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skywalker240:
shame no go let me try am sef

Lool, bush man

AirSultan:
Hmmm

You can but you won't or you can't and you won't...where do you belong?

lilzcee:
what do women want to turn men into all because of romance, i won't do that, if u are too ashamed to carry our baby, then why should i be proud of you? Romantic my foot, i will carry my baby when my wife is not around

Smh. I don't even know what to tell you...i pray for your wife.

I saw a man and his wife the other day. She was backing a baby, carrying her bag in one hand, a small ghana must go in the other hand and her husband was walking empty handed beside her.
Is this the kind of man you are?

zeetyzin:
well, thats d reason a significant number of children find it easier to confide in their mums....there hadnt been any form of father-child connection right from infancy...
i mean, what in God's name is wrong with me carrying my own child!...My pikin o!!!.
Haba!.
ill be carrying my child when i eventually have one...Itll create that connection btwn father and child....Front strap, back strap, neck strap, head strap...Any style...
Call me effeminate or watever, i dont care...Im not d cause of ur dumbness....
I love kids.

Honestly, i am surprised with the excuses guys are giving for not carrying their own child. What's your business with how anybody sees you

Thumbs up

talk2alabama:
u see. U are laffin at him for bein romantic. Dats how ladies too do laff at men who carry babies tying wrapper to dem

I'm not laffin at him for being romantic... i'm laffin because of the ice cream and sales girl

firstking01:
All thes social networks are contained in a phone miss op...she can even travel with my phone if she choses to.

She doesn't need your phone to access them if she wants to

ronald4lif:
She need to first have access to my phones and gadgets before we can talk about invading my social media accounts. It's a very private thing to me and no one has access to them. I, too, don't care to have access to hers or anyone's phones and their SM accounts. It's none of my business, really.

And often times they think you don't love and care enough about them if you don't act jealous. One thing I've managed to overcome in my relationship is displaying jealousy. I never make it obvious even if I'm jealous.

A little jealousy is healthy in a relationship

firstking01:
How can your spouse not have access to your phone?...what is it you kept inside there that he/she cnt see?....and the both of you claim "i love you"...mtcheeews.

Not phone oga. Your twitter, fb, Nl, and the rest of them

ActOfWar:
Huh! And the soft hearted Layla is angry!! Everyword u used up there reeks of goodness and softness
you can't hide nature's gift, u don't wanna engage me, do u? Obviously I am doing this "the Z-A way not the A-Z way", my point is this, u offended me by not replying my mentions gentle girl(who gives a hoot if u dont, like u actually don't know me so why would u think of replying me), and I am not demanding for an apology or something, I just need ya to accept the fact dt u did ignore me and do d needful

Goodnight

slyIsaac:
Watchu still doing up?

Nothing. Just fooling around

slyIsaac:
It aint right....

I don't know what aint right but it aint...
No body should quote me o...

Smh

alexistaiwo:
amebo op. u don carry ur real life gossip attitude come social media. wetin concern u?
must u open thread?
aporoko

Lol, which life i for carry come social media before?

ActOfWar:
So u see this as a way of trying to spring up a trouble That was me being calm though, if u go through ur mentions u ll get answers, sadly u wouldn't do dt cause of d handful mentions u get here(maybe dts why u acting dz way) By the way, could u pls stop seeing me as d kinda person my moniker depicts??

Did you go through all you typed there before submitting? Do you even know me enough to come up with stuffs like that?

I don't know you and i don't care how you see me...i respect people here and if that is not enough for you, there's nothing i can do. Like you said, you have better things to do than "chyking" a lady so go ahead and continue with them.

HappyCreative:
People do whatever is comfortable and right for them; I don't understand why some people are so judgmental over trivial things. People saying 'what is the woman supposed to carry?' Well, what is the man supposed to carry if he didn't carry the child? It's his baby too!

I'm weak. They said carrying their child is a western lifestyle

ActOfWar:

Girl, It seems hard to believe the fact that you are ignoring my mentions because I called u ugly like you know you are not ugly nd u know I was joking, for God's sake, why would I do dt?? just to spite u! Girl, I am nothing but respectful even if u were ugly, why would u ignore the one that called u that! Definitely u can't embrace ur flaws and make dem part of u just grow up already

This is not ur first time not ur second time and not even ur third time of doing this, I find it hard to wrap my head around the reason why u keep ignoring me Is it because I once asked u to my pm because I don't seem to throw my self on u. Get this girl! Yes I like you BUT not to the extent of chyking you Got better things on mind, I see a girl with promising manners hence I decided to give u some attention,anything wrong with that ???

