It's a pity the youths can't think anymore!
It's all about hatred.
Have you asked yourself why the said ESN would remain in their hideout (the said hotel) when one of them was captured.
I just sincerely hope these are not innocent youths going about their businesses that they arrested and posted on social media.

illitrate: remove it. tell your hubby to commot him prick when him wan cumm or pushan comot when he don dey shout aaah eeeeh uuush

Although true, you have a very queer sense of humor.

You know these days, one doesn't know what these birth controls are made of. I was on iud as we have decided we were done and guess what? I just had a baby when I didn't plan and at a very trying time in our lives. I'm too scared now that I'm considering permanent measure.
@op, maybe you should consult with your doctor or try another type.

All the stories are sad indeed. I pray God consoles everyone that has lost a dear one.
Mine is my Mum. She died immediately after child birth aged 31. We felt it even though we were very young then because we were left to survive on our own with my Dad. Being married now, I even miss her more because I have to deal with child birth issues all by myself. No mum to come for omugwo things. Next month will be 23 yrs she departed this world and at the same time my due month. I keep thinking the difference it would have made if she were to be alive.
RIP Mum. You know I will keep making you proud. We will surely meet again. Love you dearly.

I don't usually comment on threads but will like to give you an advice based on my experience. My dad married my step mum 4 yrs after my mum passed away. I was about 13 then and our first daughter was 16. We didn't really want a step mum but since we wanted our Dad happy again, we accepted. As my Dad is very strict I would say we were very disciplined and respectful. We welcomed her(didn't call her mum though cos we didn't feel like), loved her and were at our best behavior whenever she was around but at the same time watching her(remember you'll be watched and all your actions will be interpreted by the children first). The first thing she did (which we noticed) was stopping our Dad from buying the cloth we wanted to wear for their wedding because they were expensive and "we were children". she said, they needed to save money for their wedding while buying expensive things for herself. She did some other odd behaviors which i would not mention and treated us like children of primary school age and our interests and opinions didn't matter. she would give us soured soup and made us work very hard, would report us to our Dad at little things and would call us names and even accused my younger brother of killing my mum but all these didn't really make us disrespect her until she started having issues with my Dad. We lost all respect for her when she started exchanging words with my Dad and calling him names right in front of us.

Like other people have commented, love the kids and respect there interests, remember before you know it, they will be grown up and look after you. My Dad started having problems because of her bad treatment to us and the more she treated us badly, the more our Dad is being drawn to us and further away from her(currently they are separated)
Communicate with the children, don't ignore them and respect their interests and opinions. Encourage their Dad to give them the best if he can afford it. Don't worry about yourself cos you will reap in the long run.
Involve them in home decisions like choosing what to eat, going to market with you, help them with school work and encourage them. I tell you they wouldn't want to disappoint you if they are well behaved.
Discipline them (explain why you are disciplining them and they will appreciate and apologize)and reward them for good performances. Please don't report them to their Dad all the time(only do it at extreme cases)
Make the girls your friends. The truth is, they need you more than you need them so don't let them down
Keep the family together by praying together.
I wish you well. Remain blessed.

slumdog millionaire
Those kids are sth else

Slumdog millionaire.
Those kids are something else