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winteriscoming: Tell him now. He will feel betrayed if you dont tell him on time. My sister and my friend are dating, they told me right from the beginning. I didnt really care, they are both adults; what's my own?

But i did appreciate the gesture tough.

I will let him know ASAP. But what of his reaction. dunno if I'll be able to withstand it.
or what if he says "NEVER!!!"

Fraternize: Fratenizing right under her father's nose? Mehnnnn, u bad. Anyway, let your friend know you are in to his sister? I must confess most of us guys wouldn't want our friends to date our siss. If you really serious about her and you don't have the intention of playing around, its best you fill in your friend.

I'll fill him in

ebuetor: am very sure you guys are from the yoruba tribe. Issues like this scare them to a fault. The elders of the land will not take it lightly. Monitoring very move. Pls dont let them know now or else they will kill it. I dont know hw old you are but wait till you are older

thanks, I ll give ds a deep thought

vizboy: guys are overprotective when it comes to family,like me I wouldnt want anyone hurting my junior sis, am outsider I can bear with since idont know him that much. But a friend,we go kill ourselves

Kill ke? Abeg oo

mac-delene:
Pls don't mind this one. U said her daddy is ur mum's boss which means u guys are still yound love. My dear it won't end well. Haba if u guys were much more older I. Would say it might be serious but it not. My dear end it fast. Before they use ur head do punching bag

I should end it as if it's like a remote button?

Mendo007: [lasunray]We ve gone Far (Me&her). I'm 2+yrs Older than her. Wat wer u tinkin dating a girl dat u r surpose 2 b lik an elder brother 2.please dnt tell me you r a pedophile.

like seriously?

vizboy: man it is very bad oh.

I could remember the last time I tried it on one of my friends sister.

The mistake I made was that I told him before I wanted to start running the package.

The guy use mouth spoil my name for were the girl dey.

Girl make be dey show sign, all of a sudden stop to dey show sign.

Well for me oh i cant let my best friend date my sis,that i realized later that things like that can come between 2 friends.

You just imagine for a moment your friend explaining to you the way he hanged you sis op how would you feel

yea. thats for someone doing her now. besides he shouldn't "kiss n tell"

lorretta u: Lemme get this straight. Guys don't want anyone to fvck their sisters but they want to fvck other people's sisters?

It is well

Ugly truth

Guidette: If you don't have any bad intentions and you are going into this relationship because you can really see a future, you need to tell your friend. It will come out eventually anyways, so better do yourself the favor and tell him or it may get messier than it actually should.

okay ma

jvera: Well I tink u shud tel ha broda da u'r interestd in his sis dnt tell him ur already datin ha nd c his reactn then u guys wud kno wat next 2 do

that's exactly what am thinking

eluquenson: Then I was just 24yrs & what you don't know about ladies is they prefer older guys to their mates due to level of experience & if na you nko you won't let go cos dis babe is very Beautiful, the other guy almost fought with me when he came to my hood to investigate who the rival was, but he thought am just a guy he can bash on but he swallowed his pride when he saw me... O fe wo ju uche ni

na real serious drama oo

byne: guy they are other babes out there.. y must it be frd sister...

she's special

Judek2: If you are a nice guy, you shouldn't be worried, and ur friend will be happy.. Unless you are a jerk, and he knows the end story of any girl you lay your hands on..

am a nice guy & not a jerk

Donpuzo: @op. Go and Die

Go and Live

damsel tee: Dis is crazy,wat soso wrong in datin U̶̲̥̅̊я̲̣̣̥ broda's fwnd,it onli bad guys dat dnt want dere sis associating wit dere fwnds.

Abi oo. I ve no ulterior motive

budusky05: Watz wrong with it, only treat her wit respect. For the sake of ur friend, Guy lastly dont tink ur friend does not know he may know and will find it dificult to talk about, could be he respects u too.
I had similer issue

thanks. I will definitely respect her

smooooooth: Op, av seen this scenario over a 1000 times, u tink u aving fun with ur friend's sis but d joke's actually on u cos her father is def screwing ur mother.

your first paragraph is okay. but the joke is actually a joke

vislabraye: If you are like other guys, na to chop well well. I'm sure she enjoys the secrecy. It's now left to you to make your next move. Do you want to marry her ? Or you want to continue with ur secrecy ?

I'm not like other guys. I always tell her & I mean it.

deeptesting: I married my friends younger sister except the OP does not love her and just wants to dig her hole which will lead to heart break,resentment and all what not. @OP if you know you are out there to deceive her because of her hole please leave her alone but if you know you love her and you are ready to settle down with her then go ahead.

thanks, am not there to dig any hole

engr j: Ok u have the option of running away with her like traveling out of the country . Or u nor dey watch noolywood movies....

Haba, that option hard oo

chadnezzar0worl: I have been in that situation like twice, it wasn't a very nice experience when my friends found out, cos we were really close, but the truth is I genuinely and unknowingly fell in love! ND they were really close to their sis, so they used my bad boy precedent to judge me,not knowing I was for real this time.so play smart, ND d pops might be equalling scores at d office

mine is genuinely and unknowingly!

I'm for real. but very sure d pop isn't equaling anythin. am 100%sure.

Eyop: Some guys sha...how on earth will you think of dating your boy friend's sister?? You also mentioned that the girl's dad is your mum's boss hmmmmm, i won't be suprised if the dad also dey kwaja your mum too after all you dey chop the daughter too. This world get as e be oh and if you get to know,dont complain because that's trade by barter levels

seriously, nothing like that.

Eseharrison: Truth be told, no time will be conducive enough to tell him. I once dated my bestfriend's sis too. I hoipe urs end well. Mine didn't. A rich dude came through the proper channels and she's engaged now.

wow, u guys moved on for good

longjohnsilver: Tell the friend jhur...na him wan marry his sista ni...but its better you prepare for some cold reaction from his end, but wait dis is so awkward, u don't want your friends to date ur own sis...and u are dating your friend's sista...

its really awkward. I couldn't prevent it. it just happened

kepsi123: I married my best freinds sister. Not even all the legion in that family could have prevented that. Two beautiful baby girls. It can end well

thanks for sharing.

As for anybody reading this post, your candid advise will be appreciated..

Thanks to you all that ve contributed.


I can't sleep.

oluafolabi: It goes against the #BroCode.

---> Never date or have sexual relations with a Bro's sister, half-sister or mother.

I know there is a BroCode, isn't there a cool way out of this drama?

ARareGem: So dating someone translates to having se'xual relations with them? Well, the OP dint deny it either.

But why is it an issue to date your friend's sister? I really don't get it... especially if they're working towards marriage.

it is an issue ma, we guys know its not-just-okay, that is why I used the word "awkward" and remember I said I wouldnt really support my friend dating my sis.
this r/ship came suddenly, unexpectedly!

Obiagu1: Bros, this is a MUST marry kind of relationship.
So you should better start saving up for your marriage or else...

We all date for marriage sake ofcourse, its only the unserious ones that dabble into it & don't expect such.

ARareGem: So dating someone translates to having se'xual relations with them? Well, the OP dint deny it either.

But why is it an issue to date your friend's sister? I really don't get it... especially if they're working towards marriage.

it is an issue ma, we guys know its not-just-okay, that is why I used the word "awkward" and remember I said I wouldnt really support my friend dating my sis.
this r/ship came suddenly, unexpectedly!