Cc layla129

What mentions are you talking about? To the best of my knowledge, i reply my mentions well. who cares about the "ugly" comment? What are you talking about? Are you referring to me with all these?

I have no idea what this is about. Maintain your lane and i'll continue to be on mine as usual...i don't want no trouble please.

You shouldn't have led him on for nothing. Now, you feel you don't love him because you have him in your palms but i can bet it with you that you will start getting jealous once he moves on with another lady and pay you less or no attention at all...then you'll want him.

Love doesn't just jump on people most of the time. It's a gradual process. You like him already, that is a good start if you ask me. Give him a trial

Lmaooo ...take heart

faith551:
I will comment once i come down from this pineapple tree

Goodluck, you'll jump down when a snake shows up

Stanleywaxy:
Just on Tuesday last week , I was carrying my little cousin who was just 7months to go pick up the senior one from school .
The kind of glances people took at me was embarrassing tbh , and most of them were Ladies .
I told the Mum about it and she said she knew that such thing would happen .
Mennn ... Since then , I never carry my Little fellow come outside again o

I'm sure some of them didn't look at you to spite you or anything...they were just surprised and admiring you. It's not something we see everyday here so you should expect the stare.

I mean, i stared at that man in the mall for a long time.

kiddoiLL:
Op go and listen to ketekete by Sir Ebenezer Obey...am sure you know the story...you are talking about this and you know your country people..if a guy ends up doing this..its still fellow ladies like you that will bash him and say them don lock am put for cage troway key... must we adapt EVERY western lifestyle?

I know the song and it was talking about how it's difficult to please people...that is why you shouldn't listen to what everyone says. Do what you want to do as long as it's legal and makes you fulfilled.

I'm not saying we should copy every western lifestyle but the excuses guys are giving are flimsy. Someone just said it's not his style which is more acceptable than the excuse of what people will say

postmann:
It's just a matter of prefrence for the men this side of the globe. Nothing special about it.

I find it odd strapping even my own child to my chest. It doesn't agree with my style. Just like a big bible doesn't flow with my style on a Sunday on my way to church even though I have to park in the car lot and take a few strides to the church hall.
I'll rather carry the baby the normal way men carry their baby.

Don't cry about it.

Lol, cry
It's not your style, fine but people just can't do it because of what people will say...not because its not their style

talk2alabama:
Layla129, it's a very normal thing for ladies to bash a guy carrying his baby on him strapped on while his woman just walks beside him carrying nothing...

If i get you correctly, she must be carrying something else before you can carry your baby because of what other ladies will say?

Saw a couple in a mall last week, the man was carrying his baby in a Baby Carrier strapped to his chest while the wife just had her handbag. Now, i know this is a normal day to day experience in the Western World but it's not really a common thing in this part of the World.
To be clear, i'm not talking about just carrying your baby but carrying him/her with a Carrier strapped to your body.

I asked some guys this question and i got responses like never! " what will she be carrying then?" " its her responsibility to carry the baby" and bla bla. Even a popular OAP said he couldn't.
Only Bae and another friend said it was no biggie and that they have done it even for babies that weren't theirs.
This gesture is very romantic if you ask me.

Are our guys too Egotistical, Shy, or Proud to strap their babies on

Lool, that your friend needs help...they are ugly but he can sleep with them.

Op, leave him...it's his life. If he refuses to listen, what can you do?

SirWere:
Another cooked up story..


Let's hope the Gods will accept it

You feel a person cannot be experiencing this or what?

400billionman:
Nigerian girls greedy die.

If you spend N30k on a lady today, next week she will demand N70k.

It has happened to me. You wan kill the guy ?

Better place her on a weekly allowance if she will accept to be loyal. Say N3k to N5k per week.

Lool, thanks for the generosity

She is shy about what happened that's all

I continued to run away from him whenever i see him after his friend delivered his love letter to me

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