₦airaland Forum

ayourbamie:
You mentioned that she comes to you with a lot o demand, but you didn't say if you have been attending to them or not! If you have, RUN

If you haven't, she may be seeing you as a tightfisted person and that's why she's not doing a wife duty as a girlfriend she is still is.

I have been meeting some of them. But my energy is on the marriage events itself and which I have sat her down to explain but it seems she doesn't have that feelings for me.

Maeve7:
You have given a number of reasons why you have doubts. So why have you proposed to her and gone to see her parents if I may ask?

I felt am in love and overlooked her issues. But after proposing and going to see her people, that's when her demanding attitudes and stubborn insistence that my baby brother should leave started. It's becoming a horror to me now that she might not care about me. Even knowing that am currently jobless but am the hustling type as well and that I have been struggling hard to meet the demands of bride price and lists from her people and all the expenses to be made all alone on me, she's still making annoying demands and adding expenses I must make for her personally despite the fact that I have told her to pipe low her demands until the marriage is over considering that am the only one shouldering the expenses alone and am not expecting help from anywhere as no one is there to help me.

I have a fiance that I have already proposed to and we are planning on getting married this September. But I noticed that she won't let me touch her before marriage which I think she was just trying to maintain her standard. I also noticed that she doesn't like coming to my place to help me do anything. As a matter of fact, she has never helped me do anything in my house. She has never cooked for me in my house, she has never helped me clean the house, she has never washed my clothes etc. Rather, she stormed my house one very early morning and woke me up just to drag me that I have not been spending money the way she wants on her. I was pissed off and told her that she too has not been satisfied any of my expectations to determine whether she's a marriageable type. She kept quiet and gave me incognito mode for a whole month only for her to return back this time around to resume her attitude of demanding. My last born brother however has been living with me and does all those works for me and doesn't give me stress at all. Instead, she's insisting that when we get married she doesn't want him around in my house. I also noticed that she's doesn't want people around me. She wants herself alone to handle anyone she finds in my life like my family members, friends etc. I tested her one day by asking her for 1k to pay for sth urgent and she quickly knocked it off and diverted topic. I lost my job since last year August and has been doing tailoring job to survive and she's very much aware. Now, I notice that anytime she comes to my house, she comes with lists of demands she writes on paper I must do for her. Sometimes I might work late into the night just to meet my financial target and that's exactly when she wants to see me. And if I take longer time that night to see her, she gets angry and when I still see her that night, it's always fresh sets of demands.

My mind has been telling me a lot of things. But am confused whether it's just me thinking out of point or something else or am blind. I have made commitments towards settling down with her and have even seen her people. I don't know what to do especially on the fact that my people have given me ultimatum that I must marry a woman this year.

dubra:
This is a video of innoson newly built 30 tons trailer seen offloading fully loaded bags of cements,Nigeria is truly growing, the patronage is very very encouraging

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RaroQxQT_0Y?si=ANHU7hv6Nbd4EC_h

Ofcourse he's making Nigeria really proud.

Melagros:
COMRADES, there is this Nigerian artiste who always boasts a lot online that his father is wealthy, I forgot his name. Anytime he buys a shirt, a car, a property, wristwatch etc. He will triple the price online

Recently, he had an elaborative wedding in Lagos and his wife is from Imo State, I thought that this is the kind of expensive cow he would kill during the wedding

Jealousy will do you no good.

Kakamorufu:
even some tenants are using other tenants for occultic stuffs.. Wile the landlord is even innocent

Exactly. I have been experiencing this one.

Your pseudonym tells much about you and the background you are coming from. You are just one of those religious people trying to supplant worship for one god to another god. All of you are all just the same 🙄

Truly house buggling is becoming serious issues in Abuja and also one chance. People really need to have licensed guns to handle these mfcks

Balablue64:
Shey na dis ugly fat elephant, shai some men sha.

That her mouth go sabi suck pr*** shaaa

Parasite britain. Theirs is better but they will help decomposed walking dead animals who feel it's their turn to rig election and declare it credible. Thanks God Islam is taking over UK. I just pray the entire UK falls and are enslaved by jihadists in my life time.

