@DonOvero
I read your replies and I see you are trying too hard that there is nothing like juju etc, Some how I believe you are trying to convince yourself. My friend, there are certain things in life that has since passed the stage of arguing because they've long been settled,  eg, the Bible, the forces of evil, good, bad, juju, etc
I also live in the West (maybe longer than you) but I don’t accept everything said by the western scientist,  You know why? Cos I also read and do my own researches, watch Discovery Channel where there are so many things Western science has no answer to. So trying to answer everything with western science is rather funny as we have not only. Western Science, but Eastern Science, African Science,   There are thousands of things happening in Indian that defies western science (I watch a lot of these on discovery) Have you also heard of Ritual Killings in Africa? Well what do these people do with parts of a human bosom? Head? etc, cos it's obviously not for food,  So before you go saying what fantasy is or what it is not, I suggest you do some research on them. By the way I am a Christian and I believe very much in God almighty but there are dark forces, juju etc,  And you don’t even have to argue about people bringing or stopping Rain,  In Naija it's so common like the sight of "Big Ben"  ,  When ever you feel like traveling to Naija to see this with your own eyes holla!,   Saying the West will pay for such a feat is so way off!!!  These things are not natural, so there are laws guiding them,  Finally from your post, it shows that you know so little of the West, if not you will know they are deep into the Occult.  Have you heard of "Freemason" before?  Well it is Occultism and some of the most powerful people in the world are members including Presidents of the United States, Politicians, Musicians… So my friend do some research and understand the world you are living in…
Peace

@lonelypal
this is the funniest thead I have ever read here cos I was trying to figure out why you wanna call it quits and why she is asking you for forgiveness. I mean what are you forgiving her for? For being honest? You said you are 26, but you are acting like 15yr old kid. Pls grow up! If you want a virgin, then pls go for one, otherwise accept your girlfriend for being truthful to you, and it's that honesty that will keep a relationship true, Dont loose a good girl because of some stupidity that doesnt make sense cos you will live to regret it, If you wanna chat/talk send ur email and I will mail for ur number and call you, By the time we are done you will rush back to her arms I guarantee you that

Ladyjide (f)
Oh excreta, Now you are talking crazy, i will pass on the white meat!!! Thanks but no thanks!!! I am single but never desperate!!


The same you that wants a good man, would come out so strong against God's creation because of his skin colour hmmm!!! Untill you see everyone as the same regardless of skin colour you might miss out the best things in life, untill you are ready to date/marry outside your type, you might not be truely ready as you sound. and it's not desperation to date outside your type, some people I know who married outside their race and living in what you might call a fantasy world, and yes some where once like you 5yrs ago, but then there are certain things you just cant wish or force, I wish you luck (thats me on my profile)
, Bless

1)Is the institution called marriage worth the stress and troubles therein ?
Woman was created to be the help mate of man (My belief) and the union called marriage is a beautiful one,  The reason why some marriage suffer is because people become selfish and think of I, instead of us. Both of them are one flesh,  another reason is break down in communication, lots of people talk, but they dont communicate

2)Would it be a crime if a Nigerian man chooses to remain single for life ?
Not it wont be a crime,  But can the man just remain single and stay alone? wont he be sleeping around with other women that would someday be wives to those that wants to be married? Why taste if you dont want to buy, catch my drift?

3)Can't a Nigerian man just have his children to himself without the mother(s) of the children coming every now and then bugging for one thing or the other or coming over to say hi to her child(ren)?
Does this even make sense to you? She is the mother of the kids for crying out loud! She has the same right as the man, and in some countries even more rights, the man did it for 30mins, but she carried the seed in her womb for 9months

Having answered you questions, I have to say this, you cant use your friend to judge all marriage as there are so many people that are happily married and are enjoying it every day of thier lives,  Ask your friend to retrace his steps and find out were it all went wrong. It cant all be the wife's fault,  he was once in love with the woman, so where did it all go wrong?  The woman once loved him too, so what happend? It' not about running to friends and drink, but facing the problem head on and deal with it. I truely believe your friend can fix his home if he works hard on it

Really sorry to hear your sad experience,
Still I have to say this, lots of men are still faithful to their wives, and yes so many men can and are still contoling "That thing" between their legs, and strange as this may sound to you, some even refuse the advances of girls that wanna sleep with them just for the fun of it. So for every bad guy, there are lots of good guys to compliment them, and this is not fairytale but reality cos I know.

Assumption is a biatch! A pic is posted and everybody is commenting, Did anyone stop to think that they might not even be couples?

Some of you people here are so funny. Now where did you get your statistics? And what would you say if I told you most of my friends are happy with their wives and girlfriends?, If your statistics is right how come so many people are still getting married? So they can experience unhappiness is that it? Imagine saying unhappy homes could also be reason for the spread of HIV, So the cheating husbands never heard of the word CONDOMS before.. Yeah right! Tell your friend to trace his steps back, sit his wife down and try to communicate, So many people confuse talking with communication

I would think after a beautiful 5yrs together you guys would be planning a life time commitment ie getting married etc, so what if during your exploring you fall in love with another? same with her? Are you willing to take that chance? And what if your new love last 6months and she kicks u out, while hers goes fine or the other way round? There are risk involved in stuff like this so you should think properly, Truth is you can never truely get tired of a woman (u love) body, Its all about getting creative, its all in the mind, Wish u guys luck

Says who?
I dont know where y'all get your statistics from, as kids you tend to do that, but once you are matured the game change, It takes abosolutely nothing from you to say Sorry and all the guys I know do apologise to their wives or girlfriends, So if you are still on that puppy love ish i can understand

@vivialadiva
U sure know what u want, also love the way u and 5star going at each other,
Still I would love to know why you are not a friendly person? First time I am actually seeing somebody admiting that. Personally, I am very friendly, hope nothing wrong wif that
Holla

Spain has scored o!, We are meeting Spain for the Finals

Hp Oranje!

Non stop celebration lol

No be small thing!!

Yes O!!!

For stealing the Match from Ghana right before our eyes, WE sent Uruguay home by beating them 3-2. Now we must bring the CUP HOME!

I think he was decleared the best footballer in Germany where he plays
Yes he is our top man!

We beat Brazil 2-1 Jare! So everbody gats to smile and accept the result,

At the end we trash the 2-1 so it's party and posing

The Brazilians were beating us 1-0 here, So their smile abi na laugh no gree stop

The Brazilians were beating us 1-0 here, So all man concentrate dey watch!

Here the tension was still on, Brazil was winning 1-0

Its party time, 2-1 Jare!

Oranje! Who Wan Try Us?
Beating the Almighty Brazilians (2-1) was just too much!  Nobody gave us any chance of winning this match. If this is all we achieved in this world cup, I say we have truly Triumphed! Give it up for our boys!!!!   HUP ORANJE! Come join the Party in Eindhoven,  City of  Philips

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Pastors should be at the forefront of the affairs of the nation. They should condemn any government holding God's people hostage. I hold Tunde Bakare in high esteem and may God continue to give him the courage to push on. Martin Luther fought the old church to bring changes and rescue people from the evil clutches of the old church. Martin Luther King fought racism, Desmond tutu did the same, If these Pastor only prayed and fasted we wouldn't have the freedom we have today. If you see something wrong, don't just pray and fast, but also speak against it. If a quarter of Nigerian pastors were as bold as Bakare maybe the country wouldn't be in shambles,

I truly believe pastors in Nigeria can change the destiny of this country for good, and not just by fasting and praying but by marching, protesting and speaking up against the evils of our politicians. We should stop being stupid and saying pastors should not delve into politics. (chai! i cant believe there are people who still think this way)