₦airaland Forum

firstking01:
I dnt really know where you are driving at maybe cos i didn't read everything you wrote but from your heading and second paragraph i can categorically and convincingly put it to anyone/body who masturbates is committing a sin pronable of bringing eternal damnation to yourself...your body is supposed to be the throne and temple of the holy spirit, so, how dare you defile it?...and if you think masturbation is not a sin why the guilt after the act?,,,anything you do and your concience is in disarray with you it's a sin....your concience is the God inside of you....i dnt wanna share my experience of masturbation and encounter with God...maybe some other day...again i qoute, that a thing is not in the bible doesn't mean it's not a sin....quit masturbation.

was agreeing with u till u got to the porb part
sex as u said is natural and all sex starts from the brain
there must be a stimulus/li for your urge to kick in
that is the reason when you see a lady u like your brain reacts gerrit
so whiplashing to porn is NO sin my broda.besides didnt u say married men whiplash thinking of their wives
by ur logic they are sinning too
masturbation is not a sin and will never be a sin
ffs animals masturbate

Emeka71:
I have never seen a drinker or smoker having masculine child. They all have only female children.

johan cryuff,marcello lippi,antonio conte
stop spreading falsehood

taylor88:
whats d essence of living if u avoid all these

my broda i wonda
as wit all tinz in life just do with moderation and live well
all ds epistle na story

Terver23:
BECAUSE NA OUR STATE..DEAL WITH IT!!

LOL OK OK LOL

Pylony:
Foreign media are full of sh*t when it comes to News on Africa, they tend to over blow it up like Boko haram jumbo bomb.

yes but in ds case they are bang in order
hw can u arrest some1 for naming HIS dog ffs?
inciting wat violence ffs?
oh and naija police wy like to parade theif neva show us d dog as evidence
It is indeed WEIRD

kenonze:
Stoned? = wrong grammar
Stoned= A state of mind which occurs after smoking enough marijuana to the point where the user stares blankly into whatever catches his/her attention.
E.g
"I was so stoned I didn't notice the movie was in French."

Hurled missile should be a better phrase.


N/B stoned is totally different from "stoning"... .. .. Which is a form of capital punishment by hurling stone at someone until person kick the bucket

in ur quest to correct d op u contradicted yasef
that title is actually correct
even uk wey form english use stoned to describe wen iraq presido was attacked by a journo during a press conference
no dy carry grammar for head cuz even uk wy form am dy mke mistake and some no even kukuma sabi am o

blazer234:
Why do you igbos think money is everything? "Marry from rich Igbo family"? How does that make marriage successful?

emm oga we dont think so oh
we value our family and education above money o

donofdons:
The truth i that jim iyke and all these actors are broke asses..i saw his house in sunnyville Abuja and i was like WTF. money is so easy to make and all you need is a little initiative and some ruthlessness and you have your startup capital.
jim iyke is a guy that could have embellished himself and get branded names like ace champagne and moet to sponsor him as a gentleman of class..but stupidity and crass arrogance wouldn't allow him do that.
As an igboman, he could have reached out to arthur eze na ugbo to help him become a master but he was busy following small girls and harassing women. now instead of marrying from a rich igbo family and exploiting the gifts of his igbo roots, he is wasting time with jamaican sluts

wait so u no knw b4?lol

babyfaceafrica:
Ugandans will still complain

the fact u had to make ds statement shows d insecurity ur ppl have abt igbos
for once just for once stop thinking about them ffs haba
ugadans diz,ipod dat nawa o
gej is no more ur c in c and all igbos have been chased away from govt positions tanks to ur votes so like i always say
enjoy ur change

lollmaolol:
Adonbilivit @Leez , I think this should stop. Bullying is not the best solution.

lol bruv i no even gt tym for dem
see as dm dy drop advice fr d woman lol
if na d oda way arnd u go hear
:biafruds,Igbos,ugadans etc frgetting crime like death has no boundaries or recognises tribe lol

Greenback:
God bless you,i keep wondering how i got down with tribal bigotry,no thanks to their overbearing and disgusting attitudes. I Am Benin and stand for national justice and fairness and right to self determination and hate it when i see them "NCANing" and wholotta other bulshiit..am truly sorry,man.



