nuelyoyo:
Bros, I have gone intimate wif some gals on first date, and afterwards, I found they ain't hoes, as many would tag them. Some would not let u touch them on first date but are the worst oloshos. In fact what trends wif most gals now is that they package themselves to be decent by delaying the intimacy thingy, only for u to find out that they are worse than porn stars. All those things doesn't move me oh.
If u like delay the sex, Ur true colour would show, as a guy if u spend quality time with Ur gal, u sure would know the kind of callls she receives, the circle of friends she keeps, and anything that gives the alert that she is a hoe. My recent ex comes to mind, we did the romance thing, but for her menstruation, we didn't have sex

Valid points you made but generally, sex on first date makes a lady look cheap. True, ladies have evolved now to hide em true selves but like you said her gang of friends, calls and even her contributions to your discussion will betray her if she is not a wife quality.
One thing to know is that successful men don't woo women for longer as they are so engage productively and require an answer in a short period of time. Also ever successfully men got ego and can easily switch to another because they have the amenities needed by every women.

baum1:


Well said. This was what I tried to let her know.

How some of us go come dey pursue one girl like that come leave other more important things? Na wah

Only jobless men or boys play the love seen on India movies. I was once like that but when I got engaged in the family business I had no time for intimacy as I wake up early and go to bed late. Who get time for everyday gigegige when contracts worth millions are waiting to be won.

baum1:


Lol, but prime is not the period of desperation. Desperation sets in when prime is past..Though there still exists people who are never desperate even after their so-called prime.

bro majority of women today in Nigeria is marriage driven. Yet they can't keep a responsible guy when they find one, due to their insatiable longer throats. They want him tall, dark, handsome, rich, intelligent, popular, faithful, sexy, with so much investments, travels abroad at will, humble, respectful and the list goes on.

They want already made. Never ready to join hands build a great future. Never ready to support, just to eat and present their bodies in return, yet cheat when the guy goes out.

Thus when they are unable to find this imaginary man, they resolve to desperation.

Op urges them to make sure they possess the listed characteristics by the time they get to the prime time, so as to hook responsible guys before they end up being desperate

If you near a woman of 28 or 30 years for relationship. That's when you see desperation and pretense in display especially if you are well to do guy.

ItsQuinn:
Don't worry I'm not going down that lane....I believe that God exists and I know Jesus love me ....I'm a Christian but i have my own doctrine and my own set of rules

lol, you better don't try it. See as I don turn preacher because of you. I'm loving it anyway.

Hope you will be going to church tomorrow?

I don't like it but I have no choice

Lovelynature:
lol, you better don't try it. See as I don turn preacher because of you. I'm loving it anyway.

Hope you will be going to church tomorrow?

A woman at her prime often show the kind of hard to get attitude. However, this has a negative repercusion on her future affairs. Hard to get doesnt Mean you are really expensive, it all depends on your conent or what you are made of. so wake u from your dreams and face reality .

It depends on the man. For me, l prefer ladies that easily accept me with little or no pressure.

ItsQuinn:
I don't like it but I have no choice

You better find a way to love it not just like.

Besides, you dodged the question. Hope you will be going to church tomorrow?

Dongreat:


Valid points you made but generally, sex on first date makes a lady look cheap. True, ladies have evolved now to hide em true selves but like you said her gang of friends, calls and even her contributions to your discussion will betray her if she is not a wife quality.
One thing to know is that successful men don't woo women for longer as they are so engage productively and require an answer in a short period of time. Also ever successfully men got ego and can easily switch to another because they have the amenities needed by every women.

true talk, most successful guys usually have that ambitious nature, hence don't have the time for endless follow up. Through out my university days, I didn't have time for gals, my girlfriend I was dating back in lag happened to gain admission in the same school wif me, so we were 2 sessions apart. She would always complain that I barely have time for her, I made it clear to her that am in school for the knowledge and the papers, and I don't intend having an extension. Today, I don't regret sacrificing dating for knowledge , coz I am where I am today coz of GOD and sacrifice on my on part. Am still work in progress though, there is no bus stop for success, u just keep evolving till u die.

