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Leonstar:
Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.

We had another one night stand and she said she was done with it, I just realized that it would seem like she wasn't comfortable with this whole thing but I made up my mind not to get involved n hope to God that she gets an apartment soonest and maybe by then she would know that I'm serious and I mean that about her, I think she might prefer an elderly man to me..... So I'm going "cold turkey" mode to make sure that I try my best to get her off my mind...... I think she may be scarred based on her past experience..... Really wished she could appreciate life with me...... I have tried playing CoD on my PS4 but I can't get her off my head...... It's going to take a while but I will surely get her off my mind.

chatinent:
That brother-in-law is a brainy one. He didn't have to talk much but waybill his cousin sister ready to settle down to you with a guise of no accommodation!

I guess he trusts you'll make a good husband.


BTW, I don't support premarital sex.


Her recent attitude after the act, I think, is to build the remaining fallen blocks of her pride.

My crazy opinions tho.

Yeah, I thought so.......But I just wished she could just communicate with me freely......... Some of the times that I worry her is because I thought she was giving me a greenlight or sort since she's not so vocal but I guess it was just sleep n all.

donstan18:
Una preeeq no dey ever rest??

Your sister’s husband asked for a favor to accommodate his cousin for few days till she settles, you don begin fvck fvck am dey worry am.



Nawao!!

I'm sure familiarity contributed to this because it's been almost 4 months now + I just need closure!!!

Hey everybody, So I have this issue that you all can help me with. I stay in Akure in my late twenties doing okay at work and all. Then my sister's husband called me to assist him with a favour saying his cousin who is a single mother (though her child is with the father at Jos) will be coming to Akure because she has a 7 months contract with one of these big farms here so she might need a place to crash for the weekend till the firm gets a temporary accommodation where she will be staying.

The long and short of the matter is that she has been in my place for the past 3 months and she has been really nice and maybe I might have caught some feelings along the way and we might have had a one night stand which might have been one of the most amazing nights for me since I'm so busy that I don't get to have much social life.

Now, here is the thing!!! After that night, I have made several attempts to get her on but to no avail, always rejecting the offer and threaten to report to her cousin. She might be older than me, almost sure of that and she is quite pretty. Before that night, I also asked her to be FwB (Friends with Benefit) which she didn't have a problem with that so it is not as if I forced it on her......... I really told her that I needed a companion, she actually made me realized that (FYI, no serious relationship).

She is nice and really kind (She might have a bf somewhere though). I just want to know what I did wrong since she can't tell me and how I can remedy that without making her feel uncomfortable in my place.