NOW DAMMIT,CRIME DOESNT PAY,THE BLOODI "SAINTS" AFONJA ZOMBIES SHUD BURY THEIR HEADS IN SHAME.
HARD DRUG KILLS

my broda the tin is truly amazing
they keep doing it and when odas choose a different path from theirs they start insulting and hating eg last elections
it is just annoying

Zico5:
Na only chest beating dem know. Na only small fulani folks dey render havoc on u like this. If its yorubaland, u will hear them calling us coward, now which name should we call u people now.

but you ARE cowards
hausa ppl cme and tell ur leaders to shut up and even leave kano to lagos to bail mile 12 attackers and all of u kept mute
see if na ogbete mrkt or any other city mrkt dos mile 12 boiz pull dt kain ish u for hear d tape
na dn u go knw say igbo boiz no dy look face

lollmaolol:
Even at 51, huzzle continues. Mhen this economy ain't smiling.

If I don't restrategize, who will. The hussle iz real.
@Greenback, I don't know your hatred for each othe has gone beyond limit, safe journey ooo

hatred u say
i hope u are joking
just replace dt name with my ppl name and see hw ds thread will reach 8 pages within minutes
funny tin is we avoid dm but dy can't go a day w/out calling igbo ppl
tanks to dia bigotry during election ds whole land is a mess
even northerners dont hate igbos d way dy do
hatred?

conductor1:
Source: http://www.somtoo.com/2016/08/51-year-old-ogun-state-woman-nabbed.html

mwhahahahahahahhahahahahahahahahahahaha AFONJA busted going to UGANDA wait i tot we easterners are UGANDANS lmao NCAN Enugu branch

[quote author=free2ryhme post=48807914]http://punchng.com/benue-places-n5m-bounty-wanted-killer/[/quote why na only tiv ppl be benue gov? oda tribe no dy?

[quote author=free2ryhme post=48807914]http://punchng.com/benue-places-n5m-bounty-wanted-killer/[/quote why na only tiv ppl be benue gov? oda tribe no dy?

cliquevibes:
Also have a female friend goin thru d same tin, She wants to donate eggs herself, Big eggs for dat matter(both white and green) garden eggs, she jst looking 4 where 2 sell it......Plz Any suggestions

Gewezzy1:
My dear i think you went to the wrong clinic either its not recognized or sumfin. Fertility clinics don't do all you said above, about them not checking thoroughly for a donors health, dts not true. All i see you doing is just judging people with Fertility issues, I cant believe a lady would say " Do not risk your own fertility for another woman's infertility
(no one knows what she did or why she's that way)" That is just shallow and wrong. I pray you don't experience such, do you think its evry bin wayward is wt causes infertility? The fact that you dnt have a good experience wn u did urs dsnt meant that's the way the system works. Btw I wish you all the best in traveling out, even though you need to know that you are no longer a virgin, wthr or not he dnt entr well dsnt mean u haven't had sex. You are free to quote me whr wrong

the funny thing is dat d whole story doesnt add up
private skul goer who is a syntehtic(wtf) orphan who was duped by own blood and cant stand insertion but is a secondary virgin
this is why i asked seun to create fiction section fr all ds kain tin he no gree
abeg lalasticlala do d needful and gve ds pips fiction section orvat least mke dm dy put fiction fr dia thread title

deathcomestoall:
Now, while what I am about to say might be shameful for many because it is shrouded in secrecy, I am not ashamed because, you can never know the extent to what you will do when pushed or pulled to the brink. 99% of the reason why many young Nigerian women donate their egg is for the meagre(yes I said meagre) monetary compensation attached to it. And most of these fertility clinics know that if they do not attach any form of benefit, almost no one would willingly donate.

In the U.S., egg donation can cost as much as 5000 to 10000 dollars. So if you are going to donate, at least you know it's worth the pay. Unlike nigeria who don't pay the donors, they only COMPENSATE and this ranges from 120000 to 150000.

The egg donation process itself starts with an interview by an organization or clinic sourcing for donors for the clinic and then a series of blood tests for genotype, blood group and STDs are carried out after which if you are cleared of any of these, you proceed to the next stage which is to check for lumps in your breast, throat, pain in your lower abdominal region and then a vaginal scan. If you pass all these tests, then you will be given 21 injections which you will inject by yourself for 21 days and during these days, you will visit the clinic for series of vaginal scanning to check if you are producing enough eggs. After the 21 days, you will be given another 6 injections for 6 days after which you are due for the egg collection.
Now I cannot go into details of how the whole process is done because I do not want to make my post too lengthy as the essence of my post is to merely educate and share my story.

Born a synthetic orphan( I have parents who I don’t live with and don't care for me), freshly graduated from the University with a reasonable amount saved during my university days, I had wanted to go into food business but I was unfortunately robbed by my own blood. I have always held the notion that to make money, you must spend money. So with the little money I had left, I started looking for options on what to do, every single one failed. I had applied for more than 619 jobs and still counting, no success. After exhausting all my ideas, I was googling ways to make money and then came a list of six of which one took my interest which was egg donation. I called a couple of fertility clinics and booked an appointment with two. I went to only one of them which is located somewhere in Lagos.