Sorry there's no way I will love church....Yes I will

Lovelynature:
You better find a way to love it not just like.

Besides, you dodged the question. Hope you will be going to church tomorrow?

biggy26:


No join bad gang follow married man o. Anyway, different strokes for different folks. There's no hard and fast rule sha. I like jovial ladies cos I'm, but overdo is a no no.

Never assume u know what men want sha, cos ur own might just be different.

Married man! he's like a family frd but we discuss stuffs cos he's the free type.
Thanks anyway.

nuelyoyo:
true talk, most successful guys usually have that ambitious nature, hence don't have the time for endless follow up. Through out my university days, I didn't have time for gals, my girlfriend I was dating back in lag happened to gain admission in the same school wif me, so we were 2 sessions apart. She would always complain that I barely have time for her, I made it clear to her that am in school for the knowledge and the papers, and I don't intend having an extension. Today, I don't regret sacrificing dating for knowledge , coz I am where I am today coz of GOD and sacrifice on my on part. Am still work in progress though, there is no bus stop for success, u just keep evolving till u die.

Happy that you never compromised your dreams for a relationship. Get your dreams and you attracts endless relationships.

Lovelynature:
bro majority of women today in Nigeria is marriage driven. Yet they can't keep a responsible guy when they find one, due to their insatiable longer throats. They want him tall, dark, handsome, rich, intelligent, popular, faithful, sexy, with so much investments, travels abroad at will, humble, respectful and the list goes on.

They want already made. Never ready to join hands build a great future. Never ready to support, just to eat and present their bodies in return, yet cheat when the guy goes out.

Thus when they are unable to find this imaginary man, they resolve to desperation.

Op urges them to make sure they possess the listed characteristics by the time they get to the prime time, so as to hook responsible guys before they end up being desperate

If you near a woman of 28 or 30 years for relationship. That's when you see desperation and pretense in display especially if you are well to do guy.

GBAM, this man just nailed it, what do u take lemme order online and send it to you

nuelyoyo:
GBAM, this man just nailed it, what do u take lemme order online and send it to you

lol bro na so

firstking01:
In no particular order..



At your prime, flee from sleeping with a married man cos that's the time they will come flocking around you...i mean usain bolt yourself away cos you can't bear the consequences in the future(karma)


At your prime, stop playing boyfriend and girlfriend game, for Godsake you are at your prime you don't have time again if he's not willing to take you down the isle unbolt him and let him give other suitors way

At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of partner

At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get....be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you, from their make your choice carefully

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

At your prime, ensure you aren't idle cos NO man wants a liability as a wife…either you have a good handwork or you are working already

At your prime you must have known how to pray...forget the nature of men, we love you more when you love God


Ok, the above epistle is strictly for girls/ladies who believe in marriage and ofcourse as a nigerian we solely and strongly believe in marriage...but however, if you think you are guilty in any one of these it's never too late you should be thanking God you are opportuned to see this...what you need to do now is refasten your seatbelt and retrace your steps and hit the right mark...


Ok, thank you.

. As a young DAD. I don't date Five ladies under 5 years. All don't marry. So it depends on the type of married men you mean[email][/email]

ItsQuinn:
Sorry there's no way I will love church....Yes I will

Aiit... Mention me after church tomorrow

Okies

Lovelynature:
Aiit... Mention me after church tomorrow

dollyjoy:
Not a fan of "Dos and Don't" abegi, life is too short to be spent on obeying norms.

live d way u wanna .....responsibility for our actions now in future to come is consequential... good or bad... u bearam##

mikolo80:
simple
No sex wit anybody
And marry fastest finger first

It doesn't matter if there is sex or not. When you love someone, you love the person... it hurt to know someone you love and claim to love you already have a replacement standing by even when things are heading the right way.

What becomes the faith of others she's been leading on?

Marry the fastest finger? I believe the institution is deeper than marrying the fastest finger.

Jarizod:


swirri personally I don't mind being ur side Booo ooo as far as I will be yanshing u from time to time

The gods must be angry with me today. I thought I was immune to your werey

firstking01:
In no particular order..



