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I notice all men seem to want the same thing. A hardworking and independent lady. Let's say we women eventually meet up to the standards.
Now my question is does this make men stop cheating? Cos honestly u guys seem so focused on how to control women. When u can't even control the urge to poke every hole u see.

[quote author=Nitoriolohun1 post=127540242][/quote]I wasn't living with him... I just spend the weekend most times

I need help concerning my relationship which I'm not sure still stands. My guy and I have been dating for a year and half now and he his a very caring and great guy. He his Muslim and I'm a Christian and we both agreed to do our religion without hindering one another. We hardly fight and we settle our quarrels almost immediately.
Recently, my guy and I had a quarrel about communication which I kinda complain to him and I notice he just acted non challant towards and wasn't even trying to correct or amend. This lasted for like 3 wks and we barely talked during those period ( longest we've ever had to quarrel). He would not call me and if I called he would give excuses of different kinds especially " I slept off". Anyways we settled and I went to his place for the weekends but then I decided to go to work from his house the following week. I wasn't feeling sleepy that Sunday night and i decided to play some games on my fone but it was low so I used my guys charger and unplugged his fone. I decide d to play with his instead. Mind u I don't go tru his fone cos I trust him and I don't really think it is necessary but he goes tru mine every single time I come visiting. That's why he didn't change his password I guess, cos he felt save.
I decided to check his Whatsapp and the first message I clicked on was a contact that wasn't saved on his fone. I read the message and found out my guy was cheating on me with a girl he claimed was like a younger sister to him. This guy barely takes pics and funny enough I don't have any recent pics of him. If I take a picture of us or him alone, he would delete it from my fone without my knowledge. And yet he sent the girl his recent pic. I was heartbroken when I read their chat but didn't do anything till the next day. I called him after I got back from work and confronted him, he didn't deny, he only said and I quote " what gave u the right read my chat? And besides I know what I'm doing, I'm not stupid. What if I'm just using her to pass time, u are just overreacting towards this tin". While we were still arguing, I told him I was done with him, that we are over. he seem shocked then after a while cut the call and in annoyance, I blocked him in every place I could. Then I unblocked him after two days but he didn't call back or text.
Now my I'm wondering if I overreacted in that situation. We were already planning to get married next year. maybe I shouldn't have blocked him. Maybe he his into her becos she's a hijabi.

Pls my people I need to know which general hospital in Lagos does DNA.
The ones I have asked are so expensive but I believe it should be lesser at the general hospital.

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Pls my dog is suffering from parvo virus...is there any way I can do home treatment for him.The vet charges are too much

Pls I don't know what to do, my dog doesn't eat and he vormits whatever he manages to put in his mouth. What do I do?