Before making this decision, I thought to myself, why am I doing this, my answer was the money. I had just gotten an American visa and am trying to raise the money for a ticket as everyone reading this knows the situation of the country.

On getting to the clinic, I met a young lady who asked my age, race, education, job and some other things. She explained the process to me and asked if I lived with my parents, I answered yes. And then she proceeded to bullying me that what if my parents saw me injecting myself daily that they would seize the injections. I was displeased with her statement because I had earlier told her I went to a private university. She probably thought I was a spoilt kid who needed quick money. I immediately shut her up and told her I pay the rent and then proceeded to bullying her(I am a very opinionated person). As we were talking, I noticed some other females come into the office. One of them had come for a vaginal scan and wasn’t producing any eggs so the process had to be stopped for her and hence no compensation of any sort not even her transport fare. Just a thank you. Then I started asking questions( my transport there cost nothing less than a thousand a day). I asked her what information of mine would be given to the receiver, she said it would be an anonymous donation. I asked if any complication arises, who will be responsible for my treatment, she said the clinic. I then asked about the procedure itself. I asked what kind of sedative would be used for the egg retrieval process, then she became defensive and said I was a reporter and she won't be continuing the process. I stood up to leave, then she called me back and said she would take a risk with me. I then told her I wasn't a reporter just because I am confident and would ask questions. I proceeded to the clinic lab and did a blood test for my genotype and blood group. Before I left for the lab, she started whining me that 120000 is a lot of money, you can start a business with it. I just looked at her and nodded. I never even asked her how much it was.

Few days later, I was called for a second blood test for STDs, I went for it and also was cleared. Then I was called for a vaginal scan. Before getting there, I thought why am I really doing this. I have had more than 120000, is it really worth risking my own fertility. I would have to sell my eggs for up to 5 times to raise money for my flight. With the current economic situation, this money is almost nothing for the emotional trauma. Another reason why I wanted to do this wasn't for the money alone. I have remained a virgin for a long time and had gotten tired. Being a virgin has impeded me in many ways. I am constantly judged because of it. Every guy I date sees it as a prize. And even if I wanted to lose my virginity and become a prostitute, I didn't want to lose it to the first man that pays me and I don't have a boyfriend who will do it. Aged 18, I tried to lose my virginity but the shock and pain was too much for me to handle. He hadn't even entered, I had already began screaming. I must admit I bled due to the stress placed on the outer walls of my v****a but he never entered.
That was my first and last experience at experimenting with sex. I was happy tho I could claim I was a virgin and not a virgin, no one would know. Another reason is I am an introvert, I don't have any friends neither do I go out to where I can meet people besides I don’t even have the money and I know I am not getting married anytime soon and this is the most fertile years of my life(I am 22) and genuinely if I could help someone become a mother, I would.

On the day of the vaginal scanning, I went to the clinic, was asked a lot of questions after which I waited for a very long time before proceeding to the scanning room. The nurse then told me to get undressed and asked if I was a virgin. I couldn't lie, I said yes and she said they don't take virgins then I said I was a secondary virgin, I tried it years ago even though I knew I was lieing. Then I told her it wasn't an issue, she should call the doctor. The doctor came in brought out a long instrument about 8 inches put a condom on it with lube. I mean this was me here never had sex before, I freaked out. When she tried to put it in, I screamed. I said I couldn't do it. The pain was excruciating. She then put more lube, I still couldn't. It wouldn't enter. The doctor even had to ask if I was raped because of my shock. I thought I lost my hymen years back. In the moment of the pain, I thought all these for a meagre 120000 minus the stress of giving myself 27 needle scars and the emotional trauma I would suffer from it. The doctor then said we could try again. I said no. I could barely walk, I apologized for wasting their time. And dressed up and left. The lady who interviewed me lamented on what would be done about the money they spent on tests for me. Oh please, it's an organization, I'm sure they suffer loses. They should deal with it. I wasn't the first and I wouldn’t be the last.

While in pain in a public transit on my way home, I thought of all the losses I have experienced both financially and emotionally. I mean I started questioning my self if it was really worth it. Yes I want to travel out of the country and give my most fertile years to whoever I can but asides this I had no other genuine reason. The most important tho was the money. I lost my dog because I couldn't pay his veterinary bills. This would have been a better reason for me to have sex with an electronic gadget. I mean I would save my dog by going through this painful process if I could take back the hands of time. I am happy I went through with it to this stage but losing my virginity to a stick or bearing the pain to put a smile on another's face while my own morality is being questioned to me isn't worth it. Now I am not judging anyone who does it. They obviously aren't virgins and are in dire monetary needs so GOOD LUCK.

