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My advice is that she tell her boyfriend the truth. If the situation were different, I would advice her to keep quiet but this is too close to home so she needs to confess before her ex does. Remember that the cheating husband is married to her current bf's sister (damn!) so if this story comes from any other source other than the girl, it's going to destroy whatever trust her boyfriend has in her. Let her tell him and if he's as in love with her as she thinks, then he would still go on loving her but if he leaves it's still okay because she would have done the right thing.

Btw, if she tells and her boyfriend knows, he would be an ally if ever the sleazy husband decides to use that ammunition against her.

I am Mami Water.

ifyalways:
Na u get ur life 
U need to know when u got married. . . . .when u said yes u wud marry him or when u walk down the aisle with him.
[b]I started chopping kpankere[/b] the very day i agreed to marry him.
I hope u wont feel guilty if u guys make love on sunday mornings even after the church wedding?lol jk
Only u can free ya mind. 

Kpankere? Girl, you are very funny, thank you for a deep belly laugh this evening.




@OP, If your conscience condemns you then give it a rest till you get married in church. Personally, I believe the traditional marriage means you are rightfully married and you can start chopping kpankere (apologies to my dear ifyalways). What do you call all the prayers and blessings showered on you by your parents and elders in the family? All the invocation of God's favor and blessings done at the ceremony?Or does God not hear prayers said under canopies?

OP, I'm guilty. I wear mine (and not GL or fake) just because I don't want to be bothered and because I like the way it glints in the sun!

agabaI23:
Good luck. put your eyes for ground!

Thanks.

seunpapi:
@ if you are running out of age, pressure is building beyond control, and there is availability of BOBO NIJJA,ready for marriage, but pepper no rest, i dont see any LONG TIN there to foot the marriage bills, this does not make less ur man bin the real man,

Running out of age? Lol.

That story is not unique o
It's become very common
all those single Nigerian nurses are now going home with wedding gown in hand and marrying men and filing papers bringing them over here.
If you know any intimately,you'll feel sorry for the husbands.
Same with some who are not doing much and their wives become nurses and take on the role of a man
Many of them become babysitters while the woman works 3 jobs.
Maybe that's why when their demons double in number,they hack the women to death



Me sef, single Nigerian nurse, come December I'm going home with my wedding gown in hand to marry a man from home.

One thing I won't do is sponsor my own wedding, only thing I'm sponsoring is my wedding gown, accessories and wedding cake. The man has to do the rest or forget about the wedding. That is already agreed on and settled so no problems in that area. If the man had expected me to come back home, and then sponsor the wedding too then he is of all men most deluded. If he is not ready to rumble, I still have time to use that period to look around for someone more serious.

I didn't know there was anything wrong with chewing the bone, I still do it but not outside my home. But how will you throw away perfectly chewable bone? It should be a crime.
As for opening bottles with my teeth, I've lost that skill and the last time I tried I almost lost my damn teeth.

Wow!! Purefact, the things you have recounted are just amazing.

@ Lachatte.


How would you know,  which town in west TX



Ogidiboy,try Lubbock or Abilene if you're willing to travel to find your Zim girls.

Men are so evil.
I'm gon' find me a girlfriend.




@OP,sorry o. Just take care, wipe your tears and move on, life will only get better.

shanda:
I'll advice u leave the bitch. Do u know that she would have continued if u guys had married without u finding out earlier. Let me be frank with you, a leopard can never change its spot. You are just lucky to have found that out, do u know the other ones still hidden from you. Such lady can never be trusted. Y waste ur time in a rtelationship where there's no trust. You'll always remember that I adviced you to leave her. That's the best decision u can take. The best advice I'll give you is this, don't ever get emotionally involved with a lady.

Shaaaraap dia!! Did you read that OP also cheated in time past(post #39), why didn't you cuss him out? His girlfriend has fallen the way OP fell and you are calling her a bitch. If we are to go by your logic, it also means that OP will also cheat again in future since a leopard can never change its spot.  Hissssssssssss

Una wan make we die for una? We don't do, it's a problem; we do, it's a problem. Na wetin?





@Ogidiboy, there are Zim girls in Texas. If you don't find any in Houston, head to West Texas.