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whizqueen:
Guys complain of not wanting a liability as a spouse,yet you claim that financially stable women are rude and proud.

Men don't even know what they want sef

Jeffreyjamez, sod09, iamcharis and justwise. Your answers are cool. Thanks. But still men don't know what they want


Another question, why are most guys just selfish? After eruption during sex they just sleep off. They don't consider their partners feeling or satisfaction? Sex to them is just more like "hit", "cum" and "doze". Don't you guys know what is after sex activity?

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]1 What makes you fall for a guy?

2 Would you still stay with a guy you love but his sex game aint strong?

3 How do you think is the best way to satisfy a girl?

Cc:Twaci,Optional1,Laveda safarigirl and others[/color]

whizqueen:
Jeffrey tagged me on the thread. Lol. Let's see

1. Why do guys steer clear off intelligent and smart ladies? I mean men finds it hard approaching a woman with higher IQ for a relationship. Why is that?

2. Why are guys so quick to tag a lady that wants a successful guy for herself "gold digger"? After working so hard do you expect me to open my eyes wide open and walk into poverty?

3. Where has the guys confidence gone to? The moment a lady does well financially guys run from her. Unless the guy is around to some gold digging purpose , a rich lady finds it hard finding true love. Why?

4. Why do guys brag about their sexual prowess? It could be a skill to you. But there are much more important things to brag about than sex

Please answers!

Mediapace:
Thanks,you are the most helpful :
Twaci
optional1
Laveda

One more question :
*How do you feel when these categories of Men you'rent dating or gat any relationship with him seees your unclad ?
*A MAN THAT Bumped into your room without knocking,he knowingly did it
*A MAN THAT PEEPs when taking your bath
*A MAN That walked up to you in a bathroom not knowing you're there,probably you forgot to lock the door
*A MAN WALKING ON HIS OWN,AND YOU COMING OUT OF BATHROOM YOUR TOWEL ACCIDENTALY DROPPED

WHhat will be your reactions with those categories of men mentioned above?

Dejideji1:
This ur response is very disturbing and misleading. Another lady on this thread posted a similar comment. What are you insinuating? Are you encouraging guys to be promiscuous? This is sending out a wrong message to the virgins amongst us. This is a very bad response coming from you girls.

RoyalBlak007:
How cum prettythicksme....naughtynaughty...laveda...sinaj...

[color=#AB56BA]ain't on seat to take up questions layed down? [/color]

Mediapace:
Lemme know them ladies now,time to ask my own questions :

*Is it possible for a lady to love a man she had never met before ?

*How do you ladies cope with a virgin Man during wedding night? And Do you like it when a Man is a virgin i.e. Has no experience about sex likewise you during honeymoon?

*Ladies how do you feel when a man break up relationship with you cos you aren't busty &but-ty?

*Can you date man that is not that handsome to your taste ?

Cc
ishilove
twaci
optional1
Lav eda

vizkiz:
I hope you are good tonight?

vizkiz:
"according to the way things work" guys do the approaching but a lady coming to me asking for a relationship is not something to rush in neither overlook...because it really takes guts and conviction for her to step up and voice out her mind.

No I wouldn't see her as desperate but like I mentioned earlier, I will not rush into her relationship. Will wanna try and study who she really is and why she really took that step. It might probably be because she needs a rebound relationship... Ladies are tricky you know

vizkiz:
1. There is absolutely nothing wrong opening up to someone you have a crush on...it shows how mature you are BUT it still bill down to the guy's mentality

2. They only do that to get the Cookie

3. Yeah we do... Actually we yearn for true love

humilitypays:
No. 1: don't tell a guy directly that u want him to be your boyfriend, but u can indirectly lure him into asking u out, but don't ever be the one to ask him out directly; it doesn't always end well. It may work with some matured guys, but it's not a good practice. Give him enough green lights and lure him into doing the wooing himself.

2. They just want to catch fun or fling with u.

3. Majority of guys don't believe in true love; guys believe more in attraction and compatibility.

chigoizie7:
1. Yes, but every guy will always say yes, weda they like u or not, as long as u will open legs for them, they will accept it, but will not have any feelings for u.

2. From my no1. U will attest to the fact that men love sex so much, they can work so hard to make money, and spend such money on a lady just to have sex with her, @least this has shown u how much they value sex(its natural). Now, to answer ur question.

Would u have allowed me to have sex with u if I just walked up to u and say, " hey, laveda, I like ur sexy and beautiful skin, please can I have sex with u?" I know u will call me all sorts of name. Now, men knew that he will get the sex from u, but, he has to go the polite way, but in that polite way, ladies still do their initial gra gra thing, it's more like a game, u keep playing, keep mumuing until u get that thing u want.

When a guy loves u, he can be in the same room with u for 1month without having sex with u, but will always be fulfilled and happy for just being around u.


3. Yes, the same way, some girls don't even believe in love. For every guy who doesn't believe in true love, he has been broken b4, same as girls, so it is not a gender based stuff.

RexKexMilann:
Alright. Thank you.


A guy asks you out, deep down you know he's just after the cookie but you yield to his pressure all the same. What stops you from resisting? What makes you think he's going to treat you better than the rest? Or is it just a trial and error thingy?.

RexKexMilann:
Do ladies desire sex as much as men do? & even more?

zicoraads:
As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.

Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb?

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Okay safarigirl let's start with this.

What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?

Is it really necessary?

If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.

cc:

Other girls who would like to answer.[/color]

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Nothing like being a fúck boy sister. If you've both got the flame then set the roof on fire.

No time! [/color]

Cutehector:
Fourth Question

When a girl visits a guy in his house/lodge and they are just new in dating, is it appropriate for the guy to initiate any form of intimacy

or is it advisable for him to be patient enough until when she is very much confortable with him so as to avoid any form of awkward moments

Twaci:
Ok dear

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]Ladies, when does giving attention to a girl turn to stalking?[/color]

Twaci:
La veda

ELYMAXiimus:
Haba, I wasn't laughing at you. Rather, I was laughing with you. You've got humour.

Keep it coming. I see a lyricist in you. (no pun intended o. Make maverick no go dey dream)

tempem:
when I saw vote... I was quite sure the next thing I'll see is Lanicky.

fairlyusedpant:
your face looks familarity, are you the one i saw at yaba market trying to buy fairly used pant?

vizkiz:
yeah...what about you? Preparing for lectures?

vizkiz:
was up almost all night...

vizkiz:
Good morning baby, how was your night?