olihilistic:

I need airtime too Lave.

You got before nah.

Sheun001:
Someone Should reason me mtn airtime abeg

DM your number

Chuksemi:


Hello Miss Veda, How are you?

I am fine. Hope you are too?

Someone giving this out, if interested hit me up.

Ghanaians only tho.

mrstheo:
Here are the cloths I want to give out. My location is Lagos, yaba

They are nice God bless you.

olihilistic:


Leve...
you done vex already....
someone can't play with you?
you know I am not in the same environment with you.

Lol. I'm not angry, only said I don't have that to give

olihilistic:

Those succulent bobs will just relax on my chest for 10-60 minutes how about that ?
isn't that a Christmas give away?

I don't have that to give, sorry.

olihilistic:

I need a hug from you.

sleekyskillz:
OP, are we allowed to give out our fone no? like u said notin is too small

If anyone wants it.

Happy Sunday everyone.

Nothing is too small, go to your bags, there's definitely something you'd like to give out.

Please, we need givers too, not just receivers. You can give out airtime as well.

sammysammy111:
I love Dis concept, re we to start posting our gifts ?

No, you'll post it on Sunday.

RoyalBlak007:



Ok but am I still

getting that Zara shirt?

Come back on Sunday.

RoyalBlak007:



Oya that rolex

You promised me

Don't disgrace me in public please.

KushyKush:


Hey baby. What's up?

So you want go give out condoms?

KushyKush:


Since we are giving out stuffs i hope condoms wouldn't be a bad idea.
This weather can be something else you know

Royalblak

Where's you?

Mayorsholly:
Am I the only one seeing this fake Smile

Smile decoder, we've seen you.

zicoraads:

SMH! We all know how long you've been ignoring me

Be like Bibi, who knows

We both know you're a player. I'll pass.

zicoraads:

You see what i have been telling you?

What have you been telling me? I can't see nothing.

Wow!

Congratulations Bibijay123.. May your home be filled with love and happiness.

Lol

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kennygee:


Its true that not everyone is born with perky boobs. But you also have to be wise about its packaging. Some pple know that they are not blessed with perky boobs, yet na them wan dey show the whole world their package.

It has to do with being comfortable in your own skin.
Don't praise the ones with perky boobs who show off their breasts, then body shame the ones who also show off their saggy boobs.

If you're for decency then fine, if you're not then no need talking down on one.

Well she's beautiful, smart, what else? It's nature and not everyone was born with a very perky boobs, y'all men and women better stop body shaming people. There's more to a woman than just her boobs, besides it was meant to breast feed babies and not old men.

Your body shouldn't define you. Be proud of every curve

She must be under a spell.

zicoraads:

Difficult, but do-able. Even animals have self control. Not to talk about humans.

Lol. I hope they change

zicoraads:
See why I didn't like the conversation of asking what took her to his house?

To me, it was an irrelevant question. Asking those questions detracts from the real conversation. The fact that a lady spent the night in a guy's house isn't license for anyone to force themselves on her. Boyfriend or not.

My only concern was the 'head' part. Even though it seems she already started pushing him away then.

In any case, I'm happy he has sued. I pray this case gets to the courts. We need to put to bed what constitutes consent and when a lady will be said to have been forced. Sleeping in a guy's house or not.

Right!

If it gets to court, the issue will shed more light on this rape issue.

But even in all these, we women still need to be careful and not just deliberately lead men on, sometimes it's very very hard to control one's self when it has gotten to a certain point.

Following the ongoing rape saga, Nigerian author Elnathan John has come out to address the issue of sexual consent using this analogy, read below.

[b]"Seeing some disturbing tweets on my TL. Rape doesn't have to be violent. Rape can happen AFTER one has given consent for an act of intimacy & not another (for e.g.: I only want to cuddle. I don't want to have sex. Or, I don't want anal. Or, I just want to kiss. No penetration.)

Also, "what were you doing in X's bedroom" is a stupid, unhelpful reaction to "X raped me".
You can be raped by your lover, your spouse, your friend, your sibling, your relative.

How to know when the next step will be rape (just a few examples):
1. Someone has said any of the following:
-stop
-no
-not now
-I don't like it
-it hurts
-I want to leave

2. Someone is clearly refusing to participate in the activity
3. Someone pushes you away

Things that are totally IRRELEVANT in wondering if it is rape or not:
-They allowed be have sex with them before
-They allowed me to touch them just now
-They spent the night at my house
-They slept in the same bed as me
-They wore revealing clothing
-They didn't scream or fight

Imagine this conversation with a waiter:
Waiter: Glad you chose this restaurant, would you like our Tiramisu?
You: No I am happy with my meal thanks
W: I mean, you came to our restaurant. Why come if you don't want Tiramisu?
You: I am fine really.
W: Ok, just the tip of the spoon

You: *baffled as waiter pushes teaspoon with Tiramisu into your mouth*
W: See I told you you'd love our Tiramisu
You: You just forced me to eat your Tiramisu
W: Nah. You walked in here. If you hated it, why didn't you scream? Look at your belt, unfastened, shows you wanted more.

Afterward...
You: *speaks to a policeman about incident*
P: What were you doing when the waiter was pushing the teaspoon into your mouth
You: I was stunned.
P: And you just sat there? Didn't scream or anything?
You: Huh?
P: Why were you there even? Thought you had a kitchen.

You: I like the restaurant. I wanted to eat out.
P: So why are you complaining about the Tiramisu
You: I didn't go there for Tiramisu. I already had my meal. Waiter forced it on me.
P: So you ate their meal but now complain about the Tiramisu. Is it that it tasted bad?[/b]

Share your thoughts!

More here;
http://orjisblog.com.ng/2017/11/30/rape-beg-nigerian-author-elnathan-john-addreses-sexual-consent-using-this-analogy/?

Kingofrudy:
Stop Risking your lives for nothing. Going abroad does not guarantee you success in life. Money doesn't grow on trees in Europe, you work for it. There are people making it without leaving the shores of Nigeria. Find something you're passionate about and improve yourself or perhaps learn a skill to earn a living. This mentality of traveling by force must be eradicated. The only legitimate way to Europe is through a visa if you can afford it. The Libyans did not come to Nigeria to pick slaves, you risked your lives for nothing. Remain in Nigeria if you can't afford air travel. God bless naija

Well said.

Smh.

Misplaced priorities.

No be secondary school uniform that boy wear so?

Congratulations Bibijay123.

May your marriage be fruitful and filled with happiness.