Papiikush:
.

Well, it's not so for every girl out there.

kazyhm:



......and if the girl is guilty ?

Same punishment should be mounted on her.

Papiikush:

No baby. We are not going to rush until our wedding night



If a lady is saying no, I can't ask for a Mouth Action Abeg... That was how one girl bite off brother wasiu's preeek

Fear fear, then leave her alone.

makydebbie:



I'm forced to think you're the lady sef. She's a student and she's hoeing around abi?

She accused a guy of rape and he shouldn't take legal actions to defend himself? Do you know what will happen to his reputation because a girl couldn't sit her ass down but was prick hopping?

Lol. Be nice biko.

Forget the fact she went to that guys house, if he raped her truly we have to say it's very bad.

If she has evidence, let her come out with it and if this guy is found guilty, he'll go to jail. You can't just rape a woman because she visited you and decide to spend the night.

Rape is bad, let's condemn it, except this guy is found not guilty.

Papiikush:

I am vexing in this matter. If you see the rubbish one idiot was saying on whatsapp ehn... She said

"No is No, she might have liked the MouthAction but no penetration. The guy should respect the boundaries"

After I have given you head, I mean my precious head you are now taking about boundaries. Koni dafun boundaries

If you give her hêad and she says no, request for blõwjob. It's your right.

Papiikush:

Drop it like its hot!

Remember few days ago, a lady shared a story of how she was raped when she visited a young man for the first time at night, well the accused has just taken the matter to a whole different level, he took to his twitter and instagram page to share this.

He wrote
"The undue hardship I have faced in the past few days is unbearable. False allegations of sexual misconduct is now used as a weapon to destroy lives.

I have never faced so much hate and ridicule in my life. I am deeply traumatised and have lost my peace of mind and opportunities to earn a living off a business I have built with my sweat, tears and blood.

I will stop at nothing to establish my innocence. I refuse to apologise for a crime I did not commit. I have never raped anyone and I have always advocated against sexual crimes and misconduct.

My petition has been submitted to law enforcement authorities, and I believe that justice will be done at the end of the day."

More here;
http://orjisblog.com.ng/2017/11/28/unilagolodo-the-man-who-was-accused-of-rape-takes-up-legal-action/


See earlier thread where he was accused by the lady https://www.nairaland.com/4198576/unilag-girl-recounts-rape-beg

safarigirl:
she is not innocent at all.

Anyway, she's a single woman, she owes no one any explanation as to who is oiling her engine as long as the man is not borrowing their money to spend on her.

I think people just feel betrayed because all this time some genuinely thought she was a hard-working woman spending what she sweat for, it's a bit disappointing for many, especially feminists, that one of their shining examples is being sponsored by the same men she supposedly conquered.

True. √√

romeorailss:
[/b]no

Madam, in the court of law if I be the lawyer of the guy. I will ask her
[b]
1. How long have u known him?

Of course in a short while, from her narrative

2[b]. Have you ever visited him at home?[/b] No


3. What was your mission in his house that particular night ?

4. Were you both planning a vigil? Why come sleep over in the house of a guy you just met not quite long?

5. Did he come to pick you at home? No. I went to his house

6. Did you say he paid for the Uber ride and got u Pizzas in a nearby eatery? ... Yes

" wow, shows he must be a very caring and gentle guy "

7. So which means you weren't forced to come sleep over with him in his house?

This clearly shows she had sexual intentions too my Lord.

8. When you didn't give consent and he persisted, what did you do?

9 . You didn't scream or attack him on grounds of sexual assault? No

10. You didn't bite him? No

11. When did this happen, what date precisely?

12. Why are you just bringing this up now?




Gbagbe, this girl no even get story at all. As I will tell the judge, the agreement between the was a one night stand . Which went smoothly as planned. It all changed after some months when she startedaking inordinate demands from my client which he didn't subscribe to and then she resorted to a cheap blackmail

She will be fined , I tell u.




On a more serious note, if you Laveda plan to visit me overnight, you should have it in mind that I would have sharpened my pencil for a hot job overnight. Would get a dozen of condoms and be ready for the match. If I don't make any advance towards you ony bed you will hate me because you really wanted it so bad, that was why you came for it overnight

Well said.

But your last line, not happening.

obailala:


Wait wait wait! You have a boyfriend, yet you wilfully embark on a trip to another guy's house on the Island, with the intention of sleeping not just in the same house, but in the same room and on the same bed with him. You then go further to take off your jeans and put on a sexy short, and then proceed to sleep on the same bed with a guy who isn't your BF?

I don't ever get to say this nor blame girls in situations like this, but in this case, the girl is clearly the architect of her own predicaments; she's either a slut (who had intentions of eventually cheating on her BF with this very dude), or she's just plain stupid. I only pity the person she calls her BF.

