DanielAlhassan:
how is that possible we hard sex two months ago and she three months pregnant I can't accept it

You better go to another hospital for another test for confirmation. If truly you are the father of the child and you reject the pregnancy, it will have very serious negative effects on your life in future.

Having plenty of money does not really give joy, it is when you use the money to give joy to others you yourself can be joyful

The thing is when you lack something, that particular thing looks the most valuable to you on the earth. But when you now have an abundance of it, it is then you know that it is not the most valuable thing.

That is life for you. In life nothing is permanent. Bear with the situation and things will change for the better again. Try to scout for similar job and secure another one before you quit the present one.

Ahmback:
I'm not good at advising people,. But I think reporting her to EFCC or so will be good.

EFCC does not attend to small amount like this. Don't waste your time going there.

Women are more frugal and honest than men in managing financial resources. May Almighty God bless and help our women now taking over the leadership of the banking sector.

Boy what you need most from your parents is the wisdom by which they acquired their wealth not their money. Whatever they give you now please take without complains. They will not be there for ever for you to be collecting money from them. But if you acquire the wisdom by which they acquired their wealth, it will be useful for you for your entire lifetime.

How can you marry a tokunbo wife when brand new wife are plenty looking for suitors. Or are you a tokunbo husband too. You suppose know that tokunbo things always have too much maintanance problems. When you buy agaran [brand new], you have less maitanance problems. When you married that woman you married her with her children, so take care of them or return them to their biological and legal father. Biko.

Tomilola360:


Number 1 where? Their glory days are over

Shut up your dirty mouth, Nigerian men have disappointed us in managing our national resources and in even in the corporate industry. We need to test our women if they will take to us to the promised land. The new GTBank MD must have been a very honest and dependable staff over the years. Congrats to her.

RapistOnBail:


Nnamdi Kanu should be hanged to death.

Even Jesus Christ was nailed like a thief. What’s then stopping Bubu?

Agent of darkness

Your action is not harsh, if everything you said is true. That girl is highly is irresponsible. Report her to her parents. You have talked to her she did not listen.

What is wrong with Dangote? So he wants to monopolize the sugar business forever, if we have over supply in the local market, can't he think of export and earn dollars, is he so greedy like this,

Please don't disappoint this lovely lady o. If you disappoint her you will see the other side of God o.

wedeasam:
Extra Source of Income: Checkout this legitimate online business that gives me atleast ₦25k and more weekly using my phone and from home. Check my S oignature for details

This is a ponzi scheme.

Run fast she is not the right person for you to marry. Most times these signs are always there but we fail to see them. She is not a wife material, someone that is already giving you emotional problems before marriage. What happens after marriage. It will be worse

This guy should come back to Nigeria if he is tired of US. The level of insecurity in Nigeria is enough to be tired of living there

Is this not war already?

There is no cheating in nature. Keep up doing your work as if you are being paid well. I'm assuring you fully that sooner or later you will get another job that will pay you back of every cent you have worked for in the present employment. This is the time of sowing, your harvest will surely come.

kstyle2:
So sad. To curb this menace of internet fraud, I think the death penalty or life imprisonment should be introduced against the culprits. However, thorough investigation must be carried out before such judgement takes place. The same should be introduced for politicians. Detailed analysis of money spent must be reported and if any fraudulent activity is discovered, the should face the same.
Imagine replacing a governor who has just be sentenced to death for fraud. The incoming replacement would be on his toes continually

The govt should wake up to her responsibility by creating jobs. Any irresponsible govt that refuses to create jobs for her citizens should be ready to face what Nigeria is facing today

Why should someone with a fiance still be romancing with an ex in the first place. The best thing is to totally cut off from any ex once you have chosen another person to marry in order to save oneself from this kind of situation. I think it is even shafeful for somebody to be still be relating with an ex that has seen your unclothedness after you have decided to marry another person. The thing is there is no shame these days again.

You know you will need to buy delivery vehicle, will #500000 be enough to kick off

Return his phone back to him

doggedfighter:
So you are now a married man?

