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Op, you're just carried away by looks. Maybe this new chic is prettier than your fiancee. I bet a part of you was happy when she broke up with you at first...
My advice leave her, go for the new chic, when your heart gets smashed, you'll pack the pieces.
You have all it takes to get her isn't it? You managed what you had when you were hustling oh, now money has come you're seeing fine girls. Men!!!

RadicallyBlunt:
If u've not had this kinda temptation b4, then u've been a boy not a man. Now u're facing a typical masculine challenge.

But nawa o, u and ya fiancee dey distant relationship and una dey fight, how e go be when una dey near? If she threaten to leave u, then she get anoda mountain be dat o, for this season weh husband scarce?

Abeg follow person weh go give u peace of mind. But are u sure she's not d reason why u're fighting ur fiancee?

Being in a distant relationship doesn't mean they wont fight or she is cheating.
He didn't complain of not having peace of mind and what's the assurance he's going to get peace of mind from someone he just saw?

AfroKnight:

Where was baby when I was spending good money in Quilox and the palms on his mother just so that she can smile? . Where was junior when I was enduring her drama just to be the gentleman she wants? What of the money spent on honeymoon? Now I don marry her finish one boy wan come collect my babe? What will happen to all my investment?

Really, I don't think guys get jealous of their children. It's the women who make a big deal about "focusing" on junior like say na dem go first born pikin for dis world.

Even if baby is sleeping, they will still find something to do just keep oga thirsty. Is that good?

Lmaooo. Look at this bush man...your never get enough gain from your investment? Infact, junior is the returns of the investment. Its just that bosom that junior has taken over that is paining you

hifaif1:
Thank God I chose to be a priest!!!

This priest again i hope you change your mind soon. Its not easy to stay celibate

Hannysmilez:
Nice hairdo. I'm in love with it already

Thanks darling

MARKone:
Who wouldn't be jealous...

Lmao...see them

Are you still asking? Ok, ask him about it and hear him out first...whatever he says, you should know what to do from there

Aguiyi13:
#smiles, I'd luv to hun. you, being a woman who knows her onions, together We can build an Empire. not the story of prince charming, the beauty and the castle; but a tale of Dukes n Duchesses.

*faints*

firstking01:
E
hen, you asked for recapituation na??

Smh

Arabiandude:
This is hilarious sweetheart.

How are you doing?

Lol, i'm ok. How was your day?

aameyah:
Really? Just hearing this ooo....

Lol, happy new year my sista

Aguiyi13:
Well Am different ; likewise My perspective as regards that. Really a thing of Joy seeing Mother n child all wrapped up inlove , Am the Man of the house, and Am gonna act like one, not some jealous Dad. Gonna show My wife n kids same amount of undiluted Love. A family should be indivisible no matter what .

Awww,marry me already!

firstking01:
I can have sex with you just for the pleasure of it but cnt make love with you cos i dnt love you

Lool, issit not dsame thing we are saying?

Sistem007:
Yea

I see why you can relate with the topic properly

firstking01:
So, you know finish huh

No. Oya explain

clickwtB:
ITS FUNNY RECENTLY A GAL I REGULARLY BLEEPED AND PAY.A SINGLE MOTHER OF ONE.ASK ME TO VISIT HER BUT DURING THE VISIT SHE INTRODUCED ME TO HER FRIEND AS A LOVER,BF &FUTURE HUSBAND AS MY RELIGION ALLOWS POLYGAMY.I WAS SHOCKED THOUGH GOD HAS BLESSED ME WITH SOME MANLY ATRIBUTES IE LONG D..&STRONG ARMS,GENTLE,WITTY ETC.BUT SHE PREVIOUSLY ALWAYS COLLECTS MY MONEY AND IF NOT ADEQUATE GETS VISIBLY ANGRY,CAN YOU BELIEVE IT

Lol, you feel she should stop collecting money now that she's having emotions?

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I experience this on a regular

Oche211:
i think i shld be d first...
I no go blame u. I shld blame dat guy who answers whn u call him "baby"...

I don't call him "baby" lool

Seductive terminator...hmm sounds dangerous

Sistem007:
#smiles...my dear it's not that easy o. Put urself in the man's shoe a bit. What if it's the man that got so attached to the baby that all he cares about is the baby and not ur well being anymore the way he used to? it's a two way thing anyways, just that it's more inclined to the males coz the mothers get to bond with the baby more than the men.

Are you married?

Oche211:
That means such a man is even a baby himself.
Baby jealous of a baby.

All men are babies



Watch them come for my head

DesChyko:
I wouldn't know how real this is. I think with a good knowledge of the roles each member of the family has to play, such scene should be non-existent.

That's the way it should be. But trust me the big babies are always jealous of the small babies

mineANDurs:
Because they themselves r babies too.
Its just two babies fighting for their mother's attention.





The difference is dat one of them is a shameless baby

Lmaooo i get that. Some even complain about their wives denying them access to her boobs ...saying its for the baby alone

Sistem007:
Yea it sounds funny but it happens so what's the solution? The woman should just try to strike the balance. Actually some women cause it when they make it so obvious that the man doesn't mean much anymore to her but the baby.

Striking that balance is the problem. Being a mother is very demanding task on its own...don't know why the men can't just chill a little . Your own baby fa

Sistem007:
Yea it sounds funny but it happens so what's the solution? The woman should just try to strike the balance. Actually some women cause it when they make it so obvious that the man doesn't mean much anymore to her but the baby.

Striking that balance is the problem. Being a mother is very demanding task on its own...don't know why the men can't just chill a little

Skryptchex:
Married men in the house....

Over to you....

Lemme park here...

No parking, No loitering, No waiting, No standing, No breathing

iykekelvins:
[color=#099999]I see no reason why a man should be jealous of his own baby

He's been receiving the care since before his baby came[/color]

True, but you know it happens yeah? My uncle was like that when his first baby came

As crazy as it sounds,some men are jealous of their own babies. Everybody knows a new baby requires constant care and attention for a while. My question is, who is really making you jealous: your wife, for been for so close with your baby? Or your baby for coming between you and your wife?

Is something hooking your throat?

Why do good guys end up with useless girls?

MRBrownJ:
the victim is the OP's friend "since they were young" yet doesnt know the details?! he/she is even willing to put up money for her, therefore he should know and give people all the important details, or ask her these questions since she has no access to NL.

the whole story makes no damn sense. is the father violent or they just want her to leave? and why only in Surulere, couldnt Ijebu Ode be a safe place for her too?! who asks for help but dictate where that help should come from?

The Op can't answer you the way her friend will. So, i feel you should contact the Op to get to her if you want to help.
Plus, they are young. Probably they want an area they are familiar with...but in this case, their choice doesn't matter. They have to make the available desirable