As for the rapist anyway, that is what he is, 'a rapist'. But strangely and sadly enough, a majority of Nigerian guys are guilty of this very sort of date-rape; a lot of guys talk about how "it was a battle for hours" before they could get the choco, not knowing it's actually a form of rape. At the end, our society doesnt accept it as rape, cos the case always ends with why the girl used her legs to go to a guys one-room house when she was meant to be in school, and of course the girl keep shut. FUnny enough, I've seen this happen several times and weirdly, the girl eventually goes back to the guy for more.

Same thing I'm saying, girls should learn how to avoid these things, he's a stranger, one she hasn't trusted yet.
I think she would have gone during the day and not sleep over, girls shouldn't make themselves vulnerable to rape.

In a country like Nigeria where rape is justified, one has to be very very careful.

Tho, her story doesn't measure up.

romeorailss:


U can twist it which ever way u like it. How funny, .

U got a bf, and u going for a vigil in a random guys abode, fully aware he is all alone. Of course this must be a guy that must have been playing his cards just the way guys do. U gladly accept his invitation to come over for the first time and sleep over in his apartment?

Madam are u going there for holy communion or combined service or u must spemd the night in his house to show him u are a good friend

Can we live the part of she having a boyfriend? What if she was single, how will you back up your argument?

romeorailss:


Never u blame the guy at all. it's like walking with ur feet into the lion's den.

What was she expecting. Politicians React To Atiku’s Defection To PDP even had a bf and went to sleep over in a guy's house. That's what guys on Britain's refer to as Oloshoooo

Abeg who get that Lil Wayne pics of olosho dia

@The emboldened.

Safe to say we should beware of men cause they are potential rapists?

Randy91:



u r d one that's nt well....

she was served wat she deserved!!

She was being sarcastic.

zicoraads:

Of course not. And you know this. But, it's time ladies also realise everyone is not the same. If brother A has no qualms with your lying down nakéd on his bed, brother B has no such self control. In as much as I don't victim blame when cases of rape are mentioned, the Nigerian man is not the British or American man.

And if (God forbid) any of my daughter gets raped while visiting any man overnight, I'll take that man to hell and leave him there. But I'll also not take it lightly with my daughter for not realising the fact that she needs to be extra careful when dealing with men.

All these just boils down to women being very very cautious, I think yes is the answer to my question.

zicoraads:

You are on your own. Bye

Lol. Tell me

But with the comments here, is it safe to say men are potential ràpists?

zicoraads:

It's even not about having a boyfriend or not. Having a boyfriend or a girlfriend is not why we are having this talk. The point of this is: was there consent or not?

Lol. We have to take note of everything.

The fact she received without trying to stop him is really what I don't understand, the whole oral thing shouldn't have taken place at all to start with.

naijaboiy:

If you stay in your house you wouldn’t be arguing consent and all what not.

You have a boyfriend and you carry your stanky legs and itchy vagina to spend the night at a stranger’s house that you don’t even know his history. What was she expecting to happen?

She may have been actually raped, whether subtly or directly. It doesn’t eliminate the stüpidity and naïvety of such a girl.

Because of free wi-fi and free food see what young girls are putting themselves through. And in her parents mind their child is in school not knowing she’s collecting dick because of free wi-fi and pizza.

If you can not control your urge to always flock around men and eat off of them don’t expect the randy ones to have mercy on you when they want to eat their cake. It’s that simple.

Only foolish girls come up with this kind of story to whip up sympathy and sentiments from their folks after actually Fücking up!

You have a boyfriend and you still went to sleep over.

What for? And someone will say she shouldn't be blamed cause there was no consent.

lenghtinny:
I'm not mad at the olodo boy or the girl for her stupidity but the boyfriend needs to be shot if he accepts her back when he should playing Anne Marie's Ciao adios, I'm done for her.

Imagine letting a guy that you don't know his sexual history Bleep you raw without protection. That's how these so called girlfriends goes about getting stds and now infecting their poor boyfriends who no send them work ....

The boyfriend needed to know.

JeffreyJamez:



If we are to go by the Dictionary meaning of Consent, the moment she allowed hm take of her shorts, that was when she consented to his wish. So y'all should cut that "No consent" crap out biko.

Lol. According to some people, rapists give heäd to smoothen the process.

I'm only trying to be nice

RareKind:
going to spend a fucking whole night at his place puts the highest blame on her.... Isn't her boyfriend available?


I hate this issue you ladies can't understand! Being just a friend with a guy just isn't cool... You may be thinking nothing sexual since you're both "just friends" but believe me, he's fantasized most times how it would look like when fucking you...

The earlier you ladies work this out, the better!

I understand perfectly, if you read all my comments, I said she's got her own part of the blame.

That she slept over didn't mean he should rape, but the story she gave didn't just makeup for all these.

