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ifyalways: Lesson no 1:Do good and don't expect reward from men.
no 2:Expect little from men so you don't end up disappointed.

Madam, I wasn't expecting ANY "reward from men".
Am not disappointed at all, Just exasperated.

free2ryhme: dont make a big deal out of helping someone ( either male or female) just see ur deeds as an act of kindness... well I promise you when u time of need arises somehow somewhere you good deeds will speak for you and you will find favour .. Keep doing good and continue dont get discourage even if they dont call for you at all ... God knows whats best for you .. My one cent face your school and be optimist ... Dont get disturb by her sudden change of attitude towards you ...

Thanks! I Copy!!

sammykaro: Guy just free your mind, you've done your part. Its just that guys like you don't help fellow guys in most cases...na woman una D̶̲̥̅̊ε̲̣̣̣̥y like help!

Hahahaha. Funny You!!
its coincidental. besides am pretty sure a guy won't behave like this.

DeeWan: @Lasunray: Let her alone. If that is the only thing you have done in her life, you have done well. Move on with your life. Try to get over it and match on. God will surely reward you for good. If you don't mind, you can also help me. I am also looking for job. You can let me know how to get my C.V across to you. Thanks in anticipation

Alryt. thanks. I ve heard. As for ur CV, I hope u r not a girl?

..."just kidding"

PM me

juliluv: let her be,may be she feels u're becomming a thorn in her flesh,since she said nothing is wrong just allow her. dont even bother calling her again unless u hve another intention ,lolz

I don't have other intention

arizona20: My dear brother,am really sorry for dat bt u hav to move on.i tink u have to forget evrything abt her.i beliv u had notin bad in mind wen u helped her secure such a nice job.just leave her.i understand how u fel bt jst bone her.

thanks, am getting over it. we were good friends. kinda difficult

life_style: That's why some guys will demand for se.x before helping cos once they got the job, you become history.

Sorry Bro just move on...

On a second thought maybe cos I didn't make advances, "females" could be funny u know?

Idirabata: @op, somewhere along the line i believe she must have appreciated you. One thing u must accept is that she is no longer on the same level as you. You can still keep in touch but dnt overdo it otherwise u can become a pest.

I somehow agree with you. But why the avoidance? Her appreciation is not my priority naw

adewasco2k: Typical naija babe

its so not new to me...so what i do before helping any girl is to just set my mind free not expecting her appreciation.

Am not expecting her appreciation Sir

alpha conde: She's only human and an ungrateful one. Please don't stop helping people becus of her just stop helping females, they have a way of thinking

Seriously helping "females" has thought me several lessons.

all-out:
LOL! @ work stress!

OP, she's prolly feeling fly because of whatever she's being paid! Abeg continue your goodwill! Ignore the fool, I'm sure if she hits a solid 6 figure, she'll start speaking in cockney accent before her 1st pay check! Shioor!

I believe "nobody is busy, Its a matter of priorities"

Chiadikaobi, eimuhb and dannio thanks for your comments, advise & observations.

@Chiadikaobi, what do u mean by "...may be she is thinking you just want to derive pleasure from her for just
securing a job..."

@eimuhb, "she wants to reduce
the way she relates with you
because you might take
advantage of her" am not that kind of person. I ve also been helped one way or the other. its just making me feel "there were other pple that deserve this opportunity". But I don't in anyway regret my action (helping).

@ dannio, yea. levels go everly change!

Dyt: Ehn ehn
Dats good o
Help me find dat kind of job
I promise I won't bone u
Drop d mail I can send my cv to
Thnx in advance

Hahahaha. you are kidding me. but seriously, drop ur opinion first. even if I help u find job & u bone me e no go pain me. we've been friends for long.
I always ask her what is wrong but she says "nofin".

After Helping Her To Find A Job She Boned Me

Hello Nairalanders,
Happy New Month,
I Helped a very close friend of mine to find a good job that pays close to hundred thousand naira, after her first pay she Just stopped calling, texting, keeping in touch as she does before. Its not that she is that busy because she does 2days off and 3days on (Mon to Fri).
I don't need her money; if she gives me any, I will definitely not collect.
I still try to keep in touch but she ain't reciprocating.
She gists me about the work place and other things but if I ask now, she always has nothing to say.

NB: Am still schooling.

How would you feel if you are in my shoes? I want to learn here so you candid advise will be appreciated.

Is Jack Bauer among them? lol
These guys are takin it very serious o

mixed up story

adesojiaderemi@:
I know this man in Ibadan,he is Ghanaian living in Nigeria, he use to weave Chairs along ring road opposite High court.

opposite Oni & Sons. not far from Lister round about

koko master

toluxa1: Watching Live on the Internet too on my Android device.

how pls. I use android too

Hater! Ordinary penalty he no fit score.

pofolo: remove your smartcard from the decoder.
try blow some dry air into the box.
clean the chip edge of the smartcard.
turn ur decoder upside down, give it like five gentle lashes( abara )......until it shows e04 error on the screen.
then insert ur smartcard.

best of luck.

done that sir. same issue.

Sijo01: Goooooooal

Mali - Bronze
Ghana - Clay.

Award Winners for AFCON 2013
Nigeria-Gold
Burkina Faso-Silver
Mali-Bronze
Ghana-Wood

Ghana na learner for penalty

my Dstv decorder keeps sayin smart card inserted upside down...Bla bla bla bla. I ve bin to their office on two several occasions. but was told its not my smart card but decorder, so i'd ve to swap it. a friend told me d smart card can be repaired. pls who knows where I can repair it?

When Google comes to Lagos, Ibadan, Kwara or Ogun States; lemme know.

Akeks: K guys. I'm kinda indecisive here. Which should i go for; a samsong galaxy pocket or a tecno N3? Pls guys i need 2 knw which one is better... Can i trust dat tecno N3? Heard it'sa dual sim and it's relatively very cheap! Or should i just play safe and get d galaxy pocket.
I urgently need your opinion on dis pls as i'm going 2 get one 2mrw or nxt.

I use pocket & am enjoying it. I ve seen and operated tecno N3. the only main feature that diff them is that. tecno N3 has wider screen, bigger, its a double SIM phone. 3MP camera while pocket is 2MP. Tecno N3 has lasting battery capacity.
Pocket has text to speech, I doubt if tecno N3 has, pls confirm.

utosco: #1200 for bsm

did u get my mail?

otikpoko: Thank you for thanking me
NEXT!

Thanks soo much, I ve gotten the SIM. Will get back to you ASAP.

tolupemi: fellow nlanders,pls hw cn i use airtel monthly bis on my android device

dial *440*4# or send BSM to 440 after loading N1,200.

tanimola22: Hi,

Email or call

office telephone: +234(0)28741045
E-mail: oip@mail.ui.edu.ng

From there, you should sort things out.

T22

Thanks soo much... I am waiting for my recommendation letter.