Mazisimonekpa:

The Biafra government attention has been drawn to the mass killing of innocent Biafrans at Okigwe and dumping them in the river. They brought them with the truck and asked them to run inside the river with the driver as you can see in the video. The video showed the Nigeria… pic.twitter.com/VMMzGuBcYH

— Simon Ekpa (@simon_ekpa) June 4, 2024

Mazi Simon Ekpa
Prime Minister

Must you people drag Peter Obi into every rubbish? What concerns Peter Obi with the killings? Is he the "federal government" that sent those soldiers? You make urself meaningless and stupid whenever you drag innocent Peter Obi into every of your rubbish please.

Validated:
Reno is jobless. His last job was in 2014, that is 10 years ago. He thought Atiku was going to win 2023, but Obi took 60% of Atiku base. Now he has joined the same people he called druglord.
The same Igbos you castigate were the people who made Jonathan president and you got a job.
Your low thinking does not tell you that Igbos will NEVER support whoever you align with? They now see you as a rabble-,rouser, a senseless noise maker.
Do you not know that "SILENCE IS THE BEST ANSWER TO A FOOL"? Peter Obi has decided not to reply you because he knows you are a fool.

Reno, if you want job, come back and contest, even if it Councillorship. Of course you cannot win because you are neither a bona-fide Itsekiri that you try to claim, nor a bona-fide Urhobo that rejected your mother.

Omo this one enter ooooo. So they rejected him mama 😂😂😂😂😂. No wonder he behaves like a bastard. I wish he will see this ur post so make e pain am reach him bone marrow 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

Afamsi:
Why are they rejoicing,,did the snow also wash away their black complexion

At least it washed away their sins. The wickedness in this Nigeria is too much even the weather testifies.

Saturnalia:
Yes, I believe everything written in this article 100%.

They keep harping about Bill Gates being one of the the most generous Philanthropist in the World but majority of our Afrikans do not understand how the world works.

Bill Gates that his number one priority is to wipe off half of the Global Population - especially Afrikans.

My brother, it's so hurtful why a man that wants to wipe out more than half of the world, is left alive roaming the streets and idiots like Nigerian politicians are worshiping him like god

Facebook is a very useless app. I reported a page that promoted religious extremism Where someone put knife on another person's neck and told him to convert to his religion or he will kill him. The person out of fear converted and they started celebrating the convertion. I reported the video to Facebook and Facebook refused to do anything about the video. Rather, they responded back that the video was compliant with the community standard. I was shocked.
I saw another post where someone (a pro traditionalist) posted mischievous video against Christianity in general. I countered it with facts to point out the lies and mischief of the video. Facebook immediately closed my account and would not allow me log in to that account or any other account. I immediately realized that Facebook is set out for an agenda for evil. I too immediately deleted and uninstalled their app cus I have told myself that Facebook is evil and I don't EVER want to have anything to do with them.

99thEnemy:
Ajaero is inhumane.

So sick people who can’t afford private hospitals should die?

You are a tribal idiot. Did they shut down hospitals and police stations?

The OP is 💯% correct. More than 95% of Nigerians are dumb and have no freaking idea what is going on in the world, and what is coming for them.

