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I actually posted this already in my last topic about me and my girl having issue about this ex of a thing about her telling her ex that she can’t resist him if they are together that something else will happen,which means sex,you will all see this in my last topic.,because she definitely don’t wanna admit that what she did is wrong…,so her mom called me yesterday and begged me that I should just settle it with her..we’ve being on this since Monday..,because she claims she’s always catching cruise with him with those nasty chats.,and this is the third time of getting them doing that,so I went to meet her last night and told her we need to talk.,I had to call her almost 3 times before she answered it was her friend that later tell her that atleast she should Answer..,so as I was talking to her yesternight trying to settle things with her..taking things calmly..,and I asked her in I and this guy who does she want..,she said i shouldn’t ask her that.,I leave that question to her even though she ask me not to ask her,I told her the guy is dangerous and can affect our future.,because I’ve known the guy to be a cultist.,so I told her can she just drop all this..,the next thing was that she just walked out on me and tell me I’m talking like a smoker and someone that doesn’t have sense….,so I went to meet her in the sitting room..she was removing her sim in her phone because I bought that phone for her, and want to start heading out that night…I was trying to stop her and the next thing that landed on my face was a dirty slap,I couldn’t see anything again that moment lol.,and off she go..,so I locked the gate last night and said wherever she wanna go she should be going..the next thing was that she called her mom that have locked her out and her mom was begging so hard.…she had to start knocking my door yesterday that she wanna pack out and was cursing., so I said I’m going to help her pack to make things easy,so my landlord ask me to stop that,because I was so provoked and angry,so my landlord came around and settle things and then ask her to say sorry to me..,she said she can’t say sorry that she doesn’t have fault..she find it hard to say sorry at last..,so the landlord left around 1am that night..just to settle things I still went in to beg her and hug her..,that I’m over it even when I know she has the whole fault..,so this morning.,she went out angrily again…she doesn’t even say anything or greet.,I’ve spent so much on that girl..,I’ve invested so much on her..,one of my friend says I’ve made her too expensive and make her see everything about me,that that’s one of the reason why she’s acting that way..,so Nairalanders I need your advice..,please even though I’ve begged her and she’s still acting this way even when I know she’s at fault.,what do I do about this issue?my parents already know her and see her as who I’m going to marry.,they aren’t aware of all this happening.,because my parents know her parents already..please help about this I’m feeling so bad..no insults please.,and I’m sorry if my grammars are not too good..,please help me move this to front page!!if possible ��

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Thanks very much bro..,she’s been giving me attitude since yesterday and I’m also giving her the same energy she’s giving me.

Good afternoon nairalanders,I really need your help on what to do about this issue I’m going through.,I’m sorry if my grammars are bad.,I’m not really perfect about it.,
So I’ve being dating this for over 2yrs now and it’d be 3yrs this year..,we actually stay together.,so some couple of days ago I noticed she changed her WhatsApp to Face ID.,we both use same password.,so she have acess to my phone,and I also have acess to her phone,..so since couple of days now I noticed whenever I take her phone she’s not only feeling comfortable..,she’d always stay with me till I finish using it or forcefully collect it from me..,so I sensed there’s something going on.,so this morning when she was sleeping..I have to break in her WhatsApp because she wasn’t aware after Face ID there’d still be a passcode..then I found out that..there’s this guy she is always chatting with..this is the third time.,I caught her again..the first time we fought so hard about this she begged that she will delete his number…same thing happened again the second time..,she said she’d block him and I found out that she still unblocked him again..,so I went through their chat..and what I was seeing was just so heartbreaking..,because the guy was her ex.,she was telling this guy she missed their intimacy.,even planning how they are going to meet soon..,telling the guy she can never resist him if they are together,the guy was asking her about what they talked about the last time and she said is it sex?that really broke my heart the more.,she was even saying she can’t resist him if they are together,I sacrificed everything for this girl..I love her and give her everything..,attention,money.,everything!!I don’t understand what else she want…I confronted her this morning and she doesn’t even feel remorseful about it..,all she said is it’s high time we have privacy for our phone..I’m just so heartbroken right now..I have to leave house for her..because I don’t just know how to cope with this heartbreak..whenever we have issue..if her mom knows about it she will only be begging me..,my parents know her as a good girl..,I don’t know how to break this news to them yet that I want to end things with her..,I’m just so frustrated and depressed right now..nairalanders please help me,no insults please..thanks so much in advance.