MY OBSERVATIONS
I stated earlier that when I was being interviewed for the first time, I noticed some other females come into the office. Honestly, only if people knew the kind of people that come to donate their eggs, many people would rather remain childless. Most of these women are stark illiterates. Some have bleached their skin so much. Most of which I noticed are your typical fish and pepper sellers with ridiculous eyebrows. Not to sound condescending, but it is the truth.

Another observation is that these acclaimed CHARITY organizations that source for donors, aren't doing any charity. They are only buying your eggs at a very reduced rate. Many of them don't care how you look or what you are even if you are mentally challenged or unstable. They neither carry out proper tests or interviews for viable donors. As long as you produce eggs for them to sell, you qualify. And I also noticed how the interviewers intimidate the women who are not properly educated. There was a point I even questioned the so called foundation on the kind of women they accept as egg donors. They know most of us are in for the money so they won't even bother asking you too much questions, I mean sarcastically, most people are there to help(for the money obviously).

I failed to mention this, on the day of my vaginal scanning while waiting in the office, a girl my age was being questioned. I was moved by her story. May be she saw how confident I was and was probably trying to speak English but she obviously couldn't hide her naivety. No one asks about your family, they don't even care. You can even lie about your identity. They do not ask for any form of identification. The girl talked about how she lost her parent at 7 and how her uncle gave up on her. She was still in school and needed money. I wonder if she's a virgin like me I mean not to be silly but if I wasn't a virgin, I wouldn't be selling my eggs(it's still a sin to me). I commend her tho for not sleeping about for the money or who knows whether market is not paying well. Ok I'm sorry for that statement but I was moved to tears. Even tho I am a synthetic orphan, I haven't experienced the loss of any family member.

Giving up your eggs is not a quick money making scheme. It is traumatic. Everytime you go for a scan during your injection period, you will be inserted with that 8 inches thing(dunno what to call it) and the retrieval process is even worse, a needle would be inserted into you and can pierce your womb or infect you. You are given antibiotics tho but who e epp. You are just another tool.

MY SUGGESTION

In other to prevent losses on both sides, I would suggest, fertility clinics in Nigeria start paying donors for real and stop exploiting young women so you know the risk is equal the cost. Then no one would have to pull out of the programme as most donors do pull out of the process and huge losses are suffered on both sides because no one gives you transport fare and the injections are very expensive. You are only paid I repeat only paid when they collect your eggs.

MY ADVICE

I wish I could go through with the process but I cannot. I am not judging anyone who does it for whatever reason. Just make sure you read those forms well before appending your signature on it as most are not in your interest incase complications arise.

Do not risk your own fertility for another woman's infertility(no one knows what she did or why she's that way)

Do not think you are selling your eggs. The money is not worth a single egg. If you want to donate, donate with the mind that you are doing it for free because you actually are. May people go with the mindset that they are selling their eggs for 120000. And if you choose to do this process as a source of income, always go to the highest bidder. There are people that pay more than 120000.

I still am looking for a way to get out of this country. I am damn scarred but I won't have sex for money or get money with issues concerning my … To get money by any means is not easy truly. I don't care about being a virgin tho. Infact it means nothing to me but I won't take so much pain for any one. The pain has left and now I'm thinking if I should go back lol.

cool story bro

[quote author=Wyttcat post=48805382]Keep deceiving yourself. Nigerians are more comfortable being fans of foreign leagues, and even support them more than they support your glorified local elementary school football teams with empty names.
[/quote
read my reply to you slowly then rply again
thnks

Wyttcat:
Africans don't even have teams to spend money on. No one thought about pumping some of the billions wasted into sports because they are comfortable watching foreign leagues and home is the last thing on their minds.

al ahly,zamalek,enugu rangers, 3sc,springboks,sundows,orlando pirates
THERE are more than enough home teams
using nigetians to describe the whole of africa is not proper cuz there is north,south,east and west
heck even asec mimosas play in full capacity stadiums and sell merch
all these teams have hardcore fans as well which d japanese is a hardcore fan who was disappointed by the nff's treatment

Wyttcat:
The Japanese guy just paid down payment to buy the team. Or a kickback for a future favor in Nigeria. The guy definitely wants something, no one throws money anyhow.