chigoziri2403:
Why can't we get it right in food processing and storage

Are you one of the senseless people in this country that don't know that Tinibu and his freemason cult are working for their global agenda of one world government and the antichrist and their NWO where Lucifer is God, and they want to eliminate natural foods and substitute it for GMOs hence why they are creating this food crisis. They are already making it a crime for farmers to plant natural foods seeds. It must be their GMOs to poison the populace. Bill gates is the chief sponsor. He was also the bastard sponsoring Fulani militants to slaughter farmer during Buhari's time. Tinibu was shouting emilokun to his cult because they promised him that after Buhari it will be his turn to rule Nigeria and he even has to come down to Abuja to promise to them that he will start from where Buhari stops. Foolish Yoruba bigots carried it on their heads that it's their turn and he was talking on their behalves. They also want to eliminate fosil fuel vehicles from the roads and replace them with electric cars hence why he started by making fuel expensive yet he's still paying the fuel subsidies he lied he removed. With time, you will pay highly punitive taxes if you continue to run your fossil fuels vehicles. They want electric cars to ensure strict control of the populace so that if you criticize them, they will just log online and cause you accident and kill you.
But Nigerians are very very foolish. More than 95% of Nigerians have no fvcking idea what's happening in the world they live. Any one who has sense will do well to start preparing as WEF has posted it on their website that soon if you don't wear your RFID chip carrying your electronic identification and banking details, you can't buy or sell or operate normally in the society again.
Nigerian politicians are the worst on the entire planet earth. They started with Emefiele creating a cashless policy on us and fools believed it was targeted at Tinibu to prevent election buying. At the end of the day same they gave the Tinibu victory in platter of gold and they don't care about the will of the people. It's all about them vs the people but the people are foolish, playing into their games of tribal and religious divides.

It's well 😔

SalamRushdie:
He should immediately sack the whole cabinet and chose new one loyal only to him

Fubara needs to know the rivers state governor is a powerful man in Nigeria and he should fully imbibe that power and watch Wike run

As a matter of fact, he should team up with Amaechi, Peter Odili etc to frustrate Wike out of Rivers State. Wike has serious enemies in Rivers State and governor Fubara ought to unite them against Wike to ensure he doesn't succeed in his godfather almighty god intentions.

AuschwitzPrefec:
So how does this excuse Jews now using lawfare to censor and eventually banning the New Testament and Christianity in the US?

You people are irredeemable!

Oga stop making urself cheap to brainless propaganda. Did you even read the content of that paper uploaded? If you do, did you see anything in reference to Christianity or Bible there? Did you even see any where they wrote that Bible should be banned there or where they wrote they want to amend the Bible? All these gibberish emanated from the highlighted paragraph there. Do you know the people that have been pushing that narrative of Jews killing Jesus just to arouse anger and hatred against the Jews? No it's not christians. It's Shiite Muslims and the American woke pro Islam left. Muslims have been pushing that stereotype against Jews in the wake of the Hamas war against Israel just to push the christians to their side against the Jews. Make ur research and find out the truth for your self. Read between the lines and think outside the box to avoid having other people think for you.

Ezeama400:
The enemies of christians are not Jews..The enemies of christians are those killing and attacking christians unprovoked, the christians know their enemies and their enemies know themselves..

Thank you my brother. This is another cooked up propaganda against the Jews worldwide.

ayjay45:
Please advise my self esteem is dwindling by the day, I feel ashamed of myself everyday.

I am 26 years and broke, whenever I see a girl I like these days I don't do anything about them because I don't have money.

I'm scared of thinking how to make a relationship work without money.

And I'm also scared of being broke shamed by these ladies.
I wish I was born into a rich family like dangote or otedola.

Please advise me

Lolz. Na you dey find serious relationship.

Nursepepeye:
free IRAN Crew should prepare to cry blood, this long standing IRAN madness is ON for decades and its time to deal decisively with IRAN at once. God bless Isreal. American won't make mistakes of let IRAN threats slides.

Yes ooooo my brother

stuffs2002:
Was that why the Pandora criminal called Obi declared a religious war on Muslims in the last elections

Bia this Agbado muncher and transgendered emolicorn criminal supporter. Go and drink ur drug psychiatric were 😂

stuffs2002:
Was that why the Pandora criminal called Obi declared a religious war on Muslims in the last elections

Bia this Agbado muncher and transgendered emolicorn criminal supporter. Go and drink ur drug psychiatric were 😂

StOla:
You obviously do not know your rights.

So you can be forgiven for misconstruing a just cause as a frustration of a system that itself is the frustration that need to be expunged.

What do you know about rights? Even part 3 of your constitution of Nigeria prescribed certain social rights for the citizens but which are not enforceable in any court.