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JONNYSPUTE:
..Open your eyes well. You must see one, but if you say so,then she never loved you.Thank your God she left and move.Peace.

Alright Thanks.

JONNYSPUTE:
. There must be a reason for her actions. You ve not said anything.

no reason..she just changed.

xxxtedyxxx:
You invested too much that's why. The reason you are more worried than she is because you have invested more into the coonvo than she has.

Don't ever make this mistake next time.

Thanks very much.

JONNYSPUTE:
Seems all is not well with you again?

what do you mean??i only asked for an advice.

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mekuso89:
Austria, australia. First go take your english test

english test?

Hello nairalanders...I hope y’all good..don’t mind my English please..I’m 19...and I’m planning to study and work outside the country next year by God’s grace..but I really did need your advice..which country I can go without being denied visa..cuz I heard about people’s visa being denied....Thanks.

OTayobami:
Simple! Just sit her and be straight forward with her by letting her know she's hurting your feelings with her behavior towards you and then ask her again if she's still interested or not?
See her answer/reaction

Thanks very much....I’m really grateful...and how about the non challant attitude she has??about not even bothering to say a thank you.?

OTayobami:
Oh! And has she been like this since you met her?

she wasn’t like this at first...but she just start doing all this...and whenever she gets angry..she’d talk roughly and say different kind of things..before she come back to her normal self.

OTayobami:
Quick question please, how long have you guys been dating?

its going to 5months now.

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[quote author=Onuhgabriel post=85229455][/quote]not at all..I don’t know the reason why..but why??

jaxxy:
I’m sorry I don’t have genuine advice to give u.

She a stupid gal and such gals on act right or get sense from manipulation by from bad boys.

Good guys like u can’t handle her, she will frustrate ur life. A bad boy will manipulate her senses till she will be crying and begging him. If u still want her for any ridiculous reason at all then u must learn to act like or be a bad boy and put her in her fvcking place. Stop being too nice to her.

I’m sorry again because this is not the genuine advice I wud love to give people bt it may be necessary advice.

Thanks very much bro I’m really grateful...but this is just the truth...I care for her financially...I sent her almost like 5k..still she’d still want to buy this buy that...she’s tooo materialistic...

GogobiriLalas:
Take her somewhere where no one can hear her scream and beat the sh!t out of her warning her that the next time she makes any outburst, she won't make it out alive. I'm speaking from experience and the girl in question is currently cooking me dinner in the kitchen as I write. She's happy and so am I; thank me later.

Thanks very much bro...reasonable advice ever

ProtectMyMoney:
Like they say, a picture speaks a thousand words.

She could have spotted something out of place in the picture which you didn't take note of or there was a mismatch of what you told her on the day you snapped the picture.

Or like original said, she might have a 2nd pre-arranged date in Akure

There’s nothing in the picture that’s offensive at all...just my picture standing by the gate..I don’t understand what’s worth getting angry about that...I’m still surprised about it....

pauladonis:
I swear the thing dey their blood. Ondo and Ekiti people ehn, their anger can boil stone till it softens up.

Heard about a girl that literally has to drink snail water mixed with palm oil to calm her anger.

I'm always thinking like what the f*ck can make a group of people that angry?

This my girl gets angry too on unnecessary issue..she’d have say alot of shits before she come back to herself...and I’m just doing everything to make her comfortable...and happy...but it seems she’s taking me for granted.

Livecamp09:
Like your mother at home is acting like werey abi?

Tribal bigot with myopic mind...

smiles it hasn’t gotten to that now...don't get mad about that...sorry.

Sandyxandy1:
It’s obvious you really do love her but you need to control it and love yourself more,you deserve to be treated better, she is obviously seeing someone else and comparing it with what you have to offer,it’s difficult but make your happiness top priority when in a relationship....I advice you to let her go cause I don’t think the love is mutual on her end.

Thanks very much for your advice bro.

aminusodiq:
ok ask her why she acted dah way... Let her knw ur stand abt her atitude nd b firm abt it!! B a man... Somtimes dey need somone to shout it to dia face bfor dem coupl

lol if i shout at this one she’s gonna shout out back at me...she’d never admit she’s wrong....she’d always take her stand that she’s on her right...whereby she isn’t at all...

solonubinho:
All these from one girl? Okay now let's weigh this thing logically. OP what does this girl contribute to your life? Let me guess nothing asides pussy. What does she cost you? Your happiness, your peace of mind your manhood, your hard earned money, your ability to focus on your goals. So if the only thing she offers is her presence and pussy, it is safe to say that these two things she brings to the table do not equate all she costs you. Also, pussy so is easily replaceable. So OP, we can conclude that her existence in your life is not economically viable.

I hope I have been able to convince you and not to confuse you that her presence in your life does more damage than good.

well I do everything to satisfy her both spiritually and materially.

aminusodiq:
never apologize!!! Stand firm on dis... Nd shell knw u don gain ur sense bk... Only apologize wen u ar guilty if everything

well I’m not apologizing and I haven’t planned to..have decided to ignore her for days....if she refuse to believe she’s the one at fault I’m gonna let her go....her beauty is deceiving her though...she believes immediately one guys leaves her that she’d definitely see another.

