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Ekaette pls come and test the new panties i bought for you lemme know if its ur size jare. Don't know the type of nonsense threads these nairaland people are opening

Mumu poster, whats ur business with the way people choose to pose for a photograph Btw its a 'random' photograph and not a passport photograph so leave people let them pose the way they want!

Iyandasdiary: Dear readers,

I am married with three kids. I have a good and God fearing husband. In fact, you wouldn’t be more proud of a husband. He is just one of a kind and I wish we could last forever until recently that it dawned on me that my marriage is at stake.

My husband used to be the manager of a popular bank in Nigeria. During this period, I was still in my 100level in the university. He gave me a lot of support back then and because of him, I was able to live large among my friends.
Some of them often try so hard to get his attention but, he was so into me that he didn’t give in to any of them. He made me happy and I was so proud of him.

Despite the storms and squalls that tripped in along the way, we were determined to be together so, we overcame it.
Time flew and I graduated with a second class upper. I felt so fulfilled that I swore not to start any work that offers me less than 150,000 naira for a start as a fresh graduate with a second class upper credit.

I stood by my slogan and I was eventually employed with a monthly pay of 200,000 naira. I felt on top of the world and my husband was happy for me.

We felt that we were ripe for marriage and we settled for it. We had a son soon after our wedding and we all lived happily. Our son went to one of, if not the best school in the neighbourhood. Soon after, I got pregnant again. It was then that I experienced the first moment of sadness in our home.

My husband came back home on that fateful day and broke the news to me that he has been sacked from work. He further explained that there was a huge amount of money missing in the bank which he could not account for. According to him, the withdrawal of that cash was signed by him. but, he swore with God that he didn’t know anything about it. I believed him though but, nothing could have been done so we left everything to God.

Pending the time that my husband was jobless, I made sure the house was balanced. When I gave birth to our second daughter, it was I who took responsibility for the naming ceremony but, nobody knew about it. And whenever I received my salary, I share it into two and give him one part.

I helped a great deal in finding the new job he got shortly after the naming of our daughter. They were paying him 50,000 naira monthly. It was the highest offer so far so he had to take it anyway. And with that, I stopped sharing my own salary with him. After all, he had his own was what I thought. But, I didn’t stop all the support I render at home for any reason. I thought I was a good woman.

Recently, I started noticing my husband’s change in attitude. I tried to understand that he may be frustrated but, it wasn’t helping. He started missing some nights out and all of a sudden stopped making love to me. Whenever our kids ask him for something, he’ll frankly tell them to go to their mum. “After all, she’s the breadwinner of the family.” My husband would say.

Now, I feel very uncomfortable in the house. I even tried to ask him where I have gone wrong but, he doesn’t even pay attention to me anymore. I feel terrible right now and I don’t know what to do.

Dear Iyanda readers, please help me out. Should I quit my job or just maintain it and watch my marriage cramp?

SOURCE :www.iyandasdiary.com

Like this post if u also think the highlighted part is the reason for her husband's behaviour

Ekaette pls come and test this new panties i bought for u lemme know if its ur size jare. I don't know what this nairaland people are posting. I wonder what is our business if 2shotz beat osu or not

This nollywood people are taking their viewers for a ride o! How can they name a movie ''soldier ants'' bikonuu Thats how the other day i saw a new nollywood movie title ''Limpopo babes'' just imagine!!

joyli: *The New maga*

Am telling you Btw was it not this same lola alao that advised single ladies that, if a married man makes them happy they should go for him! Which responsible girl would say such a thing Anyways, i pity the man sha, thats why its good for men to make enquiries about the lady he intends getting 'serious' with. Am sure in this man's mind she is the best thing that happened since 'point and kill'

texaco1: She dey craazE .watching that her yeye stretch marks nyansh!even the porn sef she no fit act am well.watching her porn is like watching an horron film

nikkyshyne: Oh! So you've been watching her movies?

BUSTED

Conductor abeg give me my change i wan stop here

So this dude has aids like this

Truly Truly Aids nor dey show for face o!

Ekaette pls come inside my room and test the new panties i bought for u lemme know if its ur size Ojare, i dont know what this people are posting on nairaland

Nkechi pls come inside and test the new panties i bought for u i dont know what this people are posting on nairaland

Conductor abeg give me change i wan stop here

*Holds nose*......This thread stinks badly

Back then in school if i couldn't answer a question in class, i playfully try to dodge the question by telling the lecturer to ask me something harder

vannieberry: She's preety. Hs she given birth?

Yes, she has two kids for him!

This geh is not fine Allah!

Attention seeker!

Yomieluv: Daughter or sister?if na daughter, it means e don tay Genny don know man be dat.

Thats why i call her loose p***** in almost all the threads that has to do with her! At age 16, when her secondary mates were busy studying for jamb and other external exams, she was busy opening her legs for a man! Now many years down the line she is forming 'classy' actress...........Classy my foot!

I will 'deal' with her ''personally''

Okada abeg stop me here

The car is UGLY tho

Juni4jay: i'm addicted to GOD!

Mintayo: I am addicted to JESUS!

HYPOCRITES!!!

I'm addicted to fine girls, sex, money and making music beats

Okada abeg stop me here

Stories that touch!

Photoshop jare!

What shall it profit a man to gain the whole world and lose his soul

Very Typical! Girls don't like admitting they were dumped by a guy who they had a relationship with! They would rather claim they 'dumped' the guy to save pride, where as if one researches well, one would find out that the man or men they supposedly dumped didn't give a sh.it about them in the first place!

Tolexander: if this guy is not making his usual comedy, it makes sense giving his mum that amount.

I trust some guys, na chika, sara and iyabo go carry the whole money.

You forgot to add blackberry and ashawo joint

1st to comment o! Nice pix by the way!