hin bad, Devil solder his ass!!! |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 4:24pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: Not all good things make good gossip. . . For instance, imagine u overhear your boyfriend in the living room with his friends discussing how good u are in bed over a can of beer Will u class that a good thing or bad? |
Re: Gossips by Nobody: 4:30pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
Hmm, positive gossips are just fine o! Please no negative gisting |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 4:44pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
Good or bad, gossip aint good |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 4:46pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: so its also a bad thing,if a guy discusses his lover wt his friends,as in telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character u mean its also bad or wat? |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 4:52pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
lady u: You have a point there, but i wouldnt class that as gossip. . . Is there anything like "good Gossip"? I ask because, gossip as a word has always had a negativity about it and nothing positive. I wont class that as gossip because: "telling them how lucky he is to have her,and how good she is ,interms of character", this is what is expected of every woman, so its somewhat normal or even ordinary. . . You dont expect a man to admit in public that his wife is ugly naa |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 4:55pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: your subject said gossip,but d main topic said intimate discussion if my man discusses me wt his friends and tells them how lucky he is to have me and so on,then i don't see that as a crime or is it?your character as a woman/man speaks out for u,though u might not be d one doing the talking ,but people who has had a one on one contact wt u,will help u spread it all wide and if u call that gossip,then i guess we both have a diff defination of that word |
Re: Gossips by mellow(m): 4:57pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
There is absolutely nothing positive about gossip. If there is it should not have been called gossip. |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 4:58pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
mellow: there is sthg positive about it ,sometimes its said in a good way,but not in your presence and dats wen its called a gossip |
Re: Gossips by Gamine(f): 5:02pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
True sha. All Gossip is bad. its like saying Im a Good Witch or Politicians are greedy. PLs Oga dont Gossip about me oh!! |
Re: Gossips by rubi(f): 5:04pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: You said friends that means he or she has no value and respect for you and cannot protect you But if it is a friend I can say it is fine to confide in someone experienced and matured ( a friend in need is a friend indeed) |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:08pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
rubi: not true,you're attaching so much emotions to this a man can be wt his friends ,and his friends might be discussing about how terrible their girls r,and also their bad characters and so on and then your man opens his mouth and says that "well im lucky to have my own wife/partner/lover ,shes quite diff from all this girls u people r talking about,shes a God sent to me,shes got a good character and gives me peace,i love her so well" now tell me if that guy has no respect for u,if he does not have respect for u,y did he say so many good things about u? |
Re: Gossips by beauteous(f): 5:10pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi:GUSH!!! tis goin to lead to our break-up. dat's a certainty. |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 5:17pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
beauteous: |
Re: Gossips by rubi(f): 5:23pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
lady u: The poster said intimate If you understand what intimate means not general compliment. I don't know whether you are married or single but when a man discusses his intimate relationship with his friends that is not acceptable |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 5:24pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
rubi: Over a can of beer ohhh |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:27pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
rubi: intimacy comes from d heart ,now if my husband expresses d love he has for me to his friends intimately is not intimacy ,then d definition of dat word is different |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:34pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: u r confusing us here,ur subject said gossips,ur topic said intimate discussions and now u r saying over a can of beer |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 5:40pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
lady u: Gossips are gossiping about intimate issues regarding their partners over a can of beer U get my drift |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:41pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: and im still saiyng dat as long as he says sthg good about me,and not about our sexual life or other personal matters then its fine by me |
Re: Gossips by jkpretty(f): 5:42pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
We gossip & men gossip. If he really matters to u, u know what to say & what not to say about him. (vise versa) |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:44pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
jkpretty: my point exactly |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 5:45pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
lady u: If he says something good about u, whether u r there or not, thats a compliment but not a gossip |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:47pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi:nope u seem to have forgotten dat sometimes we gossip about pple positively(wen they r not there) gossip has got d good and bad side,thats d simple fact |
Re: Gossips by whitelexi(m): 5:48pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
lady u: I never heard of good gossip sha |
Re: Gossips by ladyu1: 5:50pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
whitelexi: diff peeps for diff things |
Re: Gossips by Pataki: 5:56pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
jkpretty:Real men do not gossip please. Rather we gist. |
Re: Gossips by jkpretty(f): 5:59pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
Pataki: As far as u lay shit of women bare, its gossip! |
Re: Gossips by Pataki: 6:05pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
jkpretty:No it is not so. When we gist, we discuss every every. Politics, Sports, Current Affairs, Women. . . . etc |
Re: Gossips by Sisikill: 6:06pm On Jul 14, 2008 |
If I overhear him discussing me with his friends, I'll just make sure he overhears me discussing him with my friends. He says I'm not that good, I say he is the worst I ever had, that sometimes I have to use all my will power to keep from yawning while we're doing it sef. So you see. . . no biggie. Bring it on, baby!! |
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