Lekside442:
i didn’t even call to ask that....she was the one disturbing me with calls and voice messages bro.

and she’d always wanna be on the point that she’s on her right...she’ll always want to turn all the fault on me and let me end up apologizing...

aminusodiq:
u can only call to confirm if shes bak home!!! Dont say a tin ti her

i didn’t even call to ask that....she was the one disturbing me with calls and voice messages bro.

Roroapple:
Bro another man is in her life trust me on this

i think so bro....cuz I see she hardly posts my pics...and I do post her well...it just like I’m a fool to her.

MedicH:
Aged 20. H.mmm wrong period to date a girl. She is at that stage in her lifetime where she wants to be like her friends. Not friends in the traditional sense of the word but competitors. She wants to put on the gown Sandra wore last week or the shoe Jane wore yesterday or buy the bag jennifer is saving money to buy. As a result, this is her whoring stage and she is ready to do anything to get what she wants. If you cant afford to yield to all these demands you have no means of playing. It's tantrum upon tantrum untill show is over. Let her go. Tell her you can't continue and let her go you cant change her at this stage. I want to believe she went through ur phone and so nothing indicting or incriminating to hold hands and lay out the cards for you and out of the disappointment of not seeing anything she threw a tantrum. Let her go.

Yes bro....cuz I don’t understand why she’s mad all because of seeing my pics....though when I called her yesterday...she said she wouldn’t be able to wait till like 2 or 3 I asked why she said nothing that she just wanna go back and don’t wanna stay long....just like I’m forcing her.

Roroapple:
Bro another man is in her life trust me on this

hummmmmm...what makes you say so?bro

Frankicent:
ondo girls and Ibadan girls in general are very local and weird. They'll just create un necessary beef with you... Very st*pid beef that will shock you.
They can insult and swear for you eh. it as if they created with it..

You might even play with then.. na beef..

I don't know what's bad taking pix with another girl.... bros lock that girl jawe she will just give you HPB...

It pained her that she even threaten to tear your money..


Jealous woman can kill you.

lock as how?bro

CsRockefeller:
See eh OP; there are two kinds of people I can't stand, those who get angry easily, and those who aren't respectful. Somehow, the later is always synonymous with a person who has the former.

When I was in school, there was this course mate of mine, an Igbo girl. She was rich and very annoying, also gets easily angry like your GF and disrespectful. Due to the fact that I no too hold and was kinda brilliant, I sucked it in.

She would buy me food and all while we studied together. She's a good person, but my Dear, anytime you do a small mistake, you would see her other side. Wahalai, I suffered, I was even older than her but she was always there when I needed a helping hand.

This continued till we graduated. I thought that small child attitude has left her but I was wrong. Few months back we kinda reconnected and she suggested we see, I proposed a fast food, she agreed. Later she suddenly changed that she wants to see a movie, I said ok, let's meet at Ikeja, she said no that she wants the mall at Surulere, I said ok, no problem.

Few days to the event, I was short on cash on and notified her that we move it to the following week, she snapped and told me to forget about everything, me I kuku lock up. She didn't reply my messages for about 2 months.

One day, I decided to try again, I sent her a message apologising for what happened the other time so as not to spoil the friendship, she said I should first send her money before she forgives me. I just laughed it off.

My advice is you stay away from that girl, her type will give you too many dramas, insults and headache.

hummmmm you really nailed it bro...thanks in a million brother.

aminusodiq:
Leave her... Dont call or text... Her brain needs restructuring

Thanks very much bro...y’all just sounding really well and intelligent...thanks very much!!!!kudos to you all.

MARX77:
Ignoring is good, nice one. But after that... Sit her down and drive sense into her... And baba... Nor dey too show Love... Nor be everybody dey mature enough to handle excess Love, she go feel say u be mumu. I greet u chief.

asin I don’t just know how to thank you bro...nairaland is full with guys with brains and maturity...with good thinking...you guys really bursted my brain today.....OMG!thanks alot guys.

MightySirKay:
Hmm. Stay with her if you don't want to have peace of mind. Only 10% of girls in their 20s have sense. Stop wasting your time and money. Focus on something productive and dump her ass if she decides not to mend her ways. Shalom

thanks very much for your advice bro....you’re all talking sense here..I’m not regretting being on nairaland for an advice.

MARX77:
Forgive me if I judge u wrongly but e be like say u dey show too much weakness for this girl front. Sit her down and with a very stern look, talk sense into her. If she nor dey hear that one, use shout take follow her up.

Be like she don see u finish. Update me later boss

thanks very much bro.....I don’t really expect her to be doing this shit to me bro...I take good care of this girl well...I give her before she asks bro...I really did care for her both financially and materially bro...I do everything she wants..but I don’t understand..like maybe she thinks I’m sacred to loose her...have decided not to even pick her calls again nor reply her texts for days...