The kind of advice you people seek on a daily

basis here makes me wonder what is happening to our boys. Is the condition of the country affecting the common sense of our boys?

You saw a girl helped her and that's not enough , you carried her wholesale and started shouldering all her responsibilities

And I know you must be telling your folks at home that you are broke.

That was how the one of yesterday wrote that his wife said his OWN mother is fetish and he rushed here for advice


Now we are to advice you on the sharing formula of her salary or help you ask her why she didn't tell you.

For a guy that's having financial difficulties who should focus on himself but chose not to do so.
YOU'RE A BIG SHAME.

Oh mother nature , never give me these as sons !

You are too harsh. You think you are the only one who has wisdom

Run fast for your life, she has no value nor respect for you. If you marry her, you will regret it in your life .

Hi

blazepascal:
Life after graduation is not easy. Whether you studied a professional or non--professional course, you will suffer after school, but those that studied professional courses has a better chance of securing job in the labour market.
I repeat, life after school is not easy. This is not Nollywood. What you see on Nollywood is rare in reality.

While on campus, you can discover your gift and work hard to avoid suffering after school. Don't depend on people but rely on God. Hustle as a student, do business, organize campus fellowship to win souls, contest elections. Just engage in something that brings money because when you go broke, nobody will help you.
Academics won't give you money. It is better to try something and fail than not trying at all. If you contest election and lose, it teaches you something which political science cannot teach you. People are hungry, so they don't care about your manifesto or vision, if you don't help them financially, you will lose election or anything you are fighting for.

Don't wear expensive clothes to impress people because nobody really care about your appearance. You can use the money for expensive clothes to better your life. You don't need to be buying plenty clothes, you can manage the little you have, iron it and wear.
Learn from your father's mistakes, don't associate with people that never liked your father. If they never liked your father, they can never like you.

Don't allow yourself to be used without a reward. Before David accepted to kill goliath, he asked the people what shall be done for the man who kills Goliath. David wanted to make sure there is a reward before accepting the task.

If I mistakenly accept a job that doesn't fetch money, I instantly lose interest in that job and I won't put my energy in such useless Job.
"
A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE"

It is not the reward that should be your motive behind anything you do in life, rather it is the benefit enjoyed by others from your efforts that counts. When you offer something of benefit to others no one can take your reward away from you.

This wicked miyetti Allah should go to the north and destroy their farms there na, why are they bent on causing food scarcity in the south by intentionally destroying our farmlands. I cannot understand these wicked people o

slivertongue:
obaseki will forever respect osho. osho brought him to govt house. politics must never kill friendship and brotherhood

Obaseki equally helped him to raise money for his election, so they were helpful to each other.

bwambasolomon:
I have a fiancée whom I started dating about two years ago. We work together and we are on the same level, and earn the same salary. Each time we hanged out to just have fun, if we got to a place where prices were too expensive, I would say to her but this things are much cheaper elsewhere.

For example, we went to a place though inside the same premises, one part of the lounge sells bottled water for 250 while the other one sells bottled water for 500, she then suggested that we go to the part where water was sold for 500. Note that it was in the same premises and there was absolutely no difference between the two, it's not like one was VIP area and the other was not. We ended up going to the 500 naira side. All that we ate which of course was double the price, I paid.

Each time we went to the mall, we buy things normally. But there's something about malls which some of you may have noticed, certain things such as pots, plastic rubbers, electronics, and so on are usually unreasonably exorbitant. So I said it would be better for us not to buy things that were too expensive that we could get outside for cheaper prices, but we could buy other things whose prices were reasonable. The next thing she started saying was that I don't have class, it's classy people that buy such things.

So one day we went to a pharmacy in that same mall, because she wanted to get some drugs, the price they called for her was about three times what it was outside, so she said it was better to go outside to buy it. So I just told her that since she has class she should buy it now, the next thing she started insulting me, she gave me the insult of my life. That wasn't the only scenario, there were many other cases like that.