At your prime, flee from sleeping with a married man cos that's the time they will come flocking around you...i mean usain bolt yourself away cos you can't bear the consequences in the future(karma)


At your prime, stop playing boyfriend and girlfriend game, for Godsake you are at your prime you don't have time again if he's not willing to take you down the isle unbolt him and let him give other suitors way

At your prime moderate your taste and bring it under control...i mean don't settle for less but be moderate in your choice of partner

At your prime you shouldn't play hard to get....be more open and jovial especially to the male folks cos some of them must woo you, from their make your choice carefully

At your prime, keep your options open even if you are engaged cos there's NO written agreement or guarrantee that he must marry you, reason is because you are at your prime…inshort there's NOTHING like engagement in the bible sef, even mary was bethroted joseph and not engaged to her so therefore, every "engagement is prone to breaking"

At your prime, ensure you aren't idle cos NO man wants a liability as a wife…either you have a good handwork or you are working already

At your prime you must have known how to pray...forget the nature of men, we love you more when you love God


Ok, the above epistle is strictly for girls/ladies who believe in marriage and ofcourse as a nigerian we solely and strongly believe in marriage...but however, if you think you are guilty in any one of these it's never too late you should be thanking God you are opportuned to see this...what you need to do now is refasten your seatbelt and retrace your steps and hit the right mark...


Ok, thank you.

Wow, you made sense. Nice one.

Laveda:

Wow, you made sense. Nice one.

Thanks but not happy with you.

firstking01:
Thanks but not happy with you.

Lol why? Okay send a Pm.

Pandorabox:
What if the supposed girl is still a student?

Been a student is one of the greatest scam in Nigeria. I urge every girl to start up something immidiately after ssce. Either get employed with ssce or start learning a handwork while scrambling for jamb or immidiately after admission. Certificate is almost worthless these days, though make sure you graduate. Most boys and girls see that 4 yrs as holiday and free life...party party...smoking ...fukkkkin ..cohabiting and by NYSC they become crazy in order to finalize. My dear, by the time you hit 30 you know those days were numbered.

mecussey:


Been a student is one of the greatest scam in Nigeria. I urge every girl to start up something immidiately after ssce. Either get employed with ssce or start learning a handwork while scrambling for jamb or immidiately after admission. Certificate is almost worthless these days, though make sure you graduate. Most boys and girls see that 4 yrs as holiday and free life...party party...smoking ...fukkkkin ..cohabiting and by NYSC they become crazy in order to finalize. My dear, by the time you hit 30 you know those days were numbered.

ok.

Laveda:
Lol why? Okay send a Pm.

Follow back.

Beamborla:

The gods must be angry with me today. I thought I was immune to your werey

[quote author=mikolo80 post=50405929] simple
No sex wit anybody
And marry fastest finger first[/quote

even if the first finger is having question mark? Pls my ladies just take ur time nd ask God to show ur man, don't mind all these bloggers who write rubbish just to get traffic.

[quote author=mikolo80 post=50405929] simple
No sex wit anybody
And marry fastest finger first[/quote

even if the fastest finger is having question mark? Pls my ladies just take ur time nd ask God to show ur man, don't mind all these bloggers who write rubbish just to get traffic.

[quote author=akaahs post=50428273][/quote]why will you date question marked finger
Date marriageable guys and pick whoever is ready first

Beamborla:

It doesn't matter if there is sex or not. When you love someone, you love the person... it hurt to know someone you love and claim to love you already have a replacement standing by even when things are heading the right way.

What becomes the faith of others she's been leading on?

Marry the fastest finger? I believe the institution is deeper than marrying the fastest finger.

it's sad but that's what the world has been reduced too
Especially with the economic realities

Captain001:



My dear you're tagged cheap when you give in easily and begin to offer sex. Even if you were the one that did the wooing (not in support though) but refuse sex till marriage, my dear he'll see you as more expensive than diamond. What sponsors the tag "cheap" is sex. That goes to show that sex is highly expensive but has been cheapened down by the women folk. Except for cases o rape I don't blame men

I concur