unlike africans,europeans and asians spend a lot on sports particularly their fav team or actor or musician
so no strings attached o
if ds stupid gvt did d rite tin on time nobody will be donating money and d team wont have been held back in a hotel ffs

Rossy99:
i av neva leave my chores for him to do,d only chores i expect him to do is sweep d parlour whr he sleep,wash dishes or fetch water which he hardly does.u said if i sweep he wud feel guilty conscience,this one doesn't,he wud lift his leg for me to sweep nd adjust well,wen i was preg,he wud b watching me fetch water nd d next day he wud use d water to bath not until i warn him lik 3tym b4 he stop using water i fetch to bath

apart frm the fact dat ds sounds like a fake tale
u must be joking to expect a grown man to sweep the palour and do house chores fr u as a full time housewife
like some1 said if he was ur relation u would nt be hia
ur oga wise jare

remember wat pa achebe of blessed memory said about dem obe is held by an archaic religion and the other by an archaic tradition the igbo man is held by neither dats why they believe stopping ojukwu or kanu is d end

Emycord:
Buhari and stupidity i keep wondering how all these will help nigerians. They try to break biafrans but we remain strong and resolute. Wit all mend and rnda they still mess up see the very incoherent things they say and. Yes nigerians celebrate yet anxiously awaits the real ipob response from the likes of Clifford iroanya and Emma powerfull. The truth is nigerian has not answered the biafran question. Biafra does not need any sponsors its an ideology that will not die. Biafra is not about ojukwu, kanu , uwazulike, they just give their own contribution to its cause until we get there there are more than 50 million of ojukwus, uwazulikes, and kanus. How will Nigeria deal with them how do u get them to renounce biafra? By creating splinter groups? Let me still repeat myself like a broken record . " NOT EVEN OJUKWU CAN CONVINCE IGBO'S TO FORGET BIAFRA. EVEN IF HE COMES FROM BACK FROM THE DEAD

remember wat pa achebe of blessed memory said about dem
obe is held by an archaic religion and the other by an archaic tradition
the igbo man is held by neither
dats why they believe stopping ojukwu or kanu is d end

[quote author=Oyind17 post=48802970]My mum complained the guy is taking this drugs and cooks with weed. I will tell her about the effects and how it can cause madness [/quote
u haf officially kee me wit laff o
see as dm dy look me fr room as i dy lol

[quote author=danthamccoy post=48802533][/quote]you do realise that euphoric high simply means light headness ie feeling u get wen u take opiates eg morphine
op said her cousin was acting very weird
tram alone cant do wat she posted fam

Oyind17:
Thanks but I no be guy this info will definitely get to my mom. Thanks once again Mr leez

uw my sis
we all learn evryday
nobody's perfect

Oyind17:
Thanks but I no be guy this info will definitely get to my mom. Thanks once again Mr leez

uw my sis
we all learn evryday

martineinstein:
he will only speak when igbos are being affected so he will make it look as if they are being victimised.

He wont speak on how he didnt develop his district.


He wont speak onhow he forges documents.


Smh

pls stop spreading falsehood
ike has done great tins in aniriri which is his DISTRICT
i normally ignore statements like dis but as a enugu man in enugu i just cant
u shld trvl more

Oyind17:
Heard my nephew is taking it. Only that tell me more joor

guy u wan kee me with laff ds evening o
dats basically it sha
its very addictive and taken in excess can cause renal(kidney) problems as you age
and as ur body adapts to it u will have to increase d dosage to get that light headed feeling.

Emycord:
Buhari and stupidity i keep wondering how all these will help nigerians. They try to break biafrans but we remain strong and resolute. Wit all mend and rnda they still mess up see the very incoherent things they say and. Yes nigerians celebrate yet anxiously awaits the real ipob response from the likes of Clifford iroanya and Emma powerfull. The truth is nigerian has not answered the biafran question. Biafra does not need any sponsors its an ideology that will not die. Biafra is not about ojukwu, kanu , uwazulike, they just give their own contribution to its cause until we get there there are more than 50 million of ojukwus, uwazulikes, and kanus. How will Nigeria deal with them how do u get them to renounce biafra? By creating splinter groups? Let me still repeat myself like a broken record . " NOT EVEN OJUKWU CAN CONVINCE IGBO'S TO FORGET BIAFRA. EVEN IF HE COMES FROM BACK FROM THE DEAD

d funny thing is dat its not even the north that is refusing to break up
its d ......... you know who
their fear is northern domination when biafrrra comes
as long as we keep living with this illusion of unity and refuse to discuss this entity then biafrrra and ND republic is arnd d corner