Like some girls will say, even if you dress in a very provocative manner, you shouldn't be raped, they forget these are the things that triggers rape.

No, I'm not justifying rape, but when you find yourself in a society like ours, one has to be very cautious.

Papiikush:


My people don find me reach IG. A lady in my whatsapp is already fighting me for my comment on IG

You deserve to be fought.

lenghtinny:
Whores everywhere ....
Sleeping overnight at a guy's place and you expect him to be keeping watch over you as the night watchman wey hin be.
You put yourself in that situation. You knew sh*t was likely to go down whether he's sane or not, that's why you gave in to him in the first stage

Don't call her a whõre yet, the guy got his share of the blame for not heeding to NO!

Papiikush:


Were you there to know she didn't accept it.

Listening and judging a scenario based on one side of the story is baseless.

As it seems you all feminist wanna be are already falling for the trick

I guess we should pause with the slût shaming until we hear from the guy then.

LadyGoddiva:
A victim of rape should never be blamed. No matter what. Because when you say “She shouldn’t have gone to a guy’s house in the first place”’ you’re simply saying that men have no kind self control whatsoever and they’d simply have sex whenever and with whomever they want to, whether the girl wants to or not. We really need to break free from that mentality. Even if she struts around his house naked, he should be able to control his lust and not touch the girl. They had a prior agreement as mature adults not to do anything sexual. She kept her part of the agreement but the randy pervert of a man didn’t. I was so devastated by the comments I read yesterday on Instablog, especially the ones coming from fellow ladies. Are we now trying to exonerate rapists? So men are now animals that we girls have to be extremely cautious around and not give any kind of misleading signs to because they could decide to attack and they’d be justified to do so?

This particular story, there are just two any things wrong with it, and yes we should be cautious of some men.

That is the sad truth.

LadyGoddiva:
I cannot even believe the comments I’m reading here. Like are you fuckiñg shitting me?? Even from fellow ladies too?
Things is, Nigerians are too close minded and backward thinking. A lot of things can constitute as rape. It’s not only when a random guy abducts you and forcefully has sex with you while you scream and fight back can be considered as rape. The basic thing that defines rape is CONSENT! Whether she was wearing only her panties in the man’s bed, even if she was twerking naked for him, as long as she said NO, then he had no right to try and perform any sexual activities on her.
And since when did agreeing to cuddle him automatically imply consent to have sex with him? He even went on to give her orals and strip her. Thing is, even if she may not have fought back, bottom line is, she didn’t want sex to happen. And he went on and did what he wanted anyway. That’s a more subtle kind of rape.
Nigerians really need reonrientation of their mindset when it comes to the issue of rape. I’m seeing a lot of bs comments like “why would she go to a guy’s house when it’s not her boyfriend” and “why would she wear only shorts in his bed and why would she sleep on the Same bed with him?” The thing is, irrespective of the circumstance surrounding the story, she didn’t give her consent and the man had sex with her against her wish. It wasn’t consensual sex thus, it can be classified as rape. Too bad she’s just speaking up now.

You've said well.

But the men of this generation are something else and we should learn to guard ourselves.

Rape can never be justified but we can as well try to avoid it, yes a girl is walking naked doesn't mean she should be raped.

But what will you be doing in a strangers house trying to pass the night over when you have a boyfriend? What happened to meeting during the day until you're comfortable with him. I know they already agreed to seeing without anything happening but I tell you my dear, these men are very predictable, don't even fall for all that.

But in all these, there was no consent, she was raped.

Papiikush:


Men are not dogs but if you are trying to lead a guy on, be ready to take that D.

I am sure she could have asked to sleep in the living room. That will be a message saying 'I ain't here for no dick"

What am I even saying sef, don't go around sleeping in men's houses. That shìt is bad, you don't know who he truly is. Nigga might be a Yahoo guy looking for his next' victim'

I get you, but going by what you just said. All men are potential rãpists.

I understand she's got her blames for going to a stranger's house at night and even agreeing to spend te night and not go with her friend or a trusted person, slept close to him on one bed and received hëad.

But we can't deny the fact that sex without consent is rape, as as she didn't accept to it, then it's rape.

LadyGoddiva:
Smh you guys shouldn’t know better than this.

Why did you modify nah?

Lalasticlala

Where are you?

Papiikush:


My ex is better than Jackie Chan whenever you want to touch her during her sleep time. Trust me bruh, if a lady doesn't hit anything on your head and she is "pushing you away" she get plans

Must she always be violent for you to know she doesn't want?

misspicy:

I'm serious, she is a slut, she got herself in that position,she even collected money for postinor

misspicy:

The girl just want to play victim, na ashewo she be
She receive head call am rape
She want to destroy the guy career ni.
In fact I heard the guy has reported to law agency, maybe na police I don't know.

Take your sarcasm out of here, I'm not falling for that.