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MRBrownJ:
pls stop beating around the bushes and speak concretely about the issues...
- what are these "frustrations" you are talking about?
- if these frustrations were "that" bad, to the point that she decided to leave, then why did she go back there?
- or better yet, why did this "supposedly" evil dad accepted her back?
- since this lady is broke, how will she feed herself, transport or care for her daily needs while squatting?
- what are her life plans apart from squatting at other people's place?
- all the other GROWN UP children of the family are squatting with other people!?!?!?!?!?

Easy now. I think only the victim alone can answer all these questions you're asking

EastanPower:
Dear Layla,

These your questions these days sha.

True, men get jealous sometimes because it is difficult to discover that your wife doesn't really have time for you anymore.

Once a woman has a baby themn all her life revolves around the baby. This in itself is not bad but it is good to try and strike a balance as much as possible.

Even when you approach her at night she will tell you that she is very tired that she needs to rest meanwhile once the baby cries out meauu, meauu, the same woman that just told you how tired she is will get up and begin to attend to the baby and the man is watching and wondering, "Is this not the woman that just told me that she is so tired that the whole world is falling on her? Where did the strength suddenly come from?"

The worst part is that they deny you sucking booby which you used to enjoy before baby came, they say it is for baby not for you.

Layla, please talk to me.

Lmao! The meauu, meauu part really got me laughing hard.Is that how babies cry?
Are you married? Because i can see you can relate well with the topic.

deliveryboy:
You have won. Make we rest.

Lool, thank you...now i shall rest

youngaz:
Eeehhmmmm (clears throat) is anyone ave a baby here....it iz a thread dat iz wanting ur attention ooo b coming nd b saw.......





Lala hope say u iz nt born pikin yet

Answer for the future...even if you don't have one now

onstelly:
Hahaha
You can say that again

Lool

charlsecy:
Lies! He jumped fence and escaped...

Lool, narrator

Oh, the church determines your happiness now? Let me guess....are you Catholic?

silent10:
Chai, am embarrassed wit d way u ppl think. D man neva saw it cmin. For God's sake i can hold a gallon with fuel in it, open d gate & splash d fuel on u while u re stil standin, bt u dnt xpect d man 2 stay after den, dat's y he ran.

He ran when she went to get a match stick or something. So if she had a match stick with her there, he could have stayed till she lighted it isn't it?

victorazy:
Nawa for una o! The story say "attempted" not that she succeeded.

So u mean would tell ur preys that you u have a snair before him?

How will the man know she kept fuel for him.


Sorry not every man is violent in nature. Wise ones handle women with wisdom not by violence.

Defending yourself is violence? Lol

As crazy as it sounds, some men are jealous of their own babies. Everybody knows a new baby requires constant care and attention for a while.
My question is, who is really making you jealous: your wife, for been so close to your baby? Or your baby for coming between you and your wife?

emekamigo:
Good one.Somebody that can jump fence will just relax and be bathed with fuel.Thats a wasted essential commodity;Economic sabotage should be included in her charges-

Lmao, exactly

victorazy:
I can easily pour a substance like fuel on u without ur consent na, but will not be easy for u to stand there till I ignite it with a match.

You mean, i'll stand there, watch you bring the fuel closer and start pouring on me without taking to my heels? Moreover, the man should be stronger than lady...he could have collected the fuel from her if he wanted.
In this period of fuel scarcity for that matter

I don't think this is normal. He's under some kind of spell...don't know what some ladies derive from that

*runs outta thread*

Op ahaan! Open university after two kids Chill for her please.

The husband stayed there while she was pouring the petrol

Lol

Mediapace:
Op don turn his article to season film!!!

I'm not watching out kankan

Lmao. Did he force you to watch out?

innoejike:
Eighteen April two thousand and sixteen

Dem say 5 words. You're writing 6...simple instruction

Today is eighteen of April

nerdfrost:
. So ure trying to say as a guy its bad

Start fixing Peruvian and Mongolia... its not bad please

donbenedict:
u can't tell me u havnt relaxed ur hair before. So wat's d big deal there..



It's not even an issue tho. It's nice to make a statement with one's hair as long as it fits anyone

Are you really asking me that? Number one, i'm a girl. Number 2, i have gone 2years without adding any chemical to my hair as a girl.
I didn't say its a big deal. The Op asked a question and i replied.

donbenedict:
Layla129 relax..

Wen a guy keeps afro, once in a while it's necessary to relax the hair to avoid it looking so rough.. i'm keeping one nw so.. at the end of d month, i'd relax it again.. just dah coconut oil is kinda expensive.. I would have bought one

Ok, just my opinion

I don't know if its a taboo or sin but as a guy what are you relaxing your hair for?

Just don't think its a responsible thing to be doing as a guy...you get time. Can never have any guy that does it as a friend let alone date one.

slyIsaac:
Ion know about erryother thing... But excessive sex... Cannot cause perversion or make turn someone into a nymphomaniac... Infact Most Nymphomaniacs are born with the condition....


Tanchu

That girl's advice dey always dey one kind

KashyBaby:
Having sex everyday is boring as well unless ur in ur "honeymoon"stage...


And I think it depends to every couple how active they in their sexlife... some will jiz have once a month while others 3x a wk..

He was asking if there are health implications

Vinshu:
Twice a week.

Married or Single.

Excessive sex has negative effects such as Perversion, Nymphomania and other dangerous effects. And also excessive sex slackens a woman's organ and reduces the excitement for the man which can lead to cheating.

Also, excessive sex too can be psychologically negative as well. Having sex with one person too often, changes ones mindset. This has caused 45% marriages to fail early. Because the husband is tired of the woman or the woman tired of the man. Sex should not be done excessively in the name of marriage.

It should be regulated coz as powerful as sex is to bring people together, so can it separate them and most times the woman is at the receiving end.

For more details, contact a therapist.

A vagina cannot slack if you have just one sexual partner...its elastic in nature and will get to the way it was before sex.
Its lack of sexual compatibility or boredom in the bedroom that breaks marriages not the sex both parties agree to have.
If you're going to be nympho or pervert you don't need excessive sex to take you down that path. Those attributes have nothing to do with sex

slyIsaac:
Chaii.... Tis virgin again .....

This virgin reads alot mehn!

Lool, this is a funny one. There's nothing wrong in eating your meat last...its just her believe. From now on, eat your meat along with the food or chuk it in your pocket till you finish eating then bring it out


For me, i eat it last. I feel its like a reward for finishing my food ...if i eat it first, i won't finish the food...trust me

Except a medical practitioner advices you otherwise, there is nothing like "healthy number of times to have sex". If you're married, and you both agree you want it 7 times a day or once a year, its fine.

You can't die from not having sex or too much of it.

Does HIV have any regard for your looks?

moonraker:
lol... Nope, i shit you not. didnt really want to say anything for the fear of ermmm busting her bubble

but then, i thought about it for a while. Japanese teens or people in general are nice and accommodating..

That kind of outlook can sometimes be misinterpreted. yikes

Its obvious they are already misinterpreting her. And the title is not even helping "Asian girl looking for black men"