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Xiadnat:
This is why my philosophy is this: "Life is a balancing act. Extremism is really bad". We make general sweeping statements w/o defining terms.

How much money are we talking about? Thousand-ire? Millionaire? Billionaire? What kind of love? Agape? Eros? Phileo?

You do not need to be a millionaire or be "rich" to find or nurture love. And you do not need money to "agape, or phileo" someone. That's why romantic (eros) love is so warped--that's why men think money plays a role and where women got it twisted because we think that if men don't spend on you, it can't be love. Who are we fooling really? True love should first be agape, then phileo, then eros. Not eros first. This is why marriages fail today--including those that start with money as the basis.

No one says you should bring children into this world if you are (as parents) unable to provide for them.

Why does the financial burden lie only on men? What of the woman? Is your boyfriend your father? Why should he be held responsible for feeding and clothing you while you are dating?

If not for vanity, why can't both men and women reciprocate and exchange the burden? I mean, when we go out, feed yourself fucking self with the money your father gave you or the money you made for yourself. Why does the financial aspects of dating/courting fall just on the guy

As a woman, get your own fucking career. Make your own damn money.

Ask and tell yourself "i can't go into a relationship if i can't contribute financially". Maybe men would stop thinking they need to hit the jackpot before they settle down. Unless for those, whom ego is an issue.

juhan:
it's just a picture

Twaci:

Smellymouth:
I nor well joor..

Mourinho wan gimme HBP..

Cutehector:
I will stop wen I don't gv a fvck abt u ok

Cutehector:
why u dey fear laveda like dis

iamkingzlee:
na una na Go to church!!

Richiy:
What of people that are not funny? They will not marry ba?

What is most important is understanding

iamkingzlee:
Headddd

Young03:
this is a Sunday morning

respect ur self

gbeny007:
You can just decide to learn how to do fiverr the right way and boost your fiances.Others are making legitimate earnings rendering quality services on fiverr and why not you? Call for help.....

Drtr

firstking01:
Thanks but not happy with you.

firstking01:
In no particular order..



At your prime, flee from sleeping with a married man cos that's the time they will come flocking around you...i mean usain bolt yourself away cos you can't bear the consequences in the future(karma)


At your prime, stop playing boyfriend and girlfriend game, for Godsake you are at your prime you don't have time again if he's not willing to take you down the isle unbolt him and let him give other suitors way

At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of partner

At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get....be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you, from their make your choice carefully

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

At your prime, ensure you aren't idle cos NO man wants a liability as a wife…either you have a good handwork or you are working already

At your prime you must have known how to pray...forget the nature of men, we love you more when you love God


Ok, the above epistle is strictly for girls/ladies who believe in marriage and ofcourse as a nigerian we solely and strongly believe in marriage...but however, if you think you are guilty in any one of these it's never too late you should be thanking God you are opportuned to see this...what you need to do now is refasten your seatbelt and retrace your steps and hit the right mark...


Ok, thank you.