She had started to stay with me after a while. Every thing in the house belongs to me, and I made sure everywhere was conducive for us. Air conditioners every and so on, good house, good compound, surveillance cameras and so on. Initially I was shouldering all responsibilities like food, the car washer who washes the both of our cars, the security man, fuel in the generator, NEPA light, repairs in the house and so on.

Please note that we work in the same place and earn same amount. Sometimes when I was short of cash, since I knew that her own money would still be there, I would borrow from her to buy food stuffs and other miscellaneous, and pay back by next salary.

She contributed just about 10% of expenditures in the house which was majorly just food stuffs. Note that I buy much more foodstuffs 5 times more than what she buys.

That was not just it, the relationship was usually filled with arguments, I can hardly have a conversation with her, she would begin to argue.

I want to ask few questions here:
(1)please is there anyone who doesn't know that Egusi causes pimples for those who are prone to having pimples?
(2) Is there any one who doesn't know that if something is very hot, it is not advisable to put in the fridge?
(3) here anyone who doesn't know that garlic is medicinal?
(4) Is there any one who does not know that it is not advisable to put on a generator when it has been drenched by rain?

But this girl will argue with me, insisting that I must put on the gen when rain has beaten it, because apparently, it is not her property. And the fridge is also not hers which is why she won't care if it gets spoilt. In short there's usually too much argument over what is clear for everyone to see, thereby it is always difficult to have a conversation with her.

I was later transferred out of the state we were, so I decided that because of her, I won't take anything away from the house, I would buy everything I need in the new place I had been posted to. So I bought a bigger TV for the house we both shared and took the smaller one to my new place of posting. I bought my mattress, kitchen utensils, got an apartment, and bought every thing I needed in the new place. So now, I have most things in two pairs, just so she would be comfortable.

Please note that we aren't yet married, and I agreed to not having sex with her because that was she wanted, I respected that. The only thing I know we do was romance.

So I started insisting that it was high time for her to be responsible, that we can't both be working and she won't be buying reasonable amount of food stuff because I noticed that sometimes, she would go out and buy 3 packs of spaghetti, which doesn't make sense to me. She said her dad is the one that buys food stuffs in her house and her mum contributes for petty projects. But I am not her Dad, I have my own mind. Also note that she didn't volunteer to bring any amount for my project oo, because I won't want a woman to contribute 1 naira to the houses I am building. All I said was that she should be contributing reasonable amounts for food stuffs in the house. We hardly stay two weeks without fights, she must look for one insult or the other.

We went for counselling and the pastors said she has to be contributing for expenditures in the house, we agreed on 60% to 40% sharing formula for all expenditures. So me as the man would contribute 60 while she will contribute 40. Please note that rent was not inclusive, as I volunteered to pay for the rent in the house we were and for my apartment in my new place of posting.
Later on, when she began to see the brunt of the responsibilities that I used to bear she started saying we (Me and the Pastors) are forcing her to contribute. But I didn't know these Pastors before, that was my first time of meeting them, she was the one who knew them before me. But simply because they told her the truth, she started saying we are forcing her.

Please I need your honest opinions on this issue.
Thank you.

My dear brother, if you marry this lady you will regret it in your life. The signs are there already, if you pretend as if you don't see them, it will be disastrous, i strongly advise you to quit the relationship very fast

MejiLoyon:
Dem wan use scope mediate
Dem wan use scope beg

Leave them. Shebi na only 10bn naira tomatoes spoil
Una never see something
By the time the thing escalate their girls go don full Lagos dey do olosho so that their family go fit chop.

By the way I never see Hausa olosho before. Just saying.
Can't wait

Na them do olosho pass, den dey call them karuwa

Go and see her and let her know that you are fully aware of what she is doing and you are advising her to stop it and that you are not going to inform her husband but at the same time you cannot see what she is doing and keep quiet because of the close relationship you have with her husband. Let her know that everyone in the neighborhood is aware and try to let her know the spiritual implications of her actions.

It is very clear that we don't have president of Nigeria what we've is president of cattle republic.

If you can't teach her and you can't tolerate her please find a place for her outside and stop